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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Sat 05/31/14 05:49 PM
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Well, that would depend on how the date goes Thats right, if its going bad over dinner I would likely just be honest and say. "Look this date isn't going well, whad-Ya-say we just go "Dutch" on the bill and just have sex in the can, n call it a night? But thats just me... If its going good then I would want to turn it up by the second,in fear of the dreaded friend zone. Close the deal! One way or another unless she has expressed a lot of interest and wants to wait, previding I have a long term interest then thats a good thing.It lays down a good foundation for you trusting her if you were to have a future. Ok for me,I don't have a time if its just sex. If she's gf material then I guess I will still try but would be happiest in the end if she felt the same but wanted to wait. |
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. but follows: up with.. I can't believe I'm about to do this... I usually wait till at least the third date... Is that what you do...loljk...  srry...couldn't resist, just when you think its safe.
You know men like to believe this but other woman are always the ones to point this out....as true as it may be. |
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What about YOU, Chandler? :)
Ah. Okay. |
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Edited by
Shy_Emo_chick
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Sat 05/31/14 06:52 PM
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no idea
no rules I do not really "date" it's boring |
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Sweetest you're insulting me.... comeon ill take you to an interesting date to bahamas
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It's a matter of commitment on both sides, mine and his, otherwise it's not dependent on anything else, including the number of dates, wine, or anything else. Lines of some sort have to be in place, not to mention proof of no STD's, which most overlook. Unpopular view I know, but of so much importance in the long run. Color me stupid if you like, but nothing and no one is worth so much that I lose my good judgment.  my sentiments exactly! May I add that I have never thought that keeping score of sexual conquests was anything for either sex to brag about - my husband was my first and I am proud to be able to tell my daughter that as she is getting older. I'm not sure how many because it is not the same for everyone........?
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My bedroom? No way...That is above the line in my stoop...They know better than that...
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. do you go on.. before you consider letting them into your bedroom.. .. do you have a set number.?. . is there a number.?. . do you think a women's number would be higher.. then the man's? . and why? or why not? The answer depends on what standard that you use to determine right from wrong, and you Humans have varying standards. Think this is by far the best answer! I personally don't see anything wrong with sex on the first date, if the vibe is there. Problem is, women often want to be intimate because they feel a love connection, while men just think sex. For many women being intimate is a connection, men don't necessarily connect/commit when they have sex. We are wired differently. And that causes problems. I think if a woman is up for sex on a first/second date, the man's interest changes from "possible wedding material" to "nice sex material". That could very well be the only reason I wouldn't have sex on a first date with a guy that might very well be THE guy. If you have sex too soon, the guy doesn't take you serious anymore. |
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How many do I have here???
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99% of the time, I wouldn't have sex on the first date. I need time to think, brood, evaluate my feelings... let the sauce thicken before I can get that close. I have to feel like he's really into me and not just sex.
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. do you go on.. before you consider letting them into your bedroom.. .. do you have a set number.?. . is there a number.?. A lot!!!! For me it would be on our wedding night... . do you think a women's number would be higher.. then the man's? . and why? or why not? Completely dependent upon the person, their beliefs and values, and what they are looking for... 
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When an undisclosed amount of $ is spent on me I'll consider it.
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no idea no rules I do not really "date" it's boring Probably cuz mundane personalities happen to good people who can't be bothered. |
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When an undisclosed amount of $ is spent on me I'll consider it. |
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