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krazy4you22 Joined Thu 03/27/14 Posts: 3	Thu 03/27/14 10:58 PM
where are all the older men that want a serious and loving committed relationship

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Thu 03/27/14 11:14 PM
.. how old are we talking about..?. like you need a walker old...

vanaheim Joined Sun 12/29/13 Posts: 531	Thu 03/27/14 11:45 PM
You might want to try to step outside your own wonton desires if you're the one interested in discovering a serious relationship. Yes that's right, discovering a relationship because that's how they're found, they're discovered like a diamond in the sand. They're not caused like a contractual obligation or buying a vacuum cleaner. Try this thought: every guy, absolutely every guy in the entire universe will automatically have a serious loving relationship with the right person. And that's what you need to discover: the right person. How is it so many ridiculous people enter the dating forum believing it's all just like picking lollies in a candy store and all up to whomever to just plain make themselves feel a certain way about you because you want that. Just doesn't work that way. You want a person to like you? You find one who likes you. It's not even about what you do, it's not a technique. You want a person to love you? Get to know them and see if that is discovered or not. More often not, because again, it's about being with the right person. All this entitlement crap, "I'm entitled to a relationship on demand," where are you picking this up from? Dr Phil tv shows? It just plain aint real life lady.

teebee79 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 2179	Fri 03/28/14 07:31 AM
You might want to try to step outside your own wonton desires if you're the one interested in discovering a serious relationship. Yes that's right, discovering a relationship because that's how they're found, they're discovered like a diamond in the sand. They're not caused like a contractual obligation or buying a vacuum cleaner. Try this thought: every guy, absolutely every guy in the entire universe will automatically have a serious loving relationship with the right person. And that's what you need to discover: the right person. How is it so many ridiculous people enter the dating forum believing it's all just like picking lollies in a candy store and all up to whomever to just plain make themselves feel a certain way about you because you want that. Just doesn't work that way. You want a person to like you? You find one who likes you. It's not even about what you do, it's not a technique. You want a person to love you? Get to know them and see if that is discovered or not. More often not, because again, it's about being with the right person. All this entitlement crap, "I'm entitled to a relationship on demand," where are you picking this up from? Dr Phil tv shows? It just plain aint real life lady. don't settle krazy4you

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Fri 03/28/14 10:19 AM
where are all the older men that want a serious and loving committed relationship They are all busy dating women who have profile images.

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4976	Fri 03/28/14 11:04 AM
Yeh. A piccy of you in a bikini would be a good start, guys like those, it draws their interest and they read your profile.

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Fri 03/28/14 11:57 AM
yep a nother no pic and a HI/ tell you later.and you think your going to get any one to reply to HI TELL YOU LATER. oh please.write some thing daaaa

Maria195 Joined Fri 10/04/13 Posts: 7361	Fri 03/28/14 12:12 PM
Give this person a break ... who knows if he/she is even real, for all I know it can be somebody looking for a sugar Daddy!

Bassdude007 Joined Wed 02/06/13 Posts: 1	Fri 03/28/14 12:51 PM
Your single man is here if you want him and I live in wooster, ohio.

julie55901 Joined Wed 03/19/14 Posts: 127	Fri 03/28/14 01:08 PM
where are all the older men that want a serious and loving committed relationship They are all in my inbox

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Fri 03/28/14 01:27 PM
^^^

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Fri 03/28/14 05:21 PM
David..that is hilarious coming from you ..where is your profile pic. show me yours and i will show you mine ..double dare you :-) A profile pic is any pic that is uploaded onto your profile. Not only does my profile have pics of me in my naturally-awesome Melmacian form, it also has pics of me wearing my mechanical "Human" suit. So there.

Ɔʎɹɐx Joined Mon 08/19/13 Posts: 4962	Sat 03/29/14 04:34 AM
where are all the older men that want a serious and loving committed relationship

blueyedgal4554 Joined Sat 03/29/14 Posts: 6	Sat 03/29/14 08:35 PM
Are there no older men (to clarify; 50 - 59) who are looking for a serious relationship with women of the same age anymore? The only men that seem to contact me are not much older than my son. Scary.

blueyedgal4554 Joined Sat 03/29/14 Posts: 6	Sun 03/30/14 05:15 AM
Are there no older men (to clarify; 50 - 59) who are looking for a serious relationship with women of the same age anymore? The only men that seem to contact me are not much older than my son. Scary. They figure older women are easier to use. Theyre hoping you will think its flattery. It happens constantly online. Being new to this site, it is a little disconcerting that so many guys think an older woman online means she is an easy mark. I have raised two sons, don't want to raise the son of someone else. Any way to filter the chat function?

blueyedgal4554 Joined Sat 03/29/14 Posts: 6	Sun 03/30/14 05:46 AM
you can set the age settings on emails as well as search criteria. They will be everywhere tho. including the forums. Just roll your eyes and gag privately. thats what I do....well sometimes I dont keep it as private. I hear you. Not sure I am up to sorting through the crap to find the gems. Life is to short.

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Mon 03/31/14 07:14 AM
Well last I checked, this is an internet dating website, and with that means having to sort out the good, the bad and the atrociously ugly. Good luck in your search here on Mingle 2.

Criollo99 Joined Thu 05/09/13 Posts: 1676	Mon 03/31/14 11:12 AM
where are all the older men that want a serious and loving committed relationship They are all in my inbox They R all in Julie inbox because SHE HAS A PHOTO! And a great photo with a beautiful smile. U go Julie!