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Topic: would u want to know.....
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Mon 09/24/07 11:22 AM
If your gf was cheating on you?? Would you want to tell your cousin whos more of a brother to you than a cousin that you had proof that the girl he loves and wants to be with is cheating on him?

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Mon 09/24/07 11:27 AM
I would want to know!!!

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Mon 09/24/07 11:28 AM
If he is your relative- and you are 100% sure about it-
He would probbly want you to tell him...

But then again- he may dislike you for it- or not believe you.
If he really cares for this lady.

This is really a tough question. To say something or be quite.
If I was in that position- I would want someone to tell me...

Goodluck..

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Mon 09/24/07 11:29 AM
YES

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Mon 09/24/07 11:29 AM
I would tell him! He has a right to know....Just make sure you have all of the facts straight!

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Mon 09/24/07 11:30 AM
show him your proof

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Mon 09/24/07 11:30 AM
I would say...if you had PROOF, then I would let him know, otherwise he might not want to believe you. Lets face it...who wants to get HURT!!!

flowerforyou

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Mon 09/24/07 11:31 AM
I would definitely want to know.. I've been in that situation and its a hard decision to make..i ended up telling my best friend and she appreciated it in the end..

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Mon 09/24/07 11:32 AM
ahhhhhhhhh tough call.....I would want to know. But you better have 100% proof. Like the others said, he may hate you for it but in the end will prolly thank you.......

Just say.....dood......bro.....I know you dont want to hear this, and I dont want to hurt you befcause your my best bud, but.......flowerforyou

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Mon 09/24/07 11:33 AM
I would want to know

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Mon 09/24/07 11:34 AM
yeah id wanna know

then id slice her toys off so she couldnt enjoy them again :smile: devil happy

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Mon 09/24/07 11:34 AM
Well ,, if it was me I would say be carefull cuase if ya tell him and he goes back to her then you are mud ,,,eventual....Then again maybe let him stumble on it himself by leading him down the right path so to speak


<<<<dont do love triangles BAd vodoo I say

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Mon 09/24/07 11:34 AM
Well ,, if it was me I would say be carefull cuase if ya tell him and he goes back to her then you are mud ,,,eventual....Then again maybe let him stumble on it himself by leading him down the right path so to speak


<<<<dont do love triangles BAd vodoo I say

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Mon 09/24/07 11:38 AM
I was the one cheated on and no one told me, and everyone new about it. I felt about stupid. I would have been happier if i would have know instead of a year later finding out that everyone knew except me. I could have made better desicions. Now it's hard to trust him and it is hard since it has been so long. Just think that's what he will feel like if you don't, she will slip up and then he will be pissed cause you didn't tell him. You knew about it the whole time. He might not believe you at first but once the proof sinks in he will.:smile:

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Mon 09/24/07 11:39 AM
Ive got proof to show him and im not the only one that knows what shes doing.

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Mon 09/24/07 11:39 AM
I agree with Budda, it is a difficult situation and I would say be tactful, because if your cousin then forgives their partner,then makes you the enemy, even if not intentional. Yes, I think you should help them find out but not be the one to tell.

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Mon 09/24/07 11:41 AM
Crystal did you call me Budda LMAO u dubba hahahahahaahahaa

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Mon 09/24/07 11:43 AM
LMFAOlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
It wasn't intentional, I promise!!!laugh laugh

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Mon 09/24/07 11:45 AM
laugh crystal!

Nice blooper!

Who knew the Buddha would be posting on JSH as shirtless man in Florida! laugh laugh

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Mon 09/24/07 11:46 AM
Hi Bay:happy

OMG, I couldn't stop laughing. True dislexialaugh laugh

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