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Topic: FSM, how often do you initiate first contact?
kellyboo1's photo
Fri 04/04/14 06:59 PM

I would appreciate honest answers to the following questions, from any females willing to participate.

Pertaining specifically to "online dating":

1. Do you expect and/or rely on men to send the first message? If so why?

2. If you have ever sent the first message, specifically what motivated you to?

3. Do you feel no need to send first messages because your inbox is seldom empty?


1. yes I guess I do expect the man to send the first... I am shy to an extent.

2. if I have messaged them I think they are attractive , my age and city.

3. my inbox can be either a few messages to none. its just my shyness and idk what to write to someone really.

those are my honest answers.

Kaleijoscope's photo
Fri 04/04/14 08:07 PM
If i come across a profile or a post that made me smile and think "he rocks", i always let the person know..,to initiate is no biggie for me..i especially like those that are dripping with good sense of humor..

markc48's photo
Sun 04/06/14 02:23 PM

To be honest, I don't think I'll ever end up dating anymore men from THIS website. I just have a feeling I won't. Not sure why.
I feel the same way. And why its easier the other way.

soufiehere's photo
Sun 04/06/14 02:39 PM

Sofie... sarcasm? what Who's the "atavistic cave-man", you for your answer, or me for asking the question? spock smile2

hahahaha
I meant me, a trait hidden in the genes from cave-man days,
those bat-huggers took the initiative, I still expect
them to :-)

technovative's photo
Sun 04/06/14 02:52 PM


Sofie... sarcasm? what Who's the "atavistic cave-man", you for your answer, or me for asking the question? spock smile2

hahahaha
I meant me, a trait hidden in the genes from cave-man days,
those bat-huggers took the initiative, I still expect
them to :-)


Roger That. :smile:

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