oooh leagh you can stock and abuse me any time......lol

Never forget Nascar, everything you post on here is time stamped!

Jealous people care but we don't know how far the rabbit hole goes, stalker levels are often tested

I completely disagree,

I think MOST jealous people are insecure in themselves, I also think jealousy and fear have the same roots.

What I mean by that is sometimes people are afraid that ANY attention from the opposite sex will send their man/woman running after that other person.

My question to those people would be WHY are you so fearful? is it the fear of being alone? is it the fear that you don't see yourself as good enough for your significant other? is it the fear of finding someone else if things do happen? And I personally believe insecurity in oneself can enhance these type of fears, there by making someone 'jealous'


There is a line that one can cross over into disrespect and if that disrespect is serious enough, my girlfriend knows that i'm perfectly ok with walking away if that were to happen. But she also knows I'm perfectly okay with letting her walk away as well if that is what she wants.

I never want someone to stay with me because they are afraid that leaving would hurt me,

And likewise I never will stay with someone because I'm afraid that i would hurt them if I left.

I would rather both people in the relationship WANT to be with each other because they ENJOY being together. Rather than two people staying out of fear.

^^^^^^^^^Bullseye.

lol agreed

Absolutely M....And Isaac is right too, jealously can also be the product of insecurity, personal history, low self esteem...Levels or degree of jealousy determine the dif between a healthy feeling of possessiveness within a relationship built around trust and respect and an abusive situation that can result in destroying the relationship and doing untold psychological damage to the other person (victim?).... It's certainly not a black and white matter...I also think there are those who get off on creating situations that feed into a jealously prone partner...Perfect example would be the OP's statement...There are people who think jealously means love....Dangerous thinking.......

Of course I'm right....i'm always right

Yes, yes you are smexy pants ....I find your rightness incredibly hawt too Mr. Dede

Crap....I need a candy bar....

Careful now...I may get jealous.

Oooooo, now that would really be hawt...

I think women should stop paying attention to the quotes around the water cooler saying that a man really cares if he's jealous. I think there is a huge difference in a man acting protective verses a man spurned on jealously. It comes from not being able to be happy within yourself first before getting into a big relationship. People are just unhappy with themselves if they desperately to need someone else that badly. It's just so unhealthy. I agree with my favorite Southern belle.

Yes, thinking that: If I'm doing it (getting it on with other people), then maybe they are doing it as well. Right?


I don't get jealous. As I trust my boyfriend :D

It usually is the jealous ones doing the dirt, the guiltiness is eating them up so they automatically put blame on others.

so what if you like it than you can take it from any where :p

Ohhh C'mon don't make it so big ... everything has its two sides ... Its upto you how you take it ...
Insecurity it does feel in love ... Everyone does i think ... I'm talking about the positive aspect of this... So please understand the feeling ... And don't take it another way ...

Curiouser and curiouser.

Thanks for noticing rightfully...

A jealous girlfriend is a faithful girlfriend?..or the next axe murderer...