Topic: Why don't I get any replies on here?
VaughanLewis's photo
Wed 06/11/14 09:04 AM
Any constructive advice would be appreciated. I don't know if my profile reads badly or if it is my photo or something else. Please help.

soufiehere's photo
Wed 06/11/14 09:23 AM
It is a great profile :-)
The negative side is, when they see you are married,
(separated) they may hold back until resolution.

VaughanLewis's photo
Wed 06/11/14 10:37 AM
Thanks Soufie. I hadn't thought about that. Many thanks.

soufiehere's photo
Wed 06/11/14 12:06 PM
Enjoining the forums really helps.
You can get to know some gals, they can get to know you.
Sometimes, that makes the labels disappear :-)

no photo
Wed 06/11/14 12:12 PM
Welcome to Mingle2flowers

7z3r05's photo
Wed 06/11/14 02:45 PM

Enjoining the forums really helps.
You can get to know some gals, they can get to know you.
Sometimes, that makes the labels disappear :-)


Exactly. Very descriptive profile. Maybe a few more pictures would help.
Chat it up, keep it light hearted, enjoy the process.

drinker

mikey5360's photo
Wed 06/11/14 03:02 PM
Give it time and get chatting, once people gain a opinion of you everything else will follow.

no photo
Wed 06/11/14 03:27 PM
Mr Lewis
Let me offer my advice for what it's worth.
Despite what others have said I found your profile too long, in fact I didn't even finish reading it because I got bored.
Having said that, you do seem like a nice guy so I think you'll do ok.
But I have to agree with Soufie, the seperated bit may put people off.
Get yourself in the forums. After a few weeks you kinda get to know peoples personality's and it's a good way for people to get to know you too.
Good luck and take care

zzzippy56's photo
Wed 06/11/14 07:24 PM
Welcome
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Thomas27's photo
Wed 06/11/14 07:29 PM
It doesn't matter what it says, have a decent picture and the leaches will be on you shortly.. wrap it up and welcome!

VaughanLewis's photo
Thu 06/12/14 09:36 AM
Thanks very much everyone. I hadn't expected so much warmth and encouragement. I have taken it all on board and I already feel less lonely.

Funkyfranky I just re-read my profile and I hadn't realised quite how long it was...yawn. Thanks for pointing it out, think I'll shorten it:)

Thanks for being such a lovely bunch of people.