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| Topic: Seriously, how does one meet someone on this site? | |
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You are saying nothing that will catch a woman's interest. Try wit, charm, humor, and show some interest in the woman you are contacting. You are showing zero effort or interest in her. For all they know, you might be sending out 50 of those a day.  sounds very much like you think you know what women want Humor IS an effective tool for communication in many different situations including conversations with the opposite sex. This is fact. It sounds to me like you wish to prove me wrong. I'm still waiting. 
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Sure but at the end of the day if you are on here for dating you look at the profile and the location. A nudge from someone that lives locally and looks interesting is worth more than all of the well thought out personalised messages in the world. Sometimes you get into it with them a bit with the getting to know each other online first and maybe sound them out to find out what they're looking for and so on but in my experience they just want to cut to the chase as quickly as possible and arange a date if they're ever going to. This guy is not having YOUR experience, is he? |
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Edited by
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Thu 05/15/14 03:55 PM
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Humour has no effect when there is no interest True, but it can turn a cinder into a flame. If some random woman is interested in his profile and photos, he can pique the interest by being witty and charming. At the very least he might want to give it a try since his approach is not working... |
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Humour has no effect when there is no interest I guess I should stop trying to make you laugh. |
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Edited by
Unknow
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Thu 05/15/14 04:11 PM
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If a woman is interested in his profile and pic then he should just be himself . She will make an effort to get to know him Just being yourself on the internet... That's an interesting concept for most. I agree with you in principle, but sometimes our selves need work or tweaking. Becoming a better version of yourself can't hurt. If he is dull as dishwater and lacking in social skills then perhaps her effort will die quickly on the vine. |
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That would depend on your motive for trying to make me laugh. to pique your interest in me. |
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Hey Stan, you have any beers to go along with the burgers?
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Sure but at the end of the day if you are on here for dating you look at the profile and the location. A nudge from someone that lives locally and looks interesting is worth more than all of the well thought out personalised messages in the world. Sometimes you get into it with them a bit with the getting to know each other online first and maybe sound them out to find out what they're looking for and so on but in my experience they just want to cut to the chase as quickly as possible and arange a date if they're ever going to. This guy is not having YOUR experience, is he? Apparently not. To be honest, I've come to rely on my profile doing most of the work. This guy says that he can't even get a woman to talk to him and I don't see that as being such a big deal. If a hot woman replies or winks back at me what I then want to know is if she's looking for a date or what. |
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Edited by
Unknow
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Thu 05/15/14 04:18 PM
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Apparently not. To be honest, I've come to rely on my profile doing most of the work. This guy says that he can't even get a woman to talk to him and I don't see that as being such a big deal. If a hot woman replies or winks back at me what I then want to know is if she's looking for a date or what. You are doing what works for you which is how things should be. The OP is another story. What he is doing has not been working. He obviously needs a new approach. |
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I'm kinda afraid to bring in booze, Water. It's a PG-13 forum. I even left my cigarettes in the car. lol
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So you think people should be a fake.. Become someone they are not in order to meet someone. You know nothing about the op.. Except that he is having trouble meeting someone and you assume he is dull as dishwater and lacking in social skills .. Well atleast he has you for a role model .. Lmao Sooo, improving yourself is being a fake? Errrr, okay...
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I'm kinda afraid to bring in booze, Water. It's a PG-13 forum. I even left my cigarettes in the car. lol 
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I'm kinda afraid to bring in booze, Water. It's a PG-13 forum. I even left my cigarettes in the car. lol I can't have you getting "cranky" now, can I? 
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Don't forget .. She can improve herself and become witty and charming .. Lmao even more Or she can wear makeup, nail polish, heels, and fake boobs and forget all that other tiresome self improvement stuff. 
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Don't forget .. She can improve herself and become witty and charming .. Lmao even more Thank you sir. I drank my last Flying Dog Raging B***h IPA on Sunday. 
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Fake boobs . Well if that's not a fake .. I don't know what is Exactly. And equating this clear fakery with someone who is trying to improve their social skills seems right to you? Or are there different levels of fakery? 
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Blondie, I'll meet women that might not be what I usually think of as my type, or however you want to put it but that's just me. There are limits though. But like I said, I tend to rely on my profile doing most of the work. I think that I atract women that are "in my league", if I can put it that way.
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