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| Topic: Leave an ANONYMOUS or NOT SO ANONYMOUS MSG - part 24 | |
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hey you in the back there, lets pick up the pace...you're movin' slower than a turtle crossing an interstate highway...
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Just giving a shout out to (((Blondey))), (((Dreamerana))), and (((Astrid)))!!!
 Thanks for the encouragement yesterday while I was having one of my Debbie downer days!(BPD day) |
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 Topher that is plain taunting - please could you add a recipe too  Gibbs, I would, but, alas, I don't bake 'em, I just post pictures of them. |
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You continue to make me smile from deep inside until my face reflects it.
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Just giving a shout out to (((Blondey))), (((Dreamerana))), and (((Astrid)))!!! Thanks for the encouragement yesterday while I was having one of my Debbie downer days!(BPD day) You are most welcome Scoobert  Never lose hope. You never know what tomorrow may bring. 
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((((Scoob))) you know we care.
I agree exactly with what Astrid said. Never lose hope. |
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now it may have seemed like a good idea to you.. but putting your hand on my leg.. while we're at dinner.. and then sliding it between my legs.. Hmm.. maybe if there would have been a fourth date.. but on our first date..hmm.. yeah I'm not that desperate.... I mean..omg.. really.. and right when I thought it was going really well Wow.. Sorry about your date phD... 
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now it may have seemed like a good idea to you.. but putting your hand on my leg.. while we're at dinner.. and then sliding it between my legs.. Hmm.. maybe if there would have been a fourth date.. but on our first date..hmm.. yeah I'm not that desperate.... I mean..omg.. really.. and right when I thought it was going really well Wow.. Sorry about your date phD... yeah I know!!. I don't know what I'm doing wrong.. I mean we talk we message we phone... its going good. . then we have the meet and greet. . and then somehow.. i either get. wow you're better looking than I thought... and then I automatically turn into a piece of meat... are they get paranoid.. and get upset every time.. another woman in the room. gives me the up and down look.. I know how arrogant this must sound..but..omg.. it is starting to become a bit of an issue.. I mean I would like to go on at least one date. where its pleasant it's about the conversation. where we enjoy each others company.. it can't just always be.. about sex.. R is it!! I don't know.. .. I'm getting really confused.. do I stop being me.. do I need to dress down.. do I need to stop being attentive and flattering.. I thought online would be different.. you know get to know them first.. but somehow . it always goes back to..sex..hmm. . sorry everybody.. I'm just a bit disappointed.. I'm sure a lot of women aren't like that.. but where are they.. and yes sometimes I would like sex... but I don't make it.. well you know slobber over the person..omg.. again sorry everyone just a little rant... |
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now it may have seemed like a good idea to you.. but putting your hand on my leg.. while we're at dinner.. and then sliding it between my legs.. Hmm.. maybe if there would have been a fourth date.. but on our first date..hmm.. yeah I'm not that desperate.... I mean..omg.. really.. and right when I thought it was going really well Wow.. Sorry about your date phD... yeah I know!!. I don't know what I'm doing wrong.. I mean we talk we message we phone... its going good. . then we have the meet and greet. . and then somehow.. i either get. wow you're better looking than I thought... and then I automatically turn into a piece of meat... are they get paranoid.. and get upset every time.. another woman in the room. gives me the up and down look.. I know how arrogant this must sound..but..omg.. it is starting to become a bit of an issue.. I mean I would like to go on at least one date. where its pleasant it's about the conversation. where we enjoy each others company.. it can't just always be.. about sex.. R is it!! I don't know.. .. I'm getting really confused.. do I stop being me.. do I need to dress down.. do I need to stop being attentive and flattering.. I thought online would be different.. you know get to know them first.. but somehow . it always goes back to..sex..hmm. . sorry everybody.. I'm just a bit disappointed.. I'm sure a lot of women aren't like that.. but where are they.. and yes sometimes I would like sex... but I don't make it.. well you know slobber over the person..omg.. again sorry everyone just a little rant... We love just the way you are. Whatever happened don't take it personally. It says nothing about you but a lot about them.
