I have been thinking about *The Perfect Guy* thread that was started earlier today. It really got me to thinking about a few things. Okay, actually I normally think a lot, all the time to be honest, this is just one more thing on my mind today.

Well that thread has me wondering what others do for their man, when you are in a relationship. I know most women expect their man to remember things and to try to be romantic towards you as a woman. Sometimes I almost feel most expect this.

Most women want flowers, romantic nights out, unexpected gifts and so on. The list can actually be very long indeed. Which I personally think puts a lot of undue pressure on the man.

Don't get me wrong here everyone, I enjoy these things as much as any woman does. I don't ask for them or expect them, but when these things are given to me out of nowhere the rewards for the man I am with are great.

I personally like leaving little notes in places I know he will look. I have also been known to give him flowers and poetry. I have also been known to wash his vehicle by hand just because. I have even made his favorite meal and put on his favorite show. I like to treat my man in the best possible way at all times. I always have and always will. I will go out of my way to do things to make him happy.

So the question for all of you is this:

What Do You, As A Woman, Do For Your Man?

Hee hee..
Everything

I wouldn't expect anything...that I wouldn't do in return;)))

But do you do little things he does not expect? Sort of turn the tables if you will. Surprise him with a new pocket knife because you saw it and thought of him? Just wondering.

Absolutely... yes.

I know how to give good back massages. As I learnt it in college. I prefer to do stuff together, as I believe that's way more valuable than buying him gifts. I like to spring romantic surprises onto whoever I'm with at the time. To me, gifts are a take or leave thing. Sure I'd still buy him one the odd time, though. I think spending quality time together is a good thing. I'm not the nagging type.

Yes I agree completely.

I think wr get so wrapped up in our lives we forget to take that special time to show are man how much we really appreciate him. For me I like getting card's and writing little love notes and telling him how much I appreciate him.. when we out in public I just grab his hand to hold, a simple hug or even a Hollywood kiss to show people he's mine and I'm proud to be with him. Maybe show up at his job with his favorite snack or candy. Breakfast in bed with a nice foot and full body massage then a lap dance from his favorite girl. Where his favorite outfit, heels my hair the way he likes go out like its are first date. Show interest in his favorite team. Just always show him I appreciate him and I'm glad he chose me

...hmm.. very very interesting...hmm.. come a long pinky.. we have a world to overrule. *** *** ***.. just need to borrow that.2k.. here you can have it back again...lol.

Yes I think sometimes this happens, and people forget the little things. These little things I feel are the most important part of the relationship. I have never done the kissing in public, though not to say I wouldn't, just the men I had in my life wouldn't consider it. (Should that have been a sign?)

I have always done everything to make sure that my man knows I care. Maybe it is how I was raised or just how I am, I really am not sure which. It never seemed to matter to a cheating ex spouse, but it will not change the fact that the next man in my life will be given the same or even better little surprises.

If he wants me to cook him something nice..needs a back scratch or massage..needs help for whatever it is, I'm there to help without complaining. Thosr are everyday things for sure. I will buy him clothes if I'm out shopping and see something I know he would like.
On Valentines day...chocolates ..something cute ..lotions and toys for both of us hehe!
I think that people should treat the person you are with special everyday.

.. curious.. not trying to put you on the spot . dear.. but by chance could you . recommend . a toy that a man might appreciate.... ?

I will do anything and everything I can to make him happy and enjoy life the same way I do. But not killing, steal or lie for him that's for them sure!

I won't take ABUSE FROM HIM anymore! whether is verbal or physical, cheating and lies...No way Jose...but will make sure he's happy with me and enjoy the nice things this life has to offer while we're here.

I completely agree that these things are required for a healthy relationship.

There's just one thing that bugs me about Valentines Day though. And that's that people seem to think we only treat our partner special on that one day. When in actual fact, some of us want to treat our lover that special all of the time, and we do. I can tell them I love them any day. I don't need commercialism to remind me.

Lol no1 ..you are putting me on the spot but I will tell you that its not a new sports car

I think knowing your man in the deepest depths of who he is, is a must (at least this is true for me). Mostly so you know what you have to do to make him happy and to make him feel appreciated. In every single way possible. Open communication is a must and this helps me know what those little things are that I need to do. For me to be truly happy in a relationship I need this as much for him as I do for myself.

Oh I know. I just don't understand that at all. It's about boosting the all mighty dollar for profit and actually has nothing, in my opinion, to do with romance and love. Every single day, no just specified by some businesses idea of it!