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Topic: Seriously, how does one meet someone on this site?
stephen84usa Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 180	Mon 05/12/14 09:01 PM
one night stands is not what i'm looking for... im looking to make a commitment.. im too old for one night stands

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/12/14 09:02 PM
. you really don't want to know right now... trust me.. .. . I am barely holding it together..hmm.. ..

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Mon 05/12/14 09:09 PM
Ok. If you don't mind my saying so, your picture is gloomy. But maybe it works for you. My next thing is how do you approach the ladies and which ones do you approach? When I receive messages that say only the word hi or hello I don't even respond. When I receive messages that I can tell the person didn't even take time to read my profile, that shows me, not much interest. I respond to messages that are funny or that reflect something from my profile or the things I posted on the forums. The last thing is what you post on the forums. I have found many people don't participate but they do read the comments. I've followed some of your posts and I will tell you that your mother's day post showed improvement in being positive. Wish you the best I'M trying to be more positive.... even being as lonely as i am My dear, Mire than half the people on this site are lonely. A lot of us have been hurt. We try not to let that define us. I've been alone for 3 years now. Sure it sucks and every once in a while I cry. But except on days like today when I actually mention it, the rest of the world doesn't know. Why bring them down. So I make the choice to be positive. To act funny even if I don't always feel it.

stephen84usa Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 180	Mon 05/12/14 09:15 PM
I think I'm gonna adopt a dog or a cat...then women can come up to me... and pet my pet...but i need to find a full time job so i can afford a pet

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/12/14 09:16 PM
one night stands is not what i'm looking for... im looking to make a commitment.. im too old for one night stands

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/12/14 09:16 PM
one night stands is not what i'm looking for... im looking to make a commitment.. im too old for one night stands .. too old.lmao.. ok grandpa..omg.. . what like you're 29.. or was it 26 I can't remember.. . that's old you see the difference..lmoao.. laughing my old *** off..

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Mon 05/12/14 09:22 PM
one night stands is not what i'm looking for... im looking to make a commitment.. im too old for one night stands I don't know if you want to put the commitment thing out there right away. I agree with the person who said just make friends. What you said about getting a puppy. Definitely would work too

stephen84usa Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 180	Mon 05/12/14 09:23 PM Edited by stephen84usa on Mon 05/12/14 09:25 PM
I want to get a puppy or a cat.. I know I'll get women that way...but its expensive... when i get a full time job.. i will definitely get me one.. i hate these dumb employers for not hiring me to go full time .. i miss making lots of purchases and i need a pet dog or cat.. nowww

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Mon 05/12/14 09:26 PM
..^^^so how come you never returned any of my mail ..huh. . . what I'm not funny enough for you.. I was tongue tied and awestruck . You're smart and funny that I get all tongue tied

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Mon 05/12/14 09:28 PM
I think I'm gonna adopt a dog or a cat...then women can come up to me... and pet my pet...but i need to find a full time job so i can afford a pet Hey, I'm a work shy freeloader and I've got a dog. Good idea though. When I'm out panhandling women come up to me all the time and pet my dog.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/12/14 09:29 PM
..^^^so how come you never returned any of my mail ..huh. . . what I'm not funny enough for you.. I was tongue tied and awestruck . You're smart and funny that I get all tongue tied ..Aww.. but you left out handsome. .. how are you doinggggg..: .

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Mon 05/12/14 09:31 PM Edited by dreamerana on Mon 05/12/14 09:32 PM
..^^^so how come you never returned any of my mail ..huh. . . what I'm not funny enough for you.. I was tongue tied and awestruck . You're smart and funny that I get all tongue tied ..Aww.. but you left out handsome. .. how are you doinggggg..: . Oh my bad. You're right. I did forget handsome and sexy too and ever so humble. I'm doing good. Hope you are too

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Mon 05/12/14 09:40 PM
Also, don't say to them that you just want to chat. I tried that once and got zero women replying to me. Saying that you just want friends is for women. Not even for them really. Saying that you just want to chat says "time waster" to anyone that's on here for dating.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Mon 05/12/14 09:45 PM
Also, don't say to them that you just want to chat. I tried that once and got zero women replying to me. Saying that you just want friends is for women. Not even for them really. Saying that you just want to chat says "time waster" to anyone that's on here for dating. Hmm. I think I'm benefiting from some of this advice too. Thank you Tawt

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Mon 05/12/14 09:53 PM
I want to get a puppy or a cat.. I know I'll get women that way...but its expensive... when i get a full time job.. i will definitely get me one.. i hate these dumb employers for not hiring me to go full time .. i miss making lots of purchases and i need a pet dog or cat.. nowww Very interesting concept. Get a *** then you'll get the real one. You should get a *** not because you can afford it but because you love it! Just saying ;)

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Mon 05/12/14 10:02 PM
No problem. Also, I should probably say that I was joking when I said that I go panhandling if any women that might date me are reading this, which I'm doubtful about. Nobody that I've ever dated has even bothered to read forum posts and hardly any that message with me do either. No, wait... That's it. That must be why some of them ignore me.

cococabeza Joined Fri 12/13/13 Posts: 590	Mon 05/12/14 10:11 PM
You guys are hilarious! :)

stephen84usa Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 180	Mon 05/12/14 10:14 PM
From depressing to hilarious... what a twist!!!

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/12/14 10:15 PM Edited by no1phD on Mon 05/12/14 10:20 PM
.. I take my dog milo.. out for walks all the time.. he never gets any of the women.. . but the French poodles lookout.. . you should see this dog . work his game.. .. . and it's not just French poodles. . he went after a ward of rabbits. . the other day. . the dog has no shame.. gave a whole new meaning.. to the phrase f*** ing like a rabbit..lmao.jk

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/12/14 10:55 PM
.. well apparently buy not adopting a dog out of the pound.. . maybe just rent one.. . . are better yet just wear hush puppies... . the sponsors of this program.. would like to take this opportunity. . to say no puppies were harmed in the making of this program..lmao.hi.u . ducks for cover. behind his truck. well she throws rocks at him...lol