Lol whatever floats your boat a?!

I have one but we live a million miles apart so it would never work. Such is life

Boy can i relate to THAT! When i first started mingals i did that,wasnt thinking at that moment and it was the first time doing the "online thing",but once i was in i felt an obligation to not back out,i can deal with a little distance,but like SIX hours difrience in time zones???That wouldnt be the wises thing,atleast to START a relationship,unless one is moving to the other!!!

I think you undervalue yourself. You might be happily surprised that your crush could like you right back.




I would add that I've noticed many people on the threads mention things about being less than someone they might like. Be proud of who you are. If you are true to yourself, you'll find there are people who like you as you are.

CONFIDENCE

To you and all the mingle buddies who think like this, what if instead of a broken heart you find fulfillment because that person thinks of you too?

Just one HOTT.....Chic........J/S.....

I'm not allowing myself to crush.
If I start getting that crushy feeling,
I find a nice cactus patch, and roll around in it.
That usually cures me.

That would realy be perfect ,you know whats frustrating?ever had a crush on someone but you never tell them but you both have like a sertan connection ? Cud be somthin like the way you look at each other and smile,but you almost sertan that they feelin the same way,but then know one wants to make the first move caus they feel they juuusst might be wrong,or because it takes you out of your comfort zone,happens to me often,am getting a little better with it though,usualy we're(guys)sopose to make the first move,i also noticed that i have more sucsess OUT of my comfort zone!!!!

None so far. I'm still howling about

I know what you mean,but just might be someone on here that have one on YOU ,lol never know,some folks here aint callin names,sooo,i aint know!

Well I did till I read through this

Its hard with the distance thing, so not really about finding my alpha. But its fun sniffin' around the forum

Holy Sieve BatPancho!

Crush .. nah .. it is good to be on the same page.

Crushes are for kids "silly rabbit"
Hmmm.wait a minute that's strippers are For kids...hmmm.no its"trixs"performed by strippers,that's for kids

It surely saves alot of time ,for me it usualy means comin out my comfort zone,its worth it though!!!

Well I don't do crushes. That word sounds like a childhood thing...lol There have been two great men enter my life and I have grown from both of them.

The first one is one that will always hold a special place in my heart
He knows exactly who he is, as well as my feelings about him, as I have told him and he does not need to be called out on it.

The second one is amazing and he has made me feel important and knows what it takes to build a strong, worthwhile relationship.
Again, not calling him out because he knows exactly who he is and also knows what I think about him.

I personally feel life is so very short and our time on here is limited.
Grab the bull by the horns and go for it, so to speak (that is how I feel).
I have done this and am not ashamed to say so.
How will anyone know if you don't tell them?
I thought about what would happen if I didn't and what could have been.
A chance at what I seek is much better than no chance at all.
At the end of the day, I am here first and foremost to find a partner in crime.
The friends that I have made here are added bonuses.

I did it sorta...well it was mutual....

Here's a little more detail to my answer. There's a fondness for many people here. Admiration for both men and women. With the women, there are many I admire and can learn from a little.
With some of the people, they are kind of like a bird with a broken wing, I often think I would like to nurture them.
With the guys I admire, they've shown they are true to themselves.
Sending everybody a big hug.