why do some of u like guys that treat u like crap? i had an ex-girlfriend whose boyfriend before me treated her like s**t. i came along and treated her the way my mother taught me to treat a lady. well one night we were laying in bed and i told her i loved her, she said she loved me too. the next night she cheated on me with a guy that again treated her like s**t. we broke up and she ended up with a guy that once again treats her like crap.


why do us nice guys alsways get sh**ed on?

I know what your talking about,
I have been there before

yeah it sucks. but why do females stay with a guy that is an asshole and treats them bad

because we are available lol It's the way of the world.... suck it up and move on

it cant be explained man i had a girl that i was engaged to cheat on me with a guy that treated her like total **** and then she married him and i treated her like a queen just like i was raised to

because we are too scared to leave...take it from someone who lived that life before.

Not this lady...To each her own...BUT I will never ever settle for a man that treats me like crap again...Been there done that...NOT going back there AGAIN!!!!!!!!!

First its not just guys that poo poo on. Second she didnt love you.

One reason, is poor self esteem.

Another, is addiction.

i think u are right jess

yeah it sucks countryboy

That was my last relationship. I dont get it, But I am single and I am still a decent man to the ladies just because my mom would kill me if i wasnt.

i'm in the same boat as u ctss. still single but it hard these days to find a lady who doesn't like to be treated right

Okay guys Im gonna tell you what I really want from a guy. I want a good, sweet, funny guy that can be an butthead at times (no hitting).

well cats u just described me to a "T"

I'll probably get hate mail for this, but it's just my opinion:

When women are with a good guy, they get thought going thru their heads, such as "What's he up to?" and wondering when the other shoe will drop. They think there's gotta be an ulterior motive to a guy treating them like they're a queen.

On the other hand, with a guy that treats them like crap, they know exactly where they stand in his eyes. They think the guy has no ulteroir motives, and they "get used to" the crap treatment. Of course, women seem to have a natural "I can change him" attitude, thinking they can make a "good guy" out
of him. Another line of thought is some women feel that "he did it to other women, but he won't do it to me". And, of course, there's the old reliable, "But he's a good provider", used when friends ask the woman why she stays with the creep.

That's just my opinion, gathered from years of listening to female friends, family members, and co-workers. AND women who have dumped a nice guy like me for a jerk who treats them bad.
I await the hate mail.

Sticks and stones will break my bones,
But words will never hurt me.
This is a lie. An ex hit me over the head with a dictionary, and it hurt like hell .

For the most part I WANT IT ALL. hehe

i think some of your opinions are right on knoxman

Well ya know Knox...You aren't far from the truth...When you're used to men treating you like crap...You sure do question the motives of the nice...BUT this is also an unhealthy place to be!!!!!!!!

that is also true natice