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Topic: Give it 90 days
soufiehere's photo
Sat 06/07/14 03:09 PM

Soufieflowerforyou
My puckin picker is broken, I'm sure about this lol

Oh noooo.
Is there an operation for this?

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Sat 06/07/14 03:16 PM

When the interest, conversation and chemistry is basically dead.


Mariah flowerforyou

I could be guilty of this, the conversation part, I'm not the biggest talker around so sometimes it becomes awkward silence to them? I've broken it off before because I knew I couldn't satisfy their constant needs for verbal diahria. ohwell


0ldhag's photo
Sat 06/07/14 03:29 PM
When do YOU call it quits?


When it's not working.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Sat 06/07/14 04:00 PM
Edited by MariahsFantasy on Sat 06/07/14 04:03 PM


When the interest, conversation and chemistry is basically dead.


Mariah flowerforyou

I could be guilty of this, the conversation part, I'm not the biggest talker around so sometimes it becomes awkward silence to them? I've broken it off before because I knew I couldn't satisfy their constant needs for verbal diahria. ohwell



bigsmile

Well if you're an interesting person (subjective) the conversation won't be boring. But I hear that one. :wink:

I like silences sometimes, they can be quite comforting.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Sat 06/07/14 05:22 PM
I had a date the other day and we both agreed we had little in common. It was just a meet and greet type thing. He liked sky diving and things like that. I am not interested in jumping out of a plane ever!

kc0003's photo
Sat 06/07/14 05:33 PM

I had a date the other day and we both agreed we had little in common. It was just a meet and greet type thing. He liked sky diving and things like that. I am not interested in jumping out of a plane ever!


did you think to inquire about life insurance?

soufiehere's photo
Sat 06/07/14 05:37 PM


I had a date the other day and we both agreed we had little in common. It was just a meet and greet type thing. He liked sky diving and things like that. I am not interested in jumping out of a plane ever!

did you think to inquire about life insurance?

hahaahahahaha

no1phD's photo
Sat 06/07/14 05:40 PM

((((((Johnn))))):heart: smooched flowers


When they don't want me anymore.

Or if they find happiness elsewhere:heart:


No real time limit...


I think we know sometimes, we just keep tryingflowers
.. say it is not so joe.. who in their right mind would not want you..
. that would be like picking up a diamond.. looking at it and then tossing it away...omg.. don't want you anymore..ha..
. not in my universe. never happen..flowerforyou

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 06/07/14 05:43 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Sat 06/07/14 05:44 PM
This

One date usually tells me all I have to know.


And this
When the interest, conversation and chemistry is basically dead.

can happen during a first date.

And this
As soon as I know without any doubt that it wouldn't work no matter how hard we try/tried.

which often happens during a first date as well

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Sat 06/07/14 06:45 PM

Not sure I understand the 3 month rule. if you arent happy and the 3 months isnt up yet, dont you get crabby?


Yea crabby... It's happened once or twice :angel: :tongue:

not a rule really...
There's always a beginning euphoria where everyone says they're honest, caring etc... Things that everyone looks for.
Then all of a sudden, she walks out of the drugstore with sunglasses on her head that she didn't pay for and tells you she's always done that noway lol

3 months is needed, a quarter to evaluate their true nature... Perhaps I'm seeing the signs sooner these days?... 90 days isn't chiseled in stone though, that's for sure.

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Sun 06/08/14 08:54 AM
it depends...sometimes before we even meet (if it's online). Sometimes after the first date...sometimes not for years....depends on how things are going and how the friendship evolves...what it evolves into



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Mon 06/09/14 05:56 PM

When dating someone, I use to give it a 3 month chance... Lately, I've been struggling to give it 3 weeks. slaphead

When do YOU call it quits? waving


Its not a time but an attitude,I will never turn my back on a relationship if she is willing to work on anything and everything that
is negatively effecting progress. Sometimes things can only be conveyed
in writing where communication is breaking down creating frustration
and anger.If both parties really want it, both will stop at nothing.
Follow a professional guide line to assist in respectful communications.Be completely open to your faults and things you can improve. Different personalities may bring out different
faults you are not aware of having. Its a big feeling out process that can take a long time, its all about improvements climbing one hill at a time.My parents are still climbing hills after 51 years of marriage.
Its a lot of give and take and anybody that thinks they are all complete then they may as well remain with themselves because its a lot of work.Point is if someone says this is the way I am and I'm not changing for anyone and if you don't like me ...blah blah that; fine until the first fight and they revert back to that then that's it.
"It takes two to make it and one to break it.
Come to my seminar! Ha ha
Yeah bud,
I flew east just over the Rockies...I thought there was more country over here? I guess not..lol jk
I heard the foods in Montreal(Quebec)are just phenomenal in comparison.
love to check it out one day soon me man.
all my best.




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Mon 06/09/14 06:52 PM


When dating someone, I use to give it a 3 month chance... Lately, I've been struggling to give it 3 weeks. slaphead

When do YOU call it quits? waving


Its not a time but an attitude,I will never turn my back on a relationship if she is willing to work on anything and everything that
is negatively effecting progress. Sometimes things can only be conveyed
in writing where communication is breaking down creating frustration
and anger.If both parties really want it, both will stop at nothing.
Follow a professional guide line to assist in respectful communications.Be completely open to your faults and things you can improve. Different personalities may bring out different
faults you are not aware of having. Its a big feeling out process that can take a long time, its all about improvements climbing one hill at a time.My parents are still climbing hills after 51 years of marriage.
Its a lot of give and take and anybody that thinks they are all complete then they may as well remain with themselves because its a lot of work.Point is if someone says this is the way I am and I'm not changing for anyone and if you don't like me ...blah blah that; fine until the first fight and they revert back to that then that's it.
"It takes two to make it and one to break it.
Come to my seminar! Ha ha
Yeah bud,
I flew east just over the Rockies...I thought there was more country over here? I guess not..lol jk
I heard the foods in Montreal(Quebec)are just phenomenal in comparison.
love to check it out one day soon me man.
all my best.



Sup Pony! drinker

Here's the thing, I have absolutely no interest in changing anyone, I work on myself and what I'm capable of improving but there's a minimum foundation needed. I can't be with someone that will either get me arrested or killed... I've been with both recently lolll Where I'm at in life is quite different from people in my age group, those who've been married with kids that are grown, want to explore, go clubbing, let loose and basically live the vida loca because they've had the responsibility of their children for decades. I get it, I understand it, can't do it... again... not a chance lol

The Rockies Rock! Quite the scenery from up there eh? Where did you land? Montreal is only a 4hr flight, get it together and head down man... The JazzFest is coming soon and you deff wanna be here for that :thumbsup:

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