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Topic: dose she really love me?
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Fri 09/14/07 08:28 PM
lol sorry noel sad

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Fri 09/14/07 08:28 PM
doesnt mean she is cheating..maybe things are moving to fast for her, or she doesnt truelly feel the same way as you do




kojack---we r buds 4 life!laugh

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Fri 09/14/07 08:30 PM
I know noel laugh

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Fri 09/14/07 08:45 PM
Gobucks...no, that doesnt mean she's cheating on you. Perhaps she's just busy. Give her a chance. Wait it out. Cuz things happen, and people get busy. So dont just automatically assume she's cheating. Keep your head up. =] And good luck.

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Sat 09/15/07 08:29 AM
GoBucks, it is very easy to tell if the person your with is in love with you and means it. It is all in the eye.
The eye are the doorway to a person soul. If she truly loves you when she says it she will be looking into your eyes. If they are distant give her time, if time fails then move on.
My priest says that you choose to love someone, so maybe she is just checking you out to see if she can choose to love you.
By the way, I don't agree with that. You fall in love one day. You don't wake up one day and say I'm going to love this person today. You fall in love. Right girls

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Sat 09/15/07 09:57 AM
five weeks is such a short time---
i do not know here to be able to answer the questions
however, sounds like she is just telling you what she
wants you to hear..
and the distance recently-
hmmmm
maybe not cheating but re-evaluating the situation

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Sat 09/15/07 09:59 AM
hey, i want kojack as my bud for life....laugh

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Sat 09/15/07 10:03 AM
You really won't know until you can see her in person....

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Sat 09/15/07 10:04 AM
texasrose is right, how can you say you love her before meeting with her? I've done it that way before and realized i really didn't love him

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Mon 09/17/07 08:40 PM
yeah u said the 3 words of doom, thatll wreck it

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Mon 09/17/07 09:52 PM
scuse me, but how the F*CK can you be in love with someone you NEVER EVEN MET? Be real here doll, its not the real thing.

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Tue 09/18/07 01:02 AM
Hi Zack,

In love with someone you never met in person, and only know via email for a short time ? It's possible, but not likely. How can you truly be in love with someone if you don't know them? The image that most people put on over the internet is far different than the person they really are.

You're in love with a concept, not an actual person. First, it is not the individual that you think you are in love with, it is "Your Imagination", "Your Image", the way "You" hear words being spoken to you, the expressions, the emotions that "You" add into written words. You think you are in love, and maybe you are, but it is with something that in "No" way is "Reality".

So, Zack, I think you are in "Love" with "Love". There is much more to love and it takes time and effort. A good start would be, to meet her in person !!!!

Further........If anyone is "Cheating" it is "You", who is cheating "Yourself" with "Your", concept of "Love"......or may I say....."Lust and Infatuation" !!!

Good Luck !!!!.................Benz !!!


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Sat 09/22/07 10:34 AM
Gobucks um... do you need me to spell it out for you? ok in my personal experience I met a guy online on a okcupid we spoke on the phone, exchanged pic everything. Then after 4 weeks he said he loved me and i said it back, i questioned that love until we met in person and yes we were in love. I hope the same happens for you, however we spoke EVERYDAY no matter what, so if she loves you will only know after meeting in person if either of you are in love. She might be seeing someone else or she is just becoming impatient about never touching or kissing you, and might need some time to come to terms with her feelings for you.

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Sat 09/22/07 11:37 AM
WoW this guy needs to take a good look at himself and realize lust is not love.

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Sat 09/22/07 07:15 PM

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