yes i am back, to ask the members of justsayhi a question, please be honest, so here goes. i met this girl on here, we talked for about a week and we really hit it off, like on everything, from the hobbies we share to the number of kids we want to the gender of them we ever have siblings that are the same age. now last night she tells me her ex called her and wanted to try and work things out, that he'd made a huge mistake by letting her go, she told me that he broke up with her because of the distance which is like 3.5 hrs drive time. she told him that she'd give him one more chance and thats it, that she didnt want to sit around and play games, this she told me this afternoon. my question for the members of justsayhi is, do ya'll think i should wait and she what happens or keep on moving???? please help a good ole boy out

Drew

Keep on moving, if she wanted you and you alone she wouldn't have agreed to give the old flame another chance. Sounds like you were just busy work.. no offense.

keep on moving

sounds like she is playing games.

Rest awhile....take some time for you.


Wait? for what?

You are not some item on a shelf...a commodity...although, at the least she had the decency to tell you what was playing out.

Find someone better Drew

Sorry Drew, gotta agree with the others, if she really wanted you she would have told the ex to get lost, not given him one more chance. I am really sorry she treated you like that. She was a real jerk.

she went backwards, to the wrong person and gave up on a good guy which is you, and you should just move ahead, as it seem what she did was play with your emotions by doing this off the bat, her only though was with him and not with you

forget her.YOU deserve MUCH MUCH better than ANY floozy out there.find someone else AFTER you take time for yourself.

i agree with all the other members move on & you find someone better..

I don't think I'd term her playing you or playing with you, as she told you what was happening. Yes, I agree with continue on with your life. If she pops back in it, then you're gonna have to do the soul search/question routine.

id move on but you never know its very easy to go back to someone you dated before because you built so much chemistry with them sooo id just take it easy for a while no need to rush things

No chances, MOVE ON, you were looking when you found her.

u need to move on and find someone better then that "woman"

I'd say you had no ties if she wanted to go back 2 the ex why should you wait for her she didnt even give you a chance obviously she still has feelings for him. If it happens she comes back well then u can deal with it then otherwise enjoy urself meet someone else when she comes back maybe you'll have the same scenario for her.

why should you wait around to be her back up in case it doesnt work?
your better than that dont ever play second fiddle.

im not sure when he ex called it off, but i know that i have only had one person in my life rock me to my core like this, and i mean in the way we connected. that person is my ex wife whom i was married to for 2.5 yrs and ive never hit it off with anybody like this before we had so much in common it was almost scary but....................................................

keep on moving-
she does not know what she wants and is not over her past

i have had a lot in common and thought the person was "mr right" that i was talking to until we met in person!!!

do not go by your feelings right now
do not allow yourself to be used
no one deserves to be

Sorry buddy!!Just move along!
The third wheel sucks!!!

Sorry to hear that bro

Move on , You'll find what you're looking for

ok so i think i worded my intentions wrong its not like im sitting around the house waiting for a knock on the door, i still talk to her everyday and she said that she still wants to communicate with me, i dunno if shes having a hard time deciding on who or what tp do