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Soufie My puckin picker is broken, I'm sure about this lol Oh noooo. Is there an operation for this? |
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When the interest, conversation and chemistry is basically dead. Mariah I could be guilty of this, the conversation part, I'm not the biggest talker around so sometimes it becomes awkward silence to them? I've broken it off before because I knew I couldn't satisfy their constant needs for verbal diahria. |
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When do YOU call it quits?
When it's not working. |
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Edited by
MariahsFantasy
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Sat 06/07/14 04:03 PM
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When the interest, conversation and chemistry is basically dead. Mariah I could be guilty of this, the conversation part, I'm not the biggest talker around so sometimes it becomes awkward silence to them? I've broken it off before because I knew I couldn't satisfy their constant needs for verbal diahria. Well if you're an interesting person (subjective) the conversation won't be boring. But I hear that one. I like silences sometimes, they can be quite comforting. |
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I had a date the other day and we both agreed we had little in common. It was just a meet and greet type thing. He liked sky diving and things like that. I am not interested in jumping out of a plane ever!
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I had a date the other day and we both agreed we had little in common. It was just a meet and greet type thing. He liked sky diving and things like that. I am not interested in jumping out of a plane ever! did you think to inquire about life insurance? |
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I had a date the other day and we both agreed we had little in common. It was just a meet and greet type thing. He liked sky diving and things like that. I am not interested in jumping out of a plane ever! did you think to inquire about life insurance? hahaahahahaha |
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((((((Johnn))))) When they don't want me anymore. Or if they find happiness elsewhere No real time limit... I think we know sometimes, we just keep trying . that would be like picking up a diamond.. looking at it and then tossing it away...omg.. don't want you anymore..ha.. . not in my universe. never happen.. |
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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Sat 06/07/14 05:44 PM
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This
One date usually tells me all I have to know. And this When the interest, conversation and chemistry is basically dead.
can happen during a first date. And this As soon as I know without any doubt that it wouldn't work no matter how hard we try/tried.
which often happens during a first date as well |
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Not sure I understand the 3 month rule. if you arent happy and the 3 months isnt up yet, dont you get crabby? Yea crabby... It's happened once or twice not a rule really... There's always a beginning euphoria where everyone says they're honest, caring etc... Things that everyone looks for. Then all of a sudden, she walks out of the drugstore with sunglasses on her head that she didn't pay for and tells you she's always done that lol 3 months is needed, a quarter to evaluate their true nature... Perhaps I'm seeing the signs sooner these days?... 90 days isn't chiseled in stone though, that's for sure. |
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it depends...sometimes before we even meet (if it's online). Sometimes after the first date...sometimes not for years....depends on how things are going and how the friendship evolves...what it evolves into
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When dating someone, I use to give it a 3 month chance... Lately, I've been struggling to give it 3 weeks. When do YOU call it quits? Its not a time but an attitude,I will never turn my back on a relationship if she is willing to work on anything and everything that is negatively effecting progress. Sometimes things can only be conveyed in writing where communication is breaking down creating frustration and anger.If both parties really want it, both will stop at nothing. Follow a professional guide line to assist in respectful communications.Be completely open to your faults and things you can improve. Different personalities may bring out different faults you are not aware of having. Its a big feeling out process that can take a long time, its all about improvements climbing one hill at a time.My parents are still climbing hills after 51 years of marriage. Its a lot of give and take and anybody that thinks they are all complete then they may as well remain with themselves because its a lot of work.Point is if someone says this is the way I am and I'm not changing for anyone and if you don't like me ...blah blah that; fine until the first fight and they revert back to that then that's it. "It takes two to make it and one to break it. Come to my seminar! Ha ha Yeah bud, I flew east just over the Rockies...I thought there was more country over here? I guess not..lol jk I heard the foods in Montreal(Quebec)are just phenomenal in comparison. love to check it out one day soon me man. all my best. |
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When dating someone, I use to give it a 3 month chance... Lately, I've been struggling to give it 3 weeks. When do YOU call it quits? Its not a time but an attitude,I will never turn my back on a relationship if she is willing to work on anything and everything that is negatively effecting progress. Sometimes things can only be conveyed in writing where communication is breaking down creating frustration and anger.If both parties really want it, both will stop at nothing. Follow a professional guide line to assist in respectful communications.Be completely open to your faults and things you can improve. Different personalities may bring out different faults you are not aware of having. Its a big feeling out process that can take a long time, its all about improvements climbing one hill at a time.My parents are still climbing hills after 51 years of marriage. Its a lot of give and take and anybody that thinks they are all complete then they may as well remain with themselves because its a lot of work.Point is if someone says this is the way I am and I'm not changing for anyone and if you don't like me ...blah blah that; fine until the first fight and they revert back to that then that's it. "It takes two to make it and one to break it. Come to my seminar! Ha ha Yeah bud, I flew east just over the Rockies...I thought there was more country over here? I guess not..lol jk I heard the foods in Montreal(Quebec)are just phenomenal in comparison. love to check it out one day soon me man. all my best. Sup Pony! Here's the thing, I have absolutely no interest in changing anyone, I work on myself and what I'm capable of improving but there's a minimum foundation needed. I can't be with someone that will either get me arrested or killed... I've been with both recently lolll Where I'm at in life is quite different from people in my age group, those who've been married with kids that are grown, want to explore, go clubbing, let loose and basically live the vida loca because they've had the responsibility of their children for decades. I get it, I understand it, can't do it... again... not a chance lol The Rockies Rock! Quite the scenery from up there eh? Where did you land? Montreal is only a 4hr flight, get it together and head down man... The JazzFest is coming soon and you deff wanna be here for that |
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