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Relax ladies.
I'm just doing a little self help therapeutic venting. I must have been crazy to not realize from the start, that she was a nutter. Even the 7 different psychotropic drugs in her hand bag wasn't clue enough for a simple country boy. 
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Just one more
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Relax ladies. I'm just doing a little self help therapeutic venting. I must have been crazy to not realize from the start, that she was a nutter. Even the 7 different psychotropic drugs in her hand bag wasn't clue enough for a simple country boy. 7, is that all, I must be totally mental |
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Hey man...I know exactly where you are coming from....the thing about "normal" is- everyone has their own definition of it. Nobody's perfect...therefore, everybody's perfect...at least, for somebody. I do understand what you mean though, I too have dated some "fruitcakes" ha ha ha ha!!! I think a lot of times people just get nervous when they first meet someone...especially women(no offense ladies) women are, and many will agree with me, generally wired by their emotions. The key to success in finding exactly what your looking for is not telling them what they want to hear. When I'm talking to a lady, I generally start off by not showing any emotion, I maintain eye contact(if in person) and I ask them questions pertaining to my standards as far as desirable traits. Being a very conservative, old fashioned guy, I'm very straight forward. I'm polite, but I I know what I want. When I ask them questions, if their answers do not match up to what I'm looking for, I do not hesitate to tell them that I'm seeking compatibility and I just don't think that we should waste out time. Sometimes they take it well, sometimes they don't, the bottom line is- you've weeded out what does not meet your standards. This can often be very difficult for some if the woman is very attractive in appearance, but like anything else, you must maintain discipline. Now I understand that looks are likely to be included in your standards, and rightfully so.....I too want an attractive lady, who doesn't? Lol? It often comes to reason though, if you work really hard at it, and do it right, be patient, and use your head, you can find and have all of your desirable traits. You can find the woman of your dreams!!! Someone who will like you for who you really are, someone you will really like for who they are, a lady you can take pride in!! I hope this helps you find what you are looking for. Good luck  |
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Dam kid you have a good head on your shoulders about women keep that attitude
    and you will go far
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Whatever Travis, Will, Pancho, Cowboy......WHATEVER!  I did go there, now get your azz over here!...Chop, chop Pancho...You too Cowboy!! 
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Nutters? There's nutters here?  I hope it is Nutter Butters.  
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I hope this is not going to be another thread about what is "normal...  Travismiller1234: if all women you date turn "nutters", than maybe it's time to ask yourself what's there in you that attracts such women. We all attract certain people, events etc. by our underlying beliefs, opinions, attitudes. When we become aware of that, we can change by choosing new beliefs, attitudes, opinions...  Sooooo... if he changes his beliefs, opinions, and attitude.. All the nutters will become sane? What power!! How did you come to such conclusion? That would be really nice, if all the "nutters" would become sane this way... No,what i ment is that if he changes the beliefs, opinions and attitude (let's say that he had an underlying belief "All my dates go wrong" or "All women are crazy" etc. and he turns it into sth like "All my dates are OK" and "All women i meet are interesting"), he won't be attracting the "nutters". They would still be going around, though, but they wouldn't enter his world any more. What we think, we attract....it's the law of nature...we all have that power, it works everywhere.... 
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I hope this is not going to be another thread about what is "normal... Travismiller1234: if all women you date turn "nutters", than maybe it's time to ask yourself what's there in you that attracts such women. We all attract certain people, events etc. by our underlying beliefs, opinions, attitudes. When we become aware of that, we can change by choosing new beliefs, attitudes, opinions... Sooooo... if he changes his beliefs, opinions, and attitude.. All the nutters will become sane? What power!! How did you come to such conclusion? That would be really nice, if all the "nutters" would become sane this way... No,what i ment is that if he changes the beliefs, opinions and attitude (let's say that he had an underlying belief "All my dates go wrong" or "All women are crazy" etc. and he turns it into sth like "All my dates are OK" and "All women i meet are interesting"), he won't be attracting the "nutters". They would still be going around, though, but they wouldn't enter his world any more. What we think, we attract....it's the law of nature...we all have that power, it works everywhere.... Lol...Actually, I knew what you meant. I was just being a nutter. |
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Normal: confirming to the standard; the common type, regular.
Is this the type of woman you have been dating? If not that's why you have the results you get. I just looked at yourpprofile it doesn't tell me anything about you. My advice is know who you are, your self expectations and what you stand for before throwing out a generalizing comment about all women. Your profile tells me you are very young. How much time do you take getting to know a person before coming to thus conclusion? Wish you all the best. |
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