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Topic: Sex without attraction.
Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Mon 05/26/14 02:51 PM
I know women do it all the time but what about men. It's harder for men because they have to get it up. Why would anyone have sex without an attraction physical or emotional? For $$$

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Mon 05/26/14 02:54 PM
I know women do it all the time but what about men. It's harder for men because they have to get it up. Why would anyone have sex without an attraction physical or emotional? because it is a basic need and not everyone shares the same morals or views about sex But it's not a "need" in this context. The only "need" for sex is reproduction.

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Mon 05/26/14 02:54 PM
I know women do it all the time but what about men. It's harder for men because they have to get it up. Why would anyone have sex without an attraction physical or emotional? For $$$ I was referring to more so in a relationship for of context lol. Not specifically career wise lol.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Mon 05/26/14 02:57 PM
Why would anyone have sex without an attraction physical or emotional? because it is a basic need and not everyone shares the same morals or views about sex Nope, no "sex" in Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33339	Mon 05/26/14 03:00 PM
I know women do it all the time but what about men. It's harder for men because they have to get it up. Where did you get that information? What a crock of **** Surely you can do better to get one of your infamous convos going!

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Mon 05/26/14 03:00 PM
I know women do it all the time but what about men. It's harder for men because they have to get it up. Why would anyone have sex without an attraction physical or emotional? because it is a basic need and not everyone shares the same morals or views about sex But it's not a "need" in this context. The only "need" for sex is reproduction. so says god aye ??? may I ask why you feel you "need" sex?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Mon 05/26/14 03:21 PM
Why would anyone have sex without an attraction physical or emotional? because it is a basic need and not everyone shares the same morals or views about sex Nope, no "sex" in Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. belonging, love , self esteem are all reasons people may choose to have sex .. Intimacy in whatever form they crave. Where does it say only those married or in a relationship recognised by the church or society can reproduce . ... Oh that's right .. How silly of me .. The bible .. The biggest social control yet Nobody else here mentioned either church or the Bible. Just you.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 05/26/14 03:23 PM
I think the term 'need' is often tossed around when speaking about preferences and desires,,, obviously SEX specifically is not NEEDED for survival or existence or living but what was the original topic,,,? lol

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/26/14 03:26 PM
.. well sure you can. . Be intimate with somebody without a physical. attractions.. . it's a question of mechanics.... .. part .M. goes down on Part .F . Part. F.. goes down on Part .M.. .then.. part.P. slides into.. part..V.. I could do that with my eyes closed..hmm.. wait a minute I do keep them close.. ..

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Mon 05/26/14 03:29 PM
I think the term 'need' is often tossed around when speaking about preferences and desires,,, obviously SEX specifically is not NEEDED for survival or existence or living but what was the original topic,,,? lol Yeah, but a Human who is horny might mistake that for one of life's necessities.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 05/26/14 03:31 PM
smh

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Mon 05/26/14 03:33 PM
Why would anyone have sex without an attraction physical or emotional? because it is a basic need and not everyone shares the same morals or views about sex Nope, no "sex" in Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. belonging, love , self esteem are all reasons people may choose to have sex .. Intimacy in whatever form they crave. Where does it say only those married or in a relationship recognised by the church or society can reproduce . ... Oh that's right .. How silly of me .. The bible .. The biggest social control yet Nobody else here mentioned either church or the Bible. Just you. so the church or religion doesn't view sex as reproduction Nobody else mentioned the subject. So, why did you bring it up?

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 05/26/14 03:34 PM
Why would anyone have sex without an attraction physical or emotional? because it is a basic need and not everyone shares the same morals or views about sex Nope, no "sex" in Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. belonging, love , self esteem are all reasons people may choose to have sex .. Intimacy in whatever form they crave. Where does it say only those married or in a relationship recognised by the church or society can reproduce . ... Oh that's right .. How silly of me .. The bible .. The biggest social control yet Nobody else here mentioned either church or the Bible. Just you. so the church or religion doesn't view sex as reproduction not as strictly reproduction, no Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love. it is a way for husband and wife to be intoxicated and delighted, with or without procreating,,,

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 05/26/14 03:36 PM
I think the term 'need' is often tossed around when speaking about preferences and desires,,, obviously SEX specifically is not NEEDED for survival or existence or living but what was the original topic,,,? lol Yeah, but a Human who is horny might mistake that for one of life's necessities. don't I know it,, I have so often felt like I really NEEDED That chocolate bar, but when I passed it by, I still woke up the next morning,,, lol funny how that works with chocolate AND Sex,,,,

