What i meant by nutters is near enougth any girl iv gone on a date with turn out to be completely different from what they mad out most recent experience was a girl i met through a mate (not gonna name names lol ;-) ) so we went on a date i bought some flowers for her because didnt know what she liked all going fine next date starts chatting up a guy at the bar mean while im sitting there thinking wtf dont have much luck :-(

Normal is a setting on a dryer.

Honey that's not a nutter, that's a biotch.... ...Also, save the flowers for the third date

Hey man...I know exactly where you are coming from....the thing about "normal" is- everyone has their own definition of it. Nobody's perfect...therefore, everybody's perfect...at least, for somebody. I do understand what you mean though, I too have dated some "fruitcakes" ha ha ha ha!!! I think a lot of times people just get nervous when they first meet someone...especially women(no offense ladies) women are, and many will agree with me, generally wired by their emotions. The key to success in finding exactly what your looking for is not telling them what they want to hear. When I'm talking to a lady, I generally start off by not showing any emotion, I maintain eye contact(if in person) and I ask them questions pertaining to my standards as far as desirable traits. Being a very conservative, old fashioned guy, I'm very straight forward. I'm polite, but I I know what I want. When I ask them questions, if their answers do not match up to what I'm looking for, I do not hesitate to tell them that I'm seeking compatibility and I just don't think that we should waste out time. Sometimes they take it well, sometimes they don't, the bottom line is- you've weeded out what does not meet your standards. This can often be very difficult for some if the woman is very attractive in appearance, but like anything else, you must maintain discipline. Now I understand that looks are likely to be included in your standards, and rightfully so.....I too want an attractive lady, who doesn't? Lol? It often comes to reason though, if you work really hard at it, and do it right, be patient, and use your head, you can find and have all of your desirable traits. You can find the woman of your dreams!!! Someone who will like you for who you really are, someone you will really like for who they are, a lady you can take pride in!! I hope this helps you find what you are looking for. Good luck

Leigh2154 i agree thinking about the whole date wasnt going anywhere soon lol and snaketitsss7 really appreatice the info :-) easily the best reply :-)

Pfffft. I went out on a date where I wished the girl had flirted with another guy and then went home with them.

*snaps fingers* Oh whatever girlfriend, don't go there.

hell i like the crazy ones.give me crazy any time. normal girls scare me. never no what there up to!!!lol

I am trying to understand what is the situation you are trying to explain, and many others seemed to agree. You have not had a "good" date lately and are labeling all women under the same banner.

Perhaps if you were a bit less condescending, patronizing, overbearing, and insecure your dates will be more interested in you and not in chatting with other people. After all, you are on a date, and they are on a date. They can chat with whoever they want, and so can you. Go chat with someone else and move on. No need to take it personal. It is a date.

Or just bashed them here. Does it make you feel better? What did it resolved?

We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up and fall into mutual weirdness and call it love. ~dr. Seuss

If everyone is looking for someone normal, I've got no chance.
I guess I'll grow old and miserable and lonely

You can't just quit every time things get a little bit difficult....push on!!! Strive to find what your looking for- put forth an honest effort, and you'll find it. I hope you find this encouraging not to give up...regardless of your decision...good luck

Maybe you just drive women crazy.

Nutters? There's nutters here?

I don't think I've ever been normal yet. There's always hope, right? .