Do I have a problem here or am I just thinking I do?

A girl at work had been having some problems at home. I always stop to talk to her for a moment to see how she's doing. She is a loner type and doesn't have many people that talk to her. Needless to say one night she comes in late and says she is moving out. She was pretty upset...I asked if she needed someone to talk to I'd sit with her at lunch.
She came in to late to get a lunch that night so I said we could talk the next night over lunch........

The next night she comes to work with her hair down (never saw her like that before). She had a little make-up on and was looking pretty. We ended up eating outside...She didn't want the world to hear her Life story......She told it to me though..................Maybe more than I wanted to know.......

I never really had much of a clue when a girl liked me....In this case I think she does.......If she is liking me in a more than a friend way I would like to end that thought quickly yet politely........If the Ladies out there could give me an opinion on this I would appreciate......

She is obviously flirting with you and is trying to see how you feel about her. By listening to her and spending time with her, you have given her the impression that you are interested in her as well.

It's more that I feel sorry for her than it is an interest in her.....

Simply tell her you want to be friend's, that listening to
her is what a friend will do for you. Be honest and tell her
soon. It sounds like she may rebound off you...Goodluck!

she likes you Mike!! Make up is they way I can tell!

I agree Teddy....

I wasn't quite sure if she liked me. I didn't want to assume that she did. Then give her the "I only want to be friends speech" that would be awkward....

Situations like these are hard. Be upfront and honest with her. Don't put it off. I know some guys would feed their ego with this..it makes a person feel good to be needed. Sounds like she needs a friend and that can be confusing when you are in a bad relationship. It's easy to confuse needing a friend and wanting something more. Good luck.

I agree with the ladies.

Mike you have a compassionate ear and a caring way about you. That is a very attractive thing to a woman who feels empty at home. I can see how she might want it to be more...you allow her to feel cared about and who doesn't want to feel special?

Just be honest with her. I agree with MsTeddy ... rebound potential is big here.

Best wishes

Mike, if she's changing her appearance, she likes you...better have that talk sooner rather than later.

I'm with Artgirl!!! Caring and compassionate are rare to find!!! Hang in there Mike!

Thank you all........

I've had this on my mind all day. I just didn't know how to deal with it...She's very delicate right now and didn't want to crush her ego more than it already is........I understand the rebound potential...And I work with her and would never date at work anyway........

It's harder to see everthing when your in the middle of it all.....So Thanks again for letting me see what I thought I was seeing.........Just needed a second opinion

MIKE...

You know how I feel about this already....

Puffins....I should have said something the other day to her...Just wasn't sure if I knew what was happening

Mike, people tend to look for rebounds some one to fix their problems so they don't have to...
& jeezzz most guys don't even ask whats wrong in their own back yard let alone somebody else's...
you could talk about your moving & say your glad that your not in any kind of relationship that you will have to deal with...
DON'T LET HER TAKE YOU AWAY FROM OTHERS!!

MIKE...

You have to tell her hon...before she becomes MORE infatuated with you than she is ALREADY!!!!!

Mike, yeah, she likes you. Be polite and just mention in passing the next time you both talk that you are happy being single. Just try to make it sound matter of fact....just be nice about it and slide it into the conversation, or something to that affect that would clue her in on this.

HUGS!

Remember, I had a crush on you too , but you have still been a wonderful friend!

I did tell her I was moving.........

Maybe thats why she is tryin to get a spark!!
She lookin for a ride out of the corn fields!!

Maybe