i do have a bf online for half a year already and all we can do is wait cause his contract got extended again. and now we have time conflicts since its like 8 hours difference..i do see him as my real bf same as what he feels..but lately we haven't really talked for 2 weeks cause i also have a job now. and im having this feeling that he has someone else now even if he is still sending me emails and sounds like he too misses me..

should i still continue with our relationship?

any comments or advice would be fine

Oh sweetie, your so beautiful and so young I truly believe you deserve so much more. Have you talked on the phone? You should have by now. Has he asked for money? Please don't send it it's a scam. Life is to short your in school follow your dreams and finish school you have plenty of time for love

thank you :) well he always try to contact me but this past 2 weeks its either im at work (i just graduated) :) and he knows about it..and i cant go online bcoz im on a night shift.and that would be the time we usually talk..or i fell asleep waiting for him same as last nyt i just read his messages when i woke up..but i do go online and call him whenever im free and during my day off. but i have this feeling that he has sum1 else ryt now or is it just me?

Well if he cant call you or make time for you then maybe you should more on. That's just me though

we can't know for sure. nor do you, so maybe let it play out for now. see what happens, but be aware that this may not go as you had hoped.

take it as a whatever...no reason to not correspond but look for a real man in real life while having a "pen pal"

follow the feelings you have in your gut-----and find out about what us guys are all about so you do not have to use pain as the teacher-----your young there is a big pool of guys out there and you have time----we teach people how to treat us---set your standards high and never believe your love will change or fix a guy---never have sex with a guy you do not know the cost in the long run will be more than its really worth----good luck----

maybe ill just stick to it and see where it goes without getting my hopes up for something unsure for now..but i do appreciate all your replies :) if he is my prince then id be more than happy to spend an ever after with him..if he is not then i'll just wait for the right guy

There ya go Kai121, go with your last thought.

do what makes ya happy

be glad you can feel :)


don;t ignore the cute guy who works at the Speedy King

yeah i will..haha..but i though somehow wish he is..haha..confused..lol

tnx sweetestgirl11 :)

Maybe you can't handle the doubt feelings, not being able to talk to eack
other, realy a lack of control, these kind of relationships put us in a
vulnerable posion and I think you realize that.When you weigh it all up,
its easy to jump while the jumping is good. You joined a dating site today and someone is going to ask you why but I'm not because a think
you want to get out of your situation as it was a good idea until its not.
"Life is what happens to 'you' when 'your' busy making plans".
Best of luck...oh and welcome to Mingle 2

yes i know i joined a dating site just to get out and talk to somebody else...and i am open about things that could happen like finding someone else.but i really do like my current bf and im not yet looking for another guy..but if ever things wont work for us id be willing to move on but in a slower pace im not in a hurry :)

U can break up with him, I m ready to be ur Bf