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Topic: Dating is fun
Ejemi's photo
Tue 06/17/14 12:31 AM
Wanna more on how to make my skills more fun and appealing.any advice

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Tue 06/17/14 03:45 AM
Edited by Mercedes_01 on Tue 06/17/14 03:43 AM
Western Union

0ldhag's photo
Tue 06/17/14 05:54 AM
Try writing in cursive.

Jtevans's photo
Tue 06/17/14 05:58 AM
wanna have fun? next time you're on a date,grab her boobs and ask her how much they cost smokin

sparkyae5's photo
Wed 06/18/14 06:34 AM
takes time--watch the guys that are successful with women and befriend them--- a life coach-- or a dating coach, there are great courses out there for example David DeAngelo---hint--you have to get the inside handled before everything falls into place on the outside ----'' the better the product the better it sells '' the plus side is the enjoyment you will get while improving yourself --- when you discover the reason why '' attraction is not a choice '' a whole new world will open up for you----:thumbsup:

seethestar's photo
Wed 06/18/14 12:41 PM
Dating: its fine if you're beautiful.

Thomas27's photo
Wed 06/18/14 12:43 PM
Speak in tongues, that'll make things interesting for everyone!

CowboyGH's photo
Wed 06/18/14 12:49 PM

Speak in tongues, that'll make things interesting for everyone!


O.O

lol

panchovanilla's photo
Wed 06/18/14 12:56 PM
Just sit and stare at her,
without saying a single word.
When she starts squirming,
as if a mouse got in her pants...
You are winning.:wink:


CowboyGH's photo
Wed 06/18/14 12:59 PM

Just sit and stare at her,
without saying a single word.
When she starts squirming,
as if a mouse got in her pants...
You are winning.:wink:




dang, so that's what I'm doing wrong.... I'll have to try this at the bar this weekend o.O

stan_147's photo
Wed 06/18/14 03:38 PM
Yes. Yes, it is.

Skills always come from practice.

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Wed 06/18/14 03:42 PM
Dating is fun.?! Perhaps if your actually getting to go on dates.ohwell

0ldhag's photo
Wed 06/18/14 03:49 PM

Dating is fun.?! Perhaps if your actually getting to go on dates.ohwell


That is always the biggest problem with dating....actually getting them.

:tongue:

stan_147's photo
Wed 06/18/14 03:56 PM
Edited by stan_147 on Wed 06/18/14 04:46 PM
If you're not going out on dates, are you asking anyone out??

It's really not rocket surgery. You flirt, say "Hi", chat about something innocuous, and then say "Hey, would you like to go out?"

If you're really clever, you will have some place already in mind to go. You'll even think far enough ahead to set an actual date and time to meet up, if not immediate.



Mebbe I should writes a "How to" book? noway



Edit: Typo

0ldhag's photo
Wed 06/18/14 04:02 PM
^^^^ i'd buy it!

no photo
Wed 06/18/14 04:07 PM

^^^^ i'd buy it!

Yeah so would I, Part two could be like 50 shades:smile:

stan_147's photo
Wed 06/18/14 04:26 PM
Edited by stan_147 on Wed 06/18/14 08:43 AM
Here's a potential excerpt from Chapter 2:

Too shy, to ask?

One of the first steps to getting a date, is to get over your shyness. Shyness can make you miss excellent opportunities to date. Being shy is counter-productive to your ultimate goal of going out on dates. There are many ways to get over your shyness. You can go to the bookstore and purchase yet-another-self-help book that will have you taking baby-steps or some other calculated system designed to not only rob you of your hard earned cash, but what little dignity you might be holding on to.

I suggest a different exercise. I suggest that a "Trial By Fire" or "Jumping into the deep end of the pool" strategy works best. It not only forces you to confront your fears, which is mainly being rejected, but it can have additional opportunities present themselves effortlessly.

Exercise One (You will probably only need this one)

Go to a public location. Shopping malls are good for this, as they present a diverse group of potential daters. Find the central area of the shopping mall, usually there is a clock tower or some other centralized piece of art marking that it is indeed a special centralized location of the establishment. After you have located the center, locate yourself in an area of certain visibility.

Then, drop your pants to your ankles, but do not take them off. Wear clean underwear, as your mom may be there shopping. Stand there and shout at the top of your lungs. "Hi! My name is _________ and I have a problem being shy!". This will cause you to be the center of attention. It will also cause great concern to security of the shopping mall, so only linger for no more than 60 seconds. A great side effect will be the dozens of complete strangers will suddenly take notice of your efforts and will ruthlessly point and laugh at you (some of you reading this have experience with the reaction). The laughter will be loud and will reverberate through the cavernous expanse of the mall drawing even more attention. After your 60 seconds have lapsed, casually raise your trousers and continue on your way. Some folks will be shocked. Some will be dismayed. Some will be pleased, and may even offer you their digits for a future meet up.

It is very important that once you have raised your pants, that you exit the immediate area. Security will arrive, possibly upset, but also possibly hysterical with laughter. The latter is preferred, as you will be asked to leave the property. Better to have that occur than to have them escort you to an awaiting police car.

