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Edited by
moshmi
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Fri 05/23/14 03:00 AM
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Jeaolousy to a limit is natural in every relationship,but if it becomes too much then it spoils the strongest relationship too..
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I agree
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I don't agree!!! Jealousy can be because of many other reasons other than love!!!!
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What on earth is positive about jealousy? THIS: Jealousy can serve as an indicator of love and interest. Oftentimes people may not even realize they have romantic feelings until they get a jealousy pang. By: Joel D. Block, Ph.D. & Kimberly Dawn Neumann When it comes to jealousy, not all forms are created equal. In fact, there are definitely extremes. And while sometimes a little jealousy can make a relationship stronger, too much can lead to its imminent implosion. The experience of minor jealousy here and there is usually not something to fret about. A fleeting bout of anxiety or fear that someone may attract your partner is normal and not necessarily an issue. This is especially true when you realize your fears aren’t reality-based and the feeling doesn’t linger. Good Jealousy So what exactly is “good” jealousy? While it might seem like an oxymoron, there is such a thing as a healthy dose of jealousy. Even in the best relationships we can start to take our partner for granted at times. On those occasions, when you suddenly feel a pang of jealousy, say while noticing a gorgeous singleton chatting up your significant other, that emotion can serve as a potent reminder of the things that initially attracted you to your partner. If someone else is finding him interesting, you might realize that you’re still interested in him too (even more than you were aware). In those cases, a little twinge of jealousy can serve to briefly reinspire the relationship. Jealousy can also serve as an indicator of love and interest. How so? Well, oftentimes people may not even realize they have romantic feelings (or realize how deep their feelings run) until they get a jealousy pang. And that little twinge serves as a wakeup call that they are more invested than they thought. In that case, jealousy is also positive because it ups the stakes in a relationship that may have needed a kick to move it to the next level. The above scenarios illustrate how a little jealousy isn’t deleterious and could possibly even add something to a relationship. Thus, should you or your partner experience minor, everyday jealousies, it’s best to recognize them for what they are, even laugh at them, accept them, and then release them. Unless trust issues are also involved, chances are you can just let them go and move on (and even take them as a sign that things are still on track with your relationship). The risk with “good” jealousy, however, is that things can easily change from it triggering a mild jolt of anxiety that can even be exciting or enjoyable to the more extreme forms of jealousy, anger, and fear. At the extreme, jealousy can become seriously debilitating and destructive to a relationship. For this reason, jealousy is not something that should be toyed with. Some people play on their partner’s fears and anxieties by engaging in little acts of seeming disinterest to make them jealous, such as smiling suggestively at a passing stranger on the street and commenting on her physique. Bad idea. Organic jealousy can be tolerated in a relationship because it serves as a reminder of emotional investment. Intentional acts of jealousy — invoking behavior, however, serve only to ultimately break down a relationship. http://www.notjustthekitchen.com/the-good-the-bad-and-the-ugly/ You wanna know more, Google it. There's more positive sides, but so tired and sleepy, I can't remember right now, my brain has seized to work :/ "healthy dose of jealousy! & Jealousy can also serve as an indicator of love and interest. "Really love your valuable thoughts thanks a lot ... It brings a positive impact on them who doesn't believe . |
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Jeaolousy to a limit is natural in every relationship,but if it becomes too much then it spoils the strongest relationship too.. yeah ... Right i'm talking about this ... But other won't ... Thanks |
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I don't agree!!! Jealousy can be because of many other reasons other than love!!!! i'm talking about love dude |
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Jeaulosy is not always a sign of honest love.it can be partly of narrow mindedness too, just my opinion i don't think so .... |
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The jealous partner might be more likely to be faithful. Jealousy is a sign that they want you to themselves. They try to build a protective wall around them and their love. If the lover wasn't jealous of their partner going off with someone else, I think I'd worry that they didn't have true feelings for their partner. It's natural, but too much jealousy can break people apart. A small amount is fine.
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Jealousy is nothing more than insecurity and it is fear based. Sometimes a little jealousy is healthy and makes for some great sex when the other partner sees that the other is being desired by someone else. There is balance in all aspects of life. There will always be the positive and negative. Focus on the positive :)
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The jealous partner might be more likely to be faithful. Jealousy is a sign that they want you to themselves. They try to build a protective wall around them and their love. If the lover wasn't jealous of their partner going off with someone else, I think I'd worry that they didn't have true feelings for their partner. It's natural, but too much jealousy can break people apart. A small amount is fine.  hmmm yeah you got this ... 
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Jealousy is nothing more than insecurity and it is fear based. Sometimes a little jealousy is healthy and makes for some great sex when the other partner sees that the other is being desired by someone else. There is balance in all aspects of life. There will always be the positive and negative. Focus on the positive :)
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I totally agree. There is a distinct difference in being jealous an a brief notice of one's natural beauty and leering at someone in lust. The greater insult is when the guilty party then turn it around or lie to your face.
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mayb not true
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Hi
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Edited by
One4meonly
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Wed 05/28/14 10:39 AM
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I would not say that it is guaranteed. But I don't think jealousy in every instance is unwarranted. Maybe someone who cares enough to be territorial instead of obsessed might remain with you longer than someone more independent is my supposition. To me, a person who shows 'improper' jealousy suspects others without adequate cause or resents the sharing with another of what he unjustifiably claims as all his own. Slightly differently, an envious person discontentedly desires or covets the good fortune and attainments of others.
However, jealousy of someone toward his (or her) mate is good if it is a justified zeal for the mate'��s benefit and well-being. Like if some stranger is ignoring me while pawing my lady, then yes, my jealousy is warranted. Improper jealousy, or mistrust without reason or foundation, is wrong and lacking love, which can ruin relationships. |
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Jealousy is a human emotion. Most people get a little jealous from time to time. But secure people recognize it for what it is and don't go overboard with it. If you are secure in your relationship you will understand that your partner is going to be attracted to others but that does not mean that he is going to act on the attraction.
I do believe that it is unfair to try to provoke jealousy in your partner. Having your partner rave over a younger more attractive woman can be hurtful. Sure he is going to look, but I prefer him to do so silently. |
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