you love someone but he doesn't.... it hurts soo bad

Thats true

yes... very true

love is a gift, not a possession, so you can't love someone unless they love you.

ie. to love someone who doesn't love you is to love being treated badly. That's not love, it's idolitry, narcissism, it's lots of things that aren't love. It's a pretty nasty lesson to put yourself through if you have to learn it the hard way.

yes u are right

I feel so sad when I love someone and the person did not love me back

It does hun, I've had it both ways, I've loved and not been loved back, and I've been loved but not felt the same and it's hard
good luck

The good side of this coin is, it would be awful if
everyone loved everyone else..can you imagine?

Life is a journey, and to make us appreciate it, there
are stumbling blocks along the path.

You now have more wisdom about love, so when the day
comes that love is reciprocal, you will know it and
value it all the more.

We all face what you have.

Look elsewhere, for a sincere person :-)

It hurts really bad.. made me cry and cry and cry and cry...

its real hard, it made me cry.

Anything one-sided feels like little knives stabbing at your emotions

Stupid.....that's right I said it. I feel stupid mostly because I couldn't see the signs.

me too Scoob!

Seems like you are missing the point the It is a plus to be able to love someone not a minus that they don't love you back. That will come when it is meant to be. It is often the people you love that brings the person who will love you into your life. It may be the friend of a well treated co-worker, neighbor, classmate, or someone on the borders of your life that says "Oh that person is so nice to everyone" and helps someone who is ready to love to find you..

It's hurting of course..when you love someone and you want to say it but then you know your love will only be rejected. I usually just keep it to myself and try to move on.

.. that's why I shut the love tap of ..a long time ago..
. I like you a lot.
I care for you a lot.
. I desire you a lot.
. but apart from family.. and! even them sometimes I'm not too sure about. ..

It hurts for like two days. Then you pep up and go water balloon cars on the freeway. Life is good when water balloons are involved.

I'm just a bit more cautious about it now. Used to get ahead of myself and would build up these fantasies in my mind about someone that didn't really match up with reality at all and were just the way that I wanted it to be. I'm open to it and I want it but I test the waters before jumping in, so to speak. The fear of being hurt isn't good really. Makes you like someone that's been abused and has trust issues. I just think that taking it a bit slower or at the same pace as the other person is better because you don't want them telling you that you're getting too serious for them when they're not ready for that yet.