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now it may have seemed like a good idea to you.. but putting your hand on my leg.. while we're at dinner.. and then sliding it between my legs.. Hmm.. maybe if there would have been a fourth date.. but on our first date..hmm.. yeah I'm not that desperate.... I mean..omg.. really.. and right when I thought it was going really well Wow.. Sorry about your date phD... yeah I know!!. I don't know what I'm doing wrong.. I mean we talk we message we phone... its going good. . then we have the meet and greet. . and then somehow.. i either get. wow you're better looking than I thought... and then I automatically turn into a piece of meat... are they get paranoid.. and get upset every time.. another woman in the room. gives me the up and down look.. I know how arrogant this must sound..but..omg.. it is starting to become a bit of an issue.. I mean I would like to go on at least one date. where its pleasant it's about the conversation. where we enjoy each others company.. it can't just always be.. about sex.. R is it!! I don't know.. .. I'm getting really confused.. do I stop being me.. do I need to dress down.. do I need to stop being attentive and flattering.. I thought online would be different.. you know get to know them first.. but somehow . it always goes back to..sex..hmm. . sorry everybody.. I'm just a bit disappointed.. I'm sure a lot of women aren't like that.. but where are they.. and yes sometimes I would like sex... but I don't make it.. well you know slobber over the person..omg.. again sorry everyone just a little rant... No1 Well in my own personal opinion I am telling you this, DO NOT CHANGE WHO YOU ARE! She was not the right one for you. The other women that reflected her actions, were not the right woman for you. Yes it does always come back to sex, we all know this as adults. However, it does not have to, especially on the first date unless it is something you both want. When they make you feel uncomfortable it is time to tell them and end the date. I know as a woman that is what I would do. You will find her, she is out there waiting for you. You just haven't bumped into her yet, never give up hope my friend
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thanks you two.. that means a lot.
. it gives me hope.. and I realize it's just a matter of time.. it is like buying produce.. you have to look at each Apple carefully.. before you find that perfect one.. and journey.. . I generally don't cut the date short. . if I promise someone a night out. . I give them a night out.. I just cut back on the drinks... do a little more deflecting.. and have them keep there hands where I can see them..   |
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Why always me Because you're special. |
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Edited by
BrandNewJourney
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Sat 06/07/14 10:09 AM
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thanks you two.. that means a lot. . it gives me hope.. and I realize it's just a matter of time.. it is like buying produce.. you have to look at each Apple carefully.. before you find that perfect one.. and journey.. . I generally don't cut the date short. . if I promise someone a night out. . I give them a night out.. I just cut back on the drinks... do a little more deflecting.. and have them keep there hands where I can see them.. OH!! You carry a shield. What a novel idea. I can see it now, hold on let me get something out of my jacket pocket.  Seriously though, anyone doing what you mentioned before, is very uncomfortable for me as a woman. Crossing boundaries when permission to do so was not given. It would make me fear the possibilities of more aggressive actions that I do not want if I were to stay. The exact reason I would leave to be perfectly honest. I do not see why it should be any different for a man in the same position. I also think that when that line is crossed it exes out the promise of a night out and it ends right there. Your own safety and the right to feel comfortable is in fact the most important thing at the end of the night. |
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Why always me Because you're special. AAAWWW I think you are too |
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Mate, I flirt with women as well and I'm not sure what your problem is. I had one the other month giving me inappropriate sexual contact and it didn't really bother me. She was just being a bit frisky and it wasn't like I hadn't initiated the flirting. What are you worried about? Is it that you don't trust yourself to resist temptation and don't want to jump into anything too quickly, or do you just think that a woman is a tart when she does that or what?
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Drama freeeeeeee yeahhhh!!
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Think your animal magnetism is driving them women folk into warp speed No1!
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My dog thinks I'm awesome
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My dog thinks I'm awesome Does that make her/him/it the smartest one in the room, or what. |
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