Though, this may be a bold and brazen technique, it is guaranteed to make you face your fear of humiliation in front of complete strangers, but you will insert a little levity into otherwise seriously stuckup onlookers. Consider it a good deed, that you have brought laughter into an otherwise dreary existence.

The Approach....



Edit: Forgot an "r".

no photo
Wed 06/18/14 04:32 PM

Here's a potential excerpt from Chapter 2:

Too shy, to ask?

One of the first steps to getting a date, is to get over your shyness. Shyness can make you miss excellent opportunities to date. Being shy is counter-productive to your ultimate goal of going out on dates. There are many ways to get over your shyness. You can go to the bookstore and purchase yet-another-self-help book that will have you taking baby-steps or some other calculated system designed to not only rob you of your hard earned cash, but what little dignity you might be holding on to.

I suggest a different exercise. I suggest that a "Trial By Fire" or "Jumping into the deep end of the pool" strategy works best. It not only forces you to confront your fears, which is mainly being rejected, but it can have additional opportunities present themselves effortlessly.

Exercise One (You will probably only need this one)

Go to a public location. Shopping malls are good for this, as they present a diverse group of potential daters. Find the central area of the shopping mall, usually there is a clock tower or some other centralized piece of art marking that it is indeed a special centralized location of the establishment. After you have located the center, locate yourself in an area of certain visibility.

Then, drop your pants to your ankles, but do not take them off. Wear clean underwear, as your mom may be there shopping. Stand there and shout at the top of your lungs. "Hi! My name is _________ and I have a problem being shy!". This will cause you to be the center of attention. It will also cause great concern to security of the shopping mall, so only linger for no more than 60 seconds. A great side effect will be the dozens of complete strangers will suddenly take notice of your efforts and will ruthlessly point and laugh at you (some of you reading this have experience with the reaction). The laughter will be loud and will reverberate through the cavernous expanse of the mall drawing even more attention. After you 60 seconds have lapsed, casually raise your trousers and continue on your way. Some folks will be shocked. Some will be dismayed. Some will be pleased, and may even offer you their digits for a future meet up.

It is very important that once you have raised your pants, that you exit the immediate area. Security will arrive, possibly upset, but also possibly hysterical with laughter. The latter is preferred, as you will be asked to leave the property. Better to have that occur than to have them escort you to an awaiting police car.

Though, this may be a bold and brazen technique, it is guaranteed to make you face your fear of humiliation in front of complete strangers, but you will insert a little levity into otherwise seriously stuckup onlookers. Consider it a good deed, that you have brought laughter into an otherwise dreary existence.

The Approach....

I may try this approach next time I'm shopping, nothing ventured nothing gained

no photo
Wed 06/18/14 04:39 PM

Giggling .. Franky I wouldn't have taken you for a shy girl

Or one that wears underwear

only during role playnoway

no photo
Wed 06/18/14 05:15 PM
Edited by 6_7evangeline on Wed 06/18/14 05:16 PM

Here's a potential excerpt from Chapter 2:

Too shy, to ask?

One of the first steps to getting a date, is to get over your shyness. Shyness can make you miss excellent opportunities to date. Being shy is counter-productive to your ultimate goal of going out on dates. There are many ways to get over your shyness. You can go to the bookstore and purchase yet-another-self-help book that will have you taking baby-steps or some other calculated system designed to not only rob you of your hard earned cash, but what little dignity you might be holding on to.

I suggest a different exercise. I suggest that a "Trial By Fire" or "Jumping into the deep end of the pool" strategy works best. It not only forces you to confront your fears, which is mainly being rejected, but it can have additional opportunities present themselves effortlessly.

Exercise One (You will probably only need this one)

Go to a public location. Shopping malls are good for this, as they present a diverse group of potential daters. Find the central area of the shopping mall, usually there is a clock tower or some other centralized piece of art marking that it is indeed a special centralized location of the establishment. After you have located the center, locate yourself in an area of certain visibility.

Then, drop your pants to your ankles, but do not take them off. Wear clean underwear, as your mom may be there shopping. Stand there and shout at the top of your lungs. "Hi! My name is _________ and I have a problem being shy!". This will cause you to be the center of attention. It will also cause great concern to security of the shopping mall, so only linger for no more than 60 seconds. A great side effect will be the dozens of complete strangers will suddenly take notice of your efforts and will ruthlessly point and laugh at you (some of you reading this have experience with the reaction). The laughter will be loud and will reverberate through the cavernous expanse of the mall drawing even more attention. After your 60 seconds have lapsed, casually raise your trousers and continue on your way. Some folks will be shocked. Some will be dismayed. Some will be pleased, and may even offer you their digits for a future meet up.

It is very important that once you have raised your pants, that you exit the immediate area. Security will arrive, possibly upset, but also possibly hysterical with laughter. The latter is preferred, as you will be asked to leave the property. Better to have that occur than to have them escort you to an awaiting police car.

Though, this may be a bold and brazen technique, it is guaranteed to make you face your fear of humiliation in front of complete strangers, but you will insert a little levity into otherwise seriously stuckup onlookers. Consider it a good deed, that you have brought laughter into an otherwise dreary existence.

The Approach....



Edit: Forgot an "r".


Edit...forgot the waving drinker

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