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JennDtx85 Joined Fri 03/21/14 Posts: 23	Sat 03/22/14 10:23 AM Edited by JennDtx85 on Sat 03/22/14 10:25 AM
but eventually they say you crowd my space.....WHY IS THIS?...ppl want what they cant have and as soon as they have it don't want it no more

Crys876 Joined Tue 03/04/14 Posts: 116	Sat 03/22/14 10:30 AM
Its just the thrill of the chase for them

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45351	Sat 03/22/14 10:35 AM
but eventually they say you crowd my space.....WHY IS THIS?...ppl want what they cant have and as soon as they have it don't want it no more This just means you withhold it longer, until appreciation sets in.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sat 03/22/14 10:36 AM
but eventually they say you crowd my space.....WHY IS THIS?...ppl want what they cant have and as soon as they have it don't want it no more oorrrrrr, it could be that they realize the situation was not going to be what they had hoped for. this is the reason people should slow down when first getting to know someone and not get all enamored by the new, bright and shiny!

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 03/22/14 10:42 AM Edited by no1phD on Sat 03/22/14 10:44 AM
.. or perhaps it could be that you are crowding . there' space . why is it when you tell a woman. . to take things slowly.. she immediately things. there's something wrong... I...p.m.. some women... and they want to move so fast... I have to tell them to slow down... backup a bit.. relax... don't send me 10 messages... in a five minute span... so when I say I need some space... perhaps it's because you're a .little overzealous.... guys like S.L.O.W.. 2... slow

NorCalSwe Joined Sun 03/09/14 Posts: 2438	Sat 03/22/14 10:43 AM
but eventually they say you crowd my space.....WHY IS THIS?...ppl want what they cant have and as soon as they have it don't want it no more oorrrrrr, it could be that they realize the situation was not going to be what they had hoped for. this is the reason people should slow down when first getting to know someone and not get all enamored by the new, bright and shiny! Very good advice, so often we mistake infatuation for something more

sweet2sarcasm Joined Thu 01/09/14 Posts: 745	Sat 03/22/14 11:54 AM
I like slow and I like fast and I like to live and I like to be real with everyone! No hidden agendas. Just LIVE, LAUGH and LOVE. YOLO. No "do-overs"

red6mist Joined Sat 08/31/13 Posts: 948	Sat 03/22/14 12:08 PM
You women should not play hard to get because when a man does finally get you he will ask himself... "After all that, is this it?"

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48928	Sat 03/22/14 01:52 PM
but eventually they say you crowd my space.....WHY IS THIS?...ppl want what they cant have and as soon as they have it don't want it no more Could you translate that question into a form that we Melmacians can understand?

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Sat 03/22/14 02:38 PM
I like slow and I like fast and I like to live and I like to be real with everyone! No hidden agendas. Just LIVE, LAUGH and LOVE. YOLO. No "do-overs" I'm with you on that! ;) Sometimes it's about respecting personal space.

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Sat 03/22/14 02:43 PM
You women should not play hard to get because when a man does finally get you he will ask himself... "After all that, is this it?" The many more reasons they will play harder to get. Thanks buddy! ;)

JennDtx85 Joined Fri 03/21/14 Posts: 23	Sat 03/22/14 10:15 PM Edited by JennDtx85 on Sat 03/22/14 10:29 PM


JennDtx85 Joined Fri 03/21/14 Posts: 23	Sat 03/22/14 10:19 PM Edited by JennDtx85 on Sat 03/22/14 10:29 PM


2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Sat 03/22/14 10:21 PM
but eventually they say you crowd my space.....WHY IS THIS?...ppl want what they cant have and as soon as they have it don't want it no more This just means you withhold it longer, until appreciation sets in. Snickers*

JennDtx85 Joined Fri 03/21/14 Posts: 23	Sat 03/22/14 10:23 PM Edited by JennDtx85 on Sat 03/22/14 10:30 PM


JennDtx85 Joined Fri 03/21/14 Posts: 23	Sat 03/22/14 10:27 PM Edited by JennDtx85 on Sat 03/22/14 10:33 PM


JennDtx85 Joined Fri 03/21/14 Posts: 23	Sat 03/22/14 10:29 PM Edited by