Why can't men be honest,faithful,loyal?

Most are...?

it wasn't programed into their head...LOL

Is this an Oprah's men bashing thread?

because most men think with their second head.

Only if its smarter then the woman he,s with...!

LoL...
I am always.

Guys should use it to their advantage. If they happen to get in bed with
with a lady that they are honest with, they can use it as a disclaimer
that they told the lady the truth upfront. It actually works real well.
While the lady has a right to call the guy an asshole because the lady
has freedom of speech; if the male told the truth upfront then how was
he an asshole? She knew what she was getting into.

THERE ARE SOME HONEST GOOD MEN STILL OUT THERE, THEY ARE JUST REAL HARD
TO COME BY MOST OF THE TIME. THEN THERE ARE THE ONES THAT DON'T THINK
WITH THEIR HEADS ON THEIR SHOULDERS. WE CAN'T PUT ALL OF THEM IN THE
SAME CLASS THOUGH, I'VE MET A FEW THAT ARE GENUINELY GOOD GUYS, BUT THEY
ARE FEW AND FAR BETWEEN.

i have to agree with the guys on this.
not all men r assholes.

some of us can even think with both heads,,honest,faithful,and
loyal???you mean like a good dog???lick,lick,woof!
and then there is a smartass like me,we come in all shapes and
sizes...ya just gotta know where to look...M.

they can be... you just have to act like ur not and they flip the script
to keep you there! LOL!!!

Its true!

men...real men are honest,faithful,and loyal and all it takes is a lil
self control

there are some man out there that can be
honest, loyal, and faithfull,
the question is Where?

lol,lol

It takes an unbelievable woman to keep her man honest, faithful and
loyal. If she can handle her business across the board he will be
honest, faithful, and loyal no doubt. Of course, I have to flip it she
has to be honest faithful and loyal just like him....

we could turn this around and ask the same about a woman.i have been
married 3 times.the first one i caught in bed with a friend of mine.the
second one,well,she was the love of my life and i dont have anything bad
to say about her.i would still be with her today,but she died in
1999.and my last wife i never caught her but i still think,from what i
have heard,that she had cheated on me also.as for me i have never
cheated on a wife or a girl friend.i think if you are in a relationship
you should put your all in to it.so here i am looking for #4 and hope i
can find another one that i can love as much as i love my second wife.

Hey girls, in the guys defense, they are only as honset with you as you
are willing to be with them...Also: typically guys do not like to argue,
so they may be omissive...which they dont understand that it is taken as
a lie to us (females)...The secret...TALK...and be HONEST...and don't
get mad when you ask a question and dont like the answer you get...and
if you ask a guy a question and he side steps it, then take a hint and
leave it alone, he is trying to spare your feelings...

I feel they can you just have to be that freak, best friend, homegirl,
lover etc.. I just have a problem finding one without all the drama in
their life far as baby mama drama

You are sorta right. All men are jerks, it's just a matter of how you
look at it. I for one, I know you've heard this before, but call me old
fashioned, but I am still faithful to a woman I divorced 2 years ago. I
would like to know why women are like that, and I know all arn't, but
just seems to be as hard for us to find that faithful person as well as
you finding one!
Nerves

Ur still faithful-- to a woman you divorced? Two years ago? Really? Why?
Mite I ask...plz enlighten me

sweetcountry girl,
You are so right. You hit the nail on the head. I personally do not like
to argue. I got interrogated enough in the Marines. dont need to come
home to the same. Thank you. Well said.