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Now that's Funny
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I just like a good sausage thread......
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An acquaintance in work has this saying. It goes 'why settle for the pig when you can have the sausage'? What she means by this is that while she wants someone in her life, she just can't see herself living with someone again and (worse case scenario) turning into someone who picks up his socks, puts the toilet seat down after him and makes his dinners. To a certain extent, I agree. In the here and now, despite wanting a relationship, for various reasons, I can't see myself living with someone again and turning into a reincarnation of a 21st century Stepford wife - and I know relationships don't have to be that way but I am of a certain age and a nurturer so for me, I do have Stepford wife tendencies.... Which is why I can see myself in a committed relationship but living in separate households. What about you? Do you want the pig or the sausage? If you aren't willing to commit your heart to him? How could you possibly expect him to commit his to yours? What would be the point of this kind of relationship in the long run? Yeah of course relationships start out this way, but you're stating it as that's all you want. How would this accomplish anything later in life in this same context? Do you not want to grow old with someone? What do you feel needs to be accomplished later in life that needs a different kind of relationship? Lots of people are in committed relationships, yet don't live with each other. Does that mean they're really alone in your eyes? My response was to the following the rest of her statement in a related view. An acquaintance in work has this saying. It goes 'why settle for the pig when you can have the sausage'? Which translates to sleeping around. Why take the whole person eg., have a relationship when she can settle for the sausage only eg., sex. So I posed the question(s) that I posed in a sort of hypothetical/derogatory form of way. It's not just the living together or not, heck that wasn't even in any part of the equation in my response nor was it mentioned prior lol. Do people not feel the desire to spend and share their life with one other person to have a life of beautiful memories? Or do people these days just wish to have fun and get whatever form of "joy" they can get but still end up feeling empty? They feel empty and alone at the end of the day because "just for sex" will never fill that void inside of you. And wanting the sausage and discarding the pig in this example is just that, just going for the sex. And again at the end of the day no matter how many times that person had sex that day, no matter how many orgasms that day, or even possibly no matter how many people they slept with that day. They will still feel just as empty and alone if not more that night when they lay their head to sleep. |
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This got deeeeeeep.......
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This got deeeeeeep....... That's usually what happens after talking bout... umm... sausage. |
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This got deeeeeeep....... That's usually what happens after talking bout... umm... sausage. I hope it's Vienna........ 
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This got deeeeeeep....... That's usually what happens after talking bout... umm... sausage. lol but on a more serious note. This is actually a good discussion to be having go on. I personally do feel that's what has gone wrong with the world in the dating scene at least. And the increase in divorces, relationships not lasting, and so on and so on. I believe it revolves around "sex". Not if it's good or if it's bad or anything like that. Just people these days seem to take sex very lightly, very "casual". It's lost it's passion, it's commitment. So in turn, so have people on a general note in the dating scene. |
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This got deeeeeeep....... That's usually what happens after talking bout... umm... sausage. lol but on a more serious note. This is actually a good discussion to be having go on. I personally do feel that's what has gone wrong with the world in the dating scene at least. And the increase in divorces, relationships not lasting, and so on and so on. I believe it revolves around "sex". Not if it's good or if it's bad or anything like that. Just people these days seem to take sex very lightly, very "casual". It's lost it's passion, it's commitment. So in turn, so have people on a general note in the dating scene. why settle for the pig when you can have the sausage Can be translated to "why settle for the commitment, the endurance, the faithfulness, the work when you can settle for just the fun easy parts. |
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Well Cowboy the society we live in dictates to most that instantaneous gratification must be achieved in one date....no one wants to take the time to get to know anyone anymore.....it's sad.....
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Well Cowboy the society we live in dictates to most that instantaneous gratification must be achieved in one date....no one wants to take the time to get to know anyone anymore.....it's sad..... Very sad, and the reason I may die alone lol. This is for example purposes to make a point, please don't take it for face value lol. But why would people want the "grand prize" before they even take the journey to find it? |
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Well Cowboy the society we live in dictates to most that instantaneous gratification must be achieved in one date....no one wants to take the time to get to know anyone anymore.....it's sad..... Very sad, and the reason I may die alone lol. This is for example purposes to make a point, please don't take it for face value lol. But why would people want the "grand prize" before they even take the journey to find it? Most people have lost their way..... |
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girl, they make fish sausage. http://www.pdxmeat.com/2011/05/16/what-fish-sausage/ theres even a link for pig butchery if you change your mind and want to make your man a pig sausage...   Some things just shouldn't be allowed. Fish sausage
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Edited by
42BlackBBW
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Fri 06/20/14 01:09 PM
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If you aren't willing to commit your heart to him? How could you possibly expect him to commit his to yours? would be the point of this kind of relationship in the long run? Yeah of course relationships start out this way, but you're stating it as that's all you want. How would this accomplish anything later in life in this same context? Do you not want to grow old with someone? I am a firm believer that couple can make a commitment to each other without outside of marriage. You may argue differently as is your due but this is my belief. Marriages fail. Unmarried couples break up. People get remarried. Unmarried single people find other partners. Difference???... 
