the kind I don't have to pay for..

Really is love ever actually balanced......

It doesn't have to be perfectly balanced. What's important is that you both put equal effort in trying to achieve the balance. We all make mistakes and have our selfish moments nut when those moments become routine or interrupting those moments on purpose... Then you have problems. You should see and treat your lover as and equal then you and the love can grow together.

It doesn't have to be perfectly balanced. What's important is that you both put equal effort in trying to achieve the balance. We all make mistakes and have our selfish moments nut when those moments become routine or interrupting those moments on purpose... Then you have problems. You should see and treat your lover as and equal then you and the love can grow together.


Omgggg at last someone who knows the meaning of relationships.....kudos....

Maybe maybe not but look how many woman are dead set lunatics when a bloke ends the relationship.

So true .....Galaxy.......

BINGO

Yikes on that......

I see galaxies everywhere in this piece......

Lol.....

..and you n n n n KNOWS it..

Is from cats

K you silly cat woman........I'm off to bed chica.....stay beautiful......

Nite beautiful Merc.......I have you and yours always in my thought mate.......

Xoxo hunny bunny

Free love...man

Good night beautiful and thank you

For me it would just be reciprocated love within the relationship.

Not necessarily.

Let's say it's a given that behind every successful man is a strong woman. And most women like to control our homes and families our own way.

Whether its making sure everything has a place and it always stays organized and immaculate. To where the kids get their education and the hobbies and clubs they choose to take part in. What kind of pet, if any, can be added to the family as extra responsibility. Keeping a tight reign on the finances to make sure all the bills and necessities can be met and paid on time. Choosing their man's clothes if he doesn't have the right flair for whatever occasion.

And the man loves and respects his woman's tastes and decisions because he sees that she can handle all the little details he might overlook while focusing on his career. He may also see that her choices are more conducive to the quality of lifestyle he prefers for himself and his family.

Let's just imagine this to be one scenario.

In a relationship where the man loves his woman more because she has made his life relatively easy by the amount of support (not necessarily financial) that she gives him, he can become complacent and take her for granted over time even though his love and respect is growing deeper the more he sees his woman can achieve without his guidance.

While she can become even stronger by carrying the majority of the weight of their relationship/family decisions/functions on her shoulders. Which could inadvertently lead her to feel a little resentful that his responsibilities are so minimal. She could also become easily bored and lose respect for him as he becomes more dependent on her.

I can't speak for other women, but for myself, even though I prefer to be the stronger partner when it pertains to certain details, if need be, a man that relinquishes his authority and by so doing a level of his masculinity because he loves my ability to prop him up better, feels more like a leech not a lover after a certain point.

And when/if I can't rely on him for his emotional support, strength of character, and sharing equally of the family responsibilities the imbalance makes me feel depleted. While being able to lead a man around by his... whatever... is not enough of a challenge to hold my interest long term.

Despite how strong and capable I might be I still want/need to feel and be treated like a woman who can drop the ball occasionally. And when I do I can rest assured that my man is just as capable of picking it up and getting it through the goal posts for the both of us.

If he can't then I'm not with the right man, regardless to how much more he may love me. And I will eventually leave an unbalanced relationship because a one-sided anything just isn't worth the effort to maintain its longevity.

Do you mean like if you dye your hair blonde and I go omg your hair looks so awesome blonde? because I can totally do that.


just let me know if you're going to come home from work unexpectedly because you know, wouldn't want you to catch anything you didn't really want to see...


tanz you're playing the fake game, even if you win, you lose.

Love comes in all degrees.......