Really I'm serious
Am I ugly ? Or not something I'm not very lucky with guys they only want to have sex it's like no one can love me ?

If you are asking about your outward appearance, then, no, there is nothing wrong with it.

Ugliness can describe a person's attitude, behavior or personality.
A woman can be pretty on the outside but ugly on the inside.


As for your "man" troubles, you need to work on developing the right kind of relationships with the right kind of men.

no,

but it is a little disconcerting that you feel as though the ability to be loved hinges on whether or not you are "ugly" on the outside.

perhaps it's not about your looks, rather the people you choose.

As my boyfriend tells me, Beauty is only skin deep. So, I think your outward appearance doesn't have to do with which kind of guys you attract.

And lousy guys are everywhere, if they get the best of you depends on whether you entertain them or not.

Now, your question of Why does no one can love you depends on how you let others see you and how you let others treat you.

When you meet a guy let him know through your actions that you're not a booty call and that you'll never be his Girl Friday or just his "Flavor of the Month." If a guy senses that you're in this for a long haul and you're really looking for a decent relationship complete with bows, flowers and hearts then it's for him to decide if he'll pursue you or not. If he runs to the other direction, meaning he's definitely not a keeper. Lose him and move on

Don't misunderstand me kc0003 I want to be loved for who I am !
I know I am a kind and loving person ! I like who I am. Just not how I look so I just thought that maybe it's because I'm not pretty enought or something. I don't know i know it's a typical stupid question from a young girl. I'm just so confused and feels so hurt ! I just can't figure out why I am not good enought

Thank you for your answers,
People think I am very!!! funny . sweet caring! They like me they do but just not enought :a and I do not get it I smile all the time I am kind to every person I meet !

And I know I tried last time I met a boy, to let him know I wasn't just a booty call and he hang on but after he had sex with me he fell in love with another girl

And the guy before him cheated ?
And the 3rd guy also cheated ?? I am being treated very bad ! So that is why I feel like maybe I'm to ugly

first off.. pretty sure you must know you're not ugly.. you may question your level of beautifulness..
but I'm pretty sure you don't think of yourself as ugly..
.. whatever that means.. secondly.
. you have to accept. that you are good enough for yourself.. once you do that.. your conference goes up.
. you become more attractive to the right type of guy.
. presto.. boyfriend who likes you for you.. and not just your body..ok.. .. by the way.
. on a personal note.. I am loving this new . smartphone stylist.
. no more LCD burn on my finger tips.. ..

It's not a stupid question at all, in fact, it's quite normal.

I would suggest you ask a different question though, like, am i choosing the right guys to date?

Thank you

I know I am not the ugliest person I do know that but yes I question my beauty I feel like I should
Look like a model !

Well haha I don't know I have never been on a date :)

i m ready for sex

You are cute as can be.
I would, however, suggest you not sleep with them until
you are satisfied they meet your love standards :-)

Thank you soufie ! You are right !

Yes, you have to get to know the person really, really well before you give yourself to him. Because there are things that you can easily give away but never get them back.

Good luck and I hope you find a great guy :)

Hey girl


Let's forget about your appearance for a while, and try to figure why you keep attracting pigs. Why do YOU think it keeps happening? Maybe you don't know why. Maybe you're coming across as too nice. I realized I was, at one time, so I added an "I take no prisoners" vibe to my description, to let em know that I won't suffer fools.

.. did I hear somebody say something about taking prisoners..hmm.
. and speaking of fools.. in walks PhD.

Haha.. thought I would just save you the trouble blondey.
. and state the obvious for you..
. you know me being a fool and everything.. . ok back to the OP.. and her.
. lack of confidence... you're hot. be picky..

hahahaha
Thank you, I needed to have a good laugh before I'm off to bed

They want to have sex with you because you are NOT ugly....BUT more importantly, they want to have sex with you because they think they can...Love and sex come individually packaged...And beauty is as beauty does ...Welcome to Mingle Danishgirl!