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If you aren't willing to commit your heart to him? How could you possibly expect him to commit his to yours? would be the point of this kind of relationship in the long run? Yeah of course relationships start out this way, but you're stating it as that's all you want. How would this accomplish anything later in life in this same context? Do you not want to grow old with someone? I am a firm believer that couple can make a commitment to each other without outside of marriage. You may argue differently as is your due but this is my belief. Marriages fail. Unmarried couples break up. People get remarried. Unmarried single people find other partners. Difference???...http://www.ineedmotivation.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/money.jpg |
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I have always wondered what made the little piggy go wii all the way home. I am glad GIECO is giving him all the attention that he deserves. I especially like the one where he is pulled over by the cop and the cop asks him why did he think he pulled him over. Some times a piggy just wants to share his sausage with others. But then there is the Mr. Potato Head who catches Mrs. Potato Head eating Lays potato chips. Yeah. Just let this be our little secret. (((((Mr Trout))))  
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An acquaintance in work has this saying. It goes 'why settle for the pig when you can have the sausage'? In other words, "Why make a commitment to someone when you can play around?" You assumed wrong. Plenty of site members don't equate marriage with commitment. Besides, plenty of women here don't behave like American TV character Samantha Jones. Don't cop out. 'You' made the comment, not others. I was asking what 'you' meant by 'your' comment. |
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An acquaintance in work has this saying. It goes 'why settle for the pig when you can have the sausage'? What she means by this is that while she wants someone in her life, she just can't see herself living with someone again and (worse case scenario) turning into someone who picks up his socks, puts the toilet seat down after him and makes his dinners. To a certain extent, I agree. In the here and now, despite wanting a relationship, for various reasons, I can't see myself living with someone again and turning into a reincarnation of a 21st century Stepford wife - and I know relationships don't have to be that way but I am of a certain age and a nurturer so for me, I do have Stepford wife tendencies.... Which is why I can see myself in a committed relationship but living in separate households. What about you? Do you want the pig or the sausage? The Stepford Wives was a horror movie, no one really wants a Stepford wife, unless they are mentally damaged and looking for mommy's love. Do you attract this type of man and why would you tolerate their behaviour? When I was on here more actively a few years ago, I remember you mentioning something about the your profession and relationships/ you found yourself in. Well, I'm a nurturer whether I want to be or not, it's just in my nature which is why I think I attract people that need to be nurtured. So yeah, a horror stories or series of horror stories Start going for different types of guys. There are men out there who don't expect you to pick up after them and cook for them at all times. Why settle for those who expect those things if that's not what you want? I didn't quite mean that literally Sing. BTW I do try to got for different types - you wouldn't believe how much I've broaden my horizons where my dating life is concerned but ultimately and maybe subconsciously, I always revert back to variations of the same type. |
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Which translates to sleeping around. No it doesn't. It equates to two people in a relationship choosing to live separately and the women preferring not to live with her partner for fear of (and not wanting to) take on 'housekeeping' chores on behalf of her man. Gosh, you 'don't have sex unless you're married types' are just a tad on the judgemental side Why take the whole person eg., have a relationship when she can settle for the sausage only eg., sex. Yes sex but sex within the confines of our interpretation of a committed relationship. The "sausage" doesn't equate to promiscuity. Just sex. Not that I need to justify but both she and I are very fussy about who gets into our baggies...we just don't have a 90 day rule about for when someone can get into our baggies Do people not feel the desire to spend and share their life with one other person to have a life of beautiful memories? Or do people these days just wish to have fun and get whatever form of "joy" they can get but still end up feeling empty? They feel empty and alone at the end of the day because "just for sex" will never fill that void inside of you. And wanting the sausage and discarding the pig in this example is just that, just going for the sex. And again at the end of the day no matter how many times that person had sex that day, no matter how many orgasms that day, or even possibly no matter how many people they slept with that day. They will still feel just as empty and alone if not more that night when they lay their head to sleep. I'm sorry to say but that's very na�ve, narrow minded and fanciful viewpoint. You've chosen to take the whole thing way too literally. Relationships and people will evolve and grow regardless of whether they conform to one interpretation or another. They don't all stick to the same template. |
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Edited by
Thomas27
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Fri 06/20/14 02:56 PM
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If you do not give the woman the sausage, she will get the sausage from someone else...
Are we talking about Little Smokies or Johnsonville bratwurst? Isn't it a little selfish? To ask someone to give you only what you want and if you start it out so conditional what else is to change along the way? (for the worse) Poor fellas always get faulted for the wham bam thank ya mam mentality.... Perhaps those guys only want to give the sausage not the whole pig... |
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Edited by
42BlackBBW
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Fri 06/20/14 03:07 PM
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Are we talking about Little Smokies or Johnsonville bratwurst? Great big schlongs of sausage  it a little selfish? To ask someone to give you only what you want and if you start it out so conditional what else is to change along the way? (for the worse) Poor fellas always get faulted for the wham bam thank ya mam mentality.... Perhaps those guys only want to give the sausage not the whole pig... Could be just me...but I didn't think that relationship go straight from "Hi, my name is"... to this is your side of the bed. Their is usually a time where you start off living separately. Rather than head straight for cohabitation...it's just saying from the outset that I don't think I can see myself living with you (or anyone) in the foreseeable future. I personally don't see a problem with communicating to your partner what your needs are and what you want out of a relationship. |
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