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Mon 05/26/14 03:36 PM
Why would anyone have sex without an attraction physical or emotional? because it is a basic need and not everyone shares the same morals or views about sex Nope, no "sex" in Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. belonging, love , self esteem are all reasons people may choose to have sex .. Intimacy in whatever form they crave. Where does it say only those married or in a relationship recognised by the church or society can reproduce . ... Oh that's right .. How silly of me .. The bible .. The biggest social control yet Nobody else here mentioned either church or the Bible. Just you. so the church or religion doesn't view sex as reproduction Nobody else mentioned the subject. So, why did you bring it up? I was merely responding to cowboys questions Yet, such a response by you doesn't really answer his question. Instead, you come across as having some kind of gripe about faith and/or the Bible.

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Mon 05/26/14 03:38 PM
Why would anyone have sex without an attraction physical or emotional? because it is a basic need and not everyone shares the same morals or views about sex Nope, no "sex" in Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. belonging, love , self esteem are all reasons people may choose to have sex .. Intimacy in whatever form they crave. Where does it say only those married or in a relationship recognised by the church or society can reproduce . ... Oh that's right .. How silly of me .. The bible .. The biggest social control yet Nobody else here mentioned either church or the Bible. Just you. so the church or religion doesn't view sex as reproduction Nobody else mentioned the subject. So, why did you bring it up? I was merely responding to cowboys questions And exactly why do you bring me into this specific discussion? I had absolutely no question in any of the quotes you quoted, nor in this thread did I ever bring up God, religion, or church in any way shape or form. Please leave me out of it unless it concerns me.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/26/14 03:45 PM
opens door.. sticks his head in .. the one with eyeballs. . slowly backs out a room close the door behind him.

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Mon 05/26/14 03:48 PM
I know women do it all the time but what about men. It's harder for men because they have to get it up. Why would anyone have sex without an attraction physical or emotional? because it is a basic need and not everyone shares the same morals or views about sex But it's not a "need" in this context. The only "need" for sex is reproduction. so says god aye ??? may I ask why you feel you "need" sex? this isn't about me .. But I certainly don't view sex as solely for reproduction .. It is a pleasure .. Something I am passionate about ??? But my comment was about you in response to your following comment. Blondey111 said because it is a basic need and not everyone shares the same morals or views about sex So I will inqire on this again, it strikes me extremely strange "basic NEED". What basic needs are there? Outside of desires of course, because a desire in itself is not a need no matter how strong the desire is, it's never a "need". So again, I ask what is this "need" you mentioned?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Mon 05/26/14 03:48 PM
Not a gripe .. Just my opinion. Everyone is entitled to their view of what sex is .. What it means to them .. and why and when they choose to have it . Well, you muddied the waters by bring up a topic that wasn't asked about. Anyway, getting back to the original topic ... ... which seems a bit silly to me.

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Mon 05/26/14 03:54 PM
Why would anyone have sex without an attraction physical or emotional? because it is a basic need and not everyone shares the same morals or views about sex Nope, no "sex" in Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. belonging, love , self esteem are all reasons people may choose to have sex .. Intimacy in whatever form they crave. Where does it say only those married or in a relationship recognised by the church or society can reproduce . ... Oh that's right .. How silly of me .. The bible .. The biggest social control yet Nobody else here mentioned either church or the Bible. Just you. so the church or religion doesn't view sex as reproduction Nobody else mentioned the subject. So, why did you bring it up? I was merely responding to cowboys questions And exactly why do you bring me into this specific discussion? I had absolutely no question in any of the quotes you quoted, nor in this thread did I ever bring up God, religion, or church in any way shape or form. Please leave me out of it unless it concerns me. you stated the only need for sex is reproduction .. What shaped your view about this ?? My own personal wishes and desires. That's why there isn't or doesn't seem to be much "passion" in the bed for most people, outside of rawr animal instinct passion. I mean actual sentimental passion. How can it feel special if you know you could be the 20th in line to have slept with such and such. It then becomes competition and possibly feeling less then another. And that's the way it's turning these days, sex is treated as just some casual action people do. It's not viewed as "sentimental" or beautiful time shared. The passion of sex these days last about as long as the night does. I'd rather be someone's first and last.