Topic: ur opinions abt one night stands ?
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Mon 04/07/14 03:16 AM


I personally (just my opinion here) don't see that it fills any need other than physical. I would never have a one night stand, I need more than that to fulfill my desires. I actually need a connection to begin to make the physical worth the effort. A one night stand would make me feel like less of a person than I know I truly am. I would also feel dirty and nasty, and no amount of water can wash that away. It may be okay for some but not this woman.


You may not be into one night stands, but sex isn't some dirty, nasty thing. Sounds like you've got some issues with sex to begin with.


I agree. I can understand ones preference but adding "dirty and nasty" does raise red flags.

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Mon 04/07/14 03:34 AM
Edited by ridewytepony on Mon 04/07/14 03:35 AM

Me and this certain male friend, always seemed to have this hidden sexual tension thing going on. It must have showed a lot in public. Though I tried my best to hide it. One night, we were both very drunk and he seemed a bit clingy. Well-known friend + sexual tension + alcohol = drunken sex. The only reason I enjoyed it, was because I'd already known him for a long time. I guess I was waiting for it. But never expected it to really happen. It felt somehow right, but because it was him. I'd never do sex with a stranger. I can't get attracted to someone I don't know. It isn't my thing. Just because I'm single, it doesn't mean I'm taking a stranger home to sleep with, every friday night.


No it doesn't mean your sleping with strangers every friday night
but it doesn't rule out sex with strangers thus & Saturdays or friday
nights either.

Thats more c_ _ _ ends than weekendstongue2 waving

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Mon 04/07/14 05:55 AM



What do u guys think of women seeking FWB or NSA .. i mean what's the point ?


if that is what someone wants, that's what they want. not for me to judge.


Hallelujah and pass the mashed potatoes....................................................Please!:angel:


friend request sent!

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Mon 04/07/14 06:02 AM
Edited by BrandNewJourney on Mon 04/07/14 06:03 AM



I personally (just my opinion here) don't see that it fills any need other than physical. I would never have a one night stand, I need more than that to fulfill my desires. I actually need a connection to begin to make the physical worth the effort. A one night stand would make me feel like less of a person than I know I truly am. I would also feel dirty and nasty, and no amount of water can wash that away. It may be okay for some but not this woman.


You may not be into one night stands, but sex isn't some dirty, nasty thing. Sounds like you've got some issues with sex to begin with.


I agree. I can understand ones preference but adding "dirty and nasty" does raise red flags.


Red Flags? Really? Shall I explain a bit more then? Do I really need to explain my feelings to complete strangers because they cannot think deeper than the words before them?

One night stands, I WILL REPEAT ONCE MORE JUST MY OPINION, are dirty and nasty. My reasons are my reasons and these reasons apply to ONLY ME not every person here that thinks I am talking about them. I visualize one night stands as I would what a prostitute does for a living. I am above that and deserve more than that. Just because some people cannot think deeper than the words before them does not mean I have ISSUES with sex. Use your brains and think deep here people.

It is sad to think someone cannot express their own personal feelings without being judged for them.

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Mon 04/07/14 06:40 AM




I personally (just my opinion here) don't see that it fills any need other than physical. I would never have a one night stand, I need more than that to fulfill my desires. I actually need a connection to begin to make the physical worth the effort. A one night stand would make me feel like less of a person than I know I truly am. I would also feel dirty and nasty, and no amount of water can wash that away. It may be okay for some but not this woman.


You may not be into one night stands, but sex isn't some dirty, nasty thing. Sounds like you've got some issues with sex to begin with.


I agree. I can understand ones preference but adding "dirty and nasty" does raise red flags.


Red Flags? Really? Shall I explain a bit more then? Do I really need to explain my feelings to complete strangers because they cannot think deeper than the words before them?

One night stands, I WILL REPEAT ONCE MORE JUST MY OPINION, are dirty and nasty. My reasons are my reasons and these reasons apply to ONLY ME not every person here that thinks I am talking about them. I visualize one night stands as I would what a prostitute does for a living. I am above that and deserve more than that. Just because some people cannot think deeper than the words before them does not mean I have ISSUES with sex. Use your brains and think deep here people.

It is sad to think someone cannot express their own personal feelings without being judged for them.


Keep digging, why don't you? First it's dirty and nasty and now people that do it are like prostitutes.

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Mon 04/07/14 06:43 AM
Edited by BrandNewJourney on Mon 04/07/14 06:48 AM





I personally (just my opinion here) don't see that it fills any need other than physical. I would never have a one night stand, I need more than that to fulfill my desires. I actually need a connection to begin to make the physical worth the effort. A one night stand would make me feel like less of a person than I know I truly am. I would also feel dirty and nasty, and no amount of water can wash that away. It may be okay for some but not this woman.


You may not be into one night stands, but sex isn't some dirty, nasty thing. Sounds like you've got some issues with sex to begin with.


I agree. I can understand ones preference but adding "dirty and nasty" does raise red flags.


Red Flags? Really? Shall I explain a bit more then? Do I really need to explain my feelings to complete strangers because they cannot think deeper than the words before them?

One night stands, I WILL REPEAT ONCE MORE JUST MY OPINION, are dirty and nasty. My reasons are my reasons and these reasons apply to ONLY ME not every person here that thinks I am talking about them. I visualize one night stands as I would what a prostitute does for a living. I am above that and deserve more than that. Just because some people cannot think deeper than the words before them does not mean I have ISSUES with sex. Use your brains and think deep here people.

It is sad to think someone cannot express their own personal feelings without being judged for them.


Keep digging, why don't you? First it's dirty and nasty and now people that do it are like prostitutes.


THAT IS HOW I SEE IT FOR MYSELF!!!!! NOTHING MORE!!! Dear god

DID I SAY ANYONE OTHER THAN MYSELF? NO I DID NOT!

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Mon 04/07/14 06:55 AM
@BrandNewJourney, You shouldn't have to explain your decisions. It's not like we're getting checked for how pervy we are. lol. I really like your posts. I think you're one classy lady. Who cares what others think? ;)

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Mon 04/07/14 07:02 AM
really honey don't feed the trolls.

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Mon 04/07/14 07:07 AM

really honey don't feed the trolls.


Yea I am done. Thank you flowerforyou

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Mon 04/07/14 07:08 AM

@BrandNewJourney, You shouldn't have to explain your decisions. It's not like we're getting checked for how pervy we are. lol. I really like your posts. I think you're one classy lady. Who cares what others think? ;)


Thank you :heart:

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Mon 04/07/14 07:13 AM


really honey don't feed the trolls.


Yea I am done. Thank you flowerforyou

lonelyman3036's photo
Mon 04/07/14 07:13 AM


really honey don't feed the trolls.


Yea I am done. Thank you flowerforyou

good call journey

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Mon 04/07/14 07:16 AM






I personally (just my opinion here) don't see that it fills any need other than physical. I would never have a one night stand, I need more than that to fulfill my desires. I actually need a connection to begin to make the physical worth the effort. A one night stand would make me feel like less of a person than I know I truly am. I would also feel dirty and nasty, and no amount of water can wash that away. It may be okay for some but not this woman.


You may not be into one night stands, but sex isn't some dirty, nasty thing. Sounds like you've got some issues with sex to begin with.


I agree. I can understand ones preference but adding "dirty and nasty" does raise red flags.


Red Flags? Really? Shall I explain a bit more then? Do I really need to explain my feelings to complete strangers because they cannot think deeper than the words before them?

One night stands, I WILL REPEAT ONCE MORE JUST MY OPINION, are dirty and nasty. My reasons are my reasons and these reasons apply to ONLY ME not every person here that thinks I am talking about them. I visualize one night stands as I would what a prostitute does for a living. I am above that and deserve more than that. Just because some people cannot think deeper than the words before them does not mean I have ISSUES with sex. Use your brains and think deep here people.

It is sad to think someone cannot express their own personal feelings without being judged for them.


Keep digging, why don't you? First it's dirty and nasty and now people that do it are like prostitutes.


THAT IS HOW I SEE IT FOR MYSELF!!!!! NOTHING MORE!!! Dear god

DID I SAY ANYONE OTHER THAN MYSELF? NO I DID NOT!



Oh, I get you now. It's like when I say that I think that gay sex is dirty and nasty. I'm just saying why I wouldn't do it. It has nothing to do with anybody else and I'm not judging.

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Sat 04/12/14 06:14 PM
,,yep i am totally agred with yor comment :)

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Sat 04/12/14 06:27 PM

I had them when I was younger and no damage was done. Now that I'm older I look at life different and enjoy the romance aspect much better than a quicky.


Definitely. They are so not worth it! Give me something of value, honesty, true loving consideration, and heartfelt feeling with unwavering commitment and the value is worth more than gold itself.

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Sat 04/12/14 06:29 PM
One night stands and or casual sex are not for me. But I do know people who have had them because they are at such a low point in their life that even just a little attention is all they want.
And then I also know someone who married her one night stand and they have been together 20 years now.

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Sat 04/12/14 08:29 PM
if it's a one niter it means he weren't too good really

do not wanna repeat

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Sat 04/12/14 08:53 PM
in otherwords

yawn

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Sat 04/12/14 09:00 PM
I must admit that I have frequently fell madly in love for one night

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Sat 04/12/14 09:07 PM

I must admit that I have frequently fell madly in love for one night

ahh yes and we hear from another famed bad boy :)flowerforyou :heart: