romantic????...u bet!!

I am so with you snuggle...... I think it is the little things that count.... smiles...

I do believe that there are some good men out there, as there are some really good women, just waiting to be found. I think the key is not acting desperate. I do not like being alone, yet I am doing just fine alone. I do not need someone in my life I want someone in my life to share it with.

Dates are so different today. When we were younger (me) we had drive in theaters to go to , dances at the armory evey other week, cruised the strip in down town where we met alot of great guys. It was so different then. I am telling my age UGH, but it was fun and we had fun doing it and we were good kids. Never drank nor smoked or got in trouble, just had good clean fun, where oh where have those days gone?????

Romance will only die if you let it

(((((((((Katers)))))))))

I think it does take a while to get to know someone. I've made mistakes by rushing in to relationships...Now I want to find that one that I can have as a friend and a lover. In reality how does that happen over night??? I'm a guy...I'm just not the loud mouth, Mr. hottie that alot of you women might be looking for....I'm just me...You either like me or you don't.

I'm not knocking men, love them and for the most part, and maybe I've been lucky, I've been with some really good ones. I also think part of the problem is expectations, women are brought up on fairy tales, of Prince Charming and happily ever after. There's a reason it's called a fairy tale, perfection doesn't exist but expectations of it from a very young age are instilled. Not that anyone should settle for something they don't want but to expect absolute perfection from anyone, male or female, is a ridiculous notion.

I am a romantic kind of guy. However, why do most woman think that because a guy is nice and do nice gestures is looking to jump her bone? Sex does not always run through my mind and blood. Beside sex can be boring if the intellectual sense is not there. I am stimulated by a nice conversation.

((((((((((((((((mike))))))))))))))

i love romance,
if you let that die you lose so much
romance makes a woman feel special,loved,wanted

Interesting topic..and yet not one guy has posted here...so I guess Ill be the lab rat and post.

Too often I hear from the stories of my girlfriends when were hanging out, to the blogs/posts on sites such as these where women complain that there are no nice guys out there--that all they want is a down to earth, treat em like a princess, and caring, romantic type of guy--well I call Bull****.

If I have to listen to stories such as these from real life to cyber friends anymore--im gonna puke. When a women gets a guy that they supposely want, such as the topic describes--they just squander it--and eventually leave/cheat on the guy.
Ive ALWAYS been the nice guy...because its in my nature--and yoiu know what, women see that as weakness and you are labeled
'friend' material--which equal no 'intimate' encounters.

So lets be honest for a moment and say what women really want--they want a Athletic, tall, and dominent man, that pays them just enough attention to keep em intrested--while always leaving them nervous that they may leave them for someone else--thereby making the women try her best to please him.

You say all men want is sex--fair enough. Then I say that all women want is things they cant have--but when aquired--just trash it!

Several guys have posted here Muddy.

wow i thought i was a guy i better check again

i guess that's why i feel i'm not wanted shutterguy...i can't find a man who will treat me that way.

i would love to show you what that is like katers

Nvm..when I posted there was no guys that posted :)

Katers...Maybe you need to take more time

Romance Is not dead!!
Not in my world!!!!
I love being romantic!!!!
Its good for the soul!

Romance required here, or the date is a no go, have this all figured out before I accept the invitation.

Gives us hope ladies.... woooooooooooooooooooooo!

shutterguy

not sure anymore Mike