bro, you are one of the few cats who know the elephant in the room and want to talk about it. men approach women all the time, mostly because that is the way everyone seems to have been taught. occasionally a sadie hawkins will break out of the box, but that is not the norm. it is what it is and you wont change it no matter how many roof tops you shout it from

bro, females don't have to mate with the alpha male to insure survival of the species anymore. that's why "nice guys" get laid once in a while, aholes get laid all the time, and cats like you struggle with a place like this

your main problem is that you want to get laid in a place where women have too many options. they have too much time to think. they have too many other women posting and messaging them with advice. look at the success thread on this site

the women that want to get with cats like you don't get on a site like this. they don't even get on craigslist. bro, the kind of women you want are found local. best way to zero in on are where they are is word of mouth. i guarantee i guarantee that other cats like you are in your area and love to talk (some in detail) about the notches on their bedposts

i almost hated to post this, because like some other people here i find your posts entertaining. hope you get the kind of girls you are looking for where you are, and your life stays unfulfilling enough that you continue to post here in your own special way. godspeed, bulldog

(bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

I don't like chocolate chip cookies..

In all seriousness, this is a facetious thread, right?

You're crying because women your age(34)have kids and they don't read your emails? Ha! Ha! You really need to look in the mirror Freddy Krueger....

To tell you the truth red your pic scares the baagingars out of me.

I wonder sometimes if red is just saying the same things that some women complain of...but from a man's perspective
but for a man to complain if those things comes off as a joke....

other times I think he is specifically trying to be a smart a s s, but at the same time attempting to come off as serious

The author of the OP enjoys pretending to be the village idiot.
It is a silly job, but someone has to do it.

Humm redmist just likes to get a rise out of people and must say he does a good job at it... To a point it is entertaining then it's like ohhh nooo now what

I just enjoy the fact that he's from Kent.

And you Kent get enough of him.

Mariasfantasy. I'm only a plane trip away my darling.

Uh oh. A Love Connection.

Oy.

Be the Gent from Kent... from where plane tickets were Sent.