HAHAHAHA.

Not sure how you mean this? I personally don't think so called forced monogamy is the way to go. But then you can have a relationship where both are looking to have sex with others OR a relationship where you are okay with the other one having sex with another if they happen to meet someone and the vibe is right.
To me both scenarios are vitally different. I wouldn't want the first version myself, but if couples are happy with that, fine with me. It comes down to mutual consent.
The second version is what I would like. And if ppl here judge that for having "loose morals", so be it. As far as I'm concerned that's lack of insight and lack of understanding. Living out of fear (of losing the partner), jealousy (out of the same fear). You don't own another person just because he or she is your partner.


Sorry to say, not personal, but I think this is total nonsense. You're basically saying you marry someone because that way you can claim someone as yours. That's called imprisoning someone, not love.
And what I hate is that you turn it around and make it sound like the woman needs and wants this, and you put judgment on that.
The OP says HE is okay with it.

CrystalFairy, you are an inspiration. Reassuring to find that there are still intelligent open minded people around.

We can discuss morality for ages, personally as long as relationships are concerned it could be resumed in two words: consenting adults, the rest is personal preference and is of nobody's business.

Others may chose the type of arrangement they prefer, they may be completely different from my choices and interests but no one has authority to judge or condemn.

I prefer "my" woman free to make her own choices. I want her intelligent and adult enough to decide what she prefers. Put a panther in a cage, remove her claws, you get a fat cat at best. Let her roam free in liberty and you have a gracious beautiful being. Sure there is then a risk but, hey it's half the fun.

well like i said each to their own :) but just make sure she uses condom sense :) cause theres a lot people can catch out there .. but if its all clean fun and your both happy then its up to you 2 cheers have a good 1 :) so just curious what does your wife look like?