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Edited by
0ldhag
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Ill say that a number one reason people get dumped is because (IMO) of self loathing. . BUT, how can you honestly feel comfortable watching a movie starring Jessica alba, only to go home and have the man you're sharing yourself with more than likely fantasize about her? Fantasizing over someone in a movie is one thing ( i'd probably have fantasized over the lead actor too) but for me it's when you walk past a pretty girl... because that girl is more 'real' then the ones in the movie, she/those are the ones that concern me regarding his fantasizing...I truly believe in the end, men aren't satisfied with what they have ..but of course, it goes both ways as well I guess.. |
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Ill say that a number one reason people get dumped is because (IMO) of self loathing. . BUT, how can you honestly feel comfortable watching a movie starring Jessica alba, only to go home and have the man you're sharing yourself with more than likely fantasize about her? Fantasizing over someone in a movie is one thing ( i'd probably have fantasized over the lead actor too) but for me it's when you walk past a pretty girl... because that girl is more 'real' then the ones in the movie, she/those are the ones that concern me regarding his fantasizing...I truly believe in the end, men aren't satisfied with what they have ..but of course, it goes both ways as well I guess.. It's unacceptable in both situations. I've dumped plenty of guys over it. |
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Fantasies are exactly that (unreal)! There are a lot of beautiful Women here on mingle and in all countries around the world!! But how good are they where it counts(on the inside) that's all that matters to me!! Age plays tricks on a person as they grow OLDER, some hold their looks well but the body has a different outlook on your physical capability on or in a relationship! Then there's the mentality on why you want a relationship in the first place, love,money companionship, whatever your material needs are even raising children ! This nowadays goes for both Men and Women! Of course Vanity rules every time( i'm too good) for him or her? Good question here is, How the Hell Will You ever Know if You Don't Try?
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Fantasies are exactly that (unreal)! There are a lot of beautiful Women here on mingle and in all countries around the world!! But how good are they where it counts(on the inside) that's all that matters to me!! Age plays tricks on a person as they grow OLDER, some hold their looks well but the body has a different outlook on your physical capability on or in a relationship! Then there's the mentality on why you want a relationship in the first place, love,money companionship, whatever your material needs are even raising children ! This nowadays goes for both Men and Women! Of course Vanity rules every time( i'm too good) for him or her? Good question here is, How the Hell Will You ever Know if You Don't Try? You don't try.. the minute I sense a guy is looking elsewhere he can stay away from me.. which is why in order to not get dumped.. I'm going to invest in plastic surgery.. (since vanity rules) |
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Edited by
seethestar
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Mon 07/14/14 06:28 AM
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fantasy is not infidelity. On the other hand if you think he has to fantasize about another woman to enjoy sex with you, thats different. That would be more like not a match than the infidelity being the problem. would it be wrong if he fantasized about being in the tropics while having sex with you in his bedroom? its just imagination. As long as he knows he's with you why worry about the things that pass through his mind. At least hes thinking about something instead of a bump on a log. At the same time, if he is chronically checking out other women while dining with you or something similar, thats disrespectful. Its also a sign that he is not fully IN the relationship with you. It's NOT ok EVER.. I think true equal love is reserved for the extremely beautiful. |
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Edited by
seethestar
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Mon 07/14/14 06:46 AM
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Well.. all in all you really still have to be beautiful to land 'em.. and when they get tired of ya, or you so much as sense their eyes wandering (looking at other women, porn hanging with single friends) you CUT 'EM LOOSE NOT JUST give 'em enough rope to hang themselves. .
...I remember some loser wanted to take me to a flippin' Beyonce concert.. I told him to never call me again. I think he wanted to be with me that night while fantasizing about her.. |
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Often I think people just start taking each other for granted and forget to try anymore, eventually leading to one of the couple finding someone new or becoming tired of the relationship. I agree with Josie but I think taking someone for granted or making them feel like the friendship is not important even for a shorter term relationship as well as a marriage or LTR I think it's the #1 reason even over cheating because taking someone for granted often lies behind the cheating behavior |
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Often I think people just start taking each other for granted and forget to try anymore, eventually leading to one of the couple finding someone new or becoming tired of the relationship. I agree with Josie but I think taking someone for granted or making them feel like the friendship is not important even for a shorter term relationship as well as a marriage or LTR I think it's the #1 reason even over cheating because taking someone for granted often lies behind the cheating behavior It begins and ends with beauty |
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Edited by
willing2
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Mon 07/14/14 07:49 AM
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In most cases exterior beauty fades.
And this is what happens when that beautiful woman opens her mouth. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9NF5XU-k2Vk Sing along. Jimmy Soul – If You Wanna Be Happy If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you A pretty woman makes her husband look small And very often causes his downfall As soon as he marries her then she starts To do the things that will break his heart But if you make an ugly woman your wife you'll be happy for the rest of your life An ugly woman cooks meals on time And she'll always give you peace of mind If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you Sax solo Don't let your friends say you have no taste Go ahead and marry anyway Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match Take it from me, she's a better catch If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you Spoken: Say man! Hey baby! I saw your wife the other day! Yeah? Yeah, an' she's ug-leeee! Yeah, she's ugly, but she sure can cook, baby! Yeah, alright! If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you |
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I think people are more caught up in looks than getting to know the person.
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Edited by
seethestar
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Mon 07/14/14 08:13 AM
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that's because beauty is the ugly truth of it all.. it really is.. anything else is secondary
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Fantasies are exactly that (unreal)! There are a lot of beautiful Women here on mingle and in all countries around the world!! But how good are they where it counts(on the inside) that's all that matters to me!! Age plays tricks on a person as they grow OLDER, some hold their looks well but the body has a different outlook on your physical capability on or in a relationship! Then there's the mentality on why you want a relationship in the first place, love,money companionship, whatever your material needs are even raising children ! This nowadays goes for both Men and Women! Of course Vanity rules every time( i'm too good) for him or her? Good question here is, How the Hell Will You ever Know if You Don't Try? You don't try.. the minute I sense a guy is looking elsewhere he can stay away from me.. which is why in order to not get dumped.. I'm going to invest in plastic surgery.. (since vanity rules) |
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The surprised catfish look is all the rage where I come from...I can't wait until mayonaise will replace all the rat semen fillers! Better yet go through all the condiments, more options more results.
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... you're just not hot enough. . Speaking about myself here, too Personally I find this somewhat out of touch with reality. Any PUA will and can demonstrate that looks don't matter |
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Looks are ALL that matter
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Looks are ALL that matter Keep that in mind for when what was once perky sags and flaps in the wind |
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Because we all like hyde but nobody likes jeckle
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Or was it the other way around
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Because we all like hyde but nobody likes jeckle Most women want the bad boy, Mr. Hyde. That is, until they catch him. Then, they wind up spending their elderly years no-lifing on dating sites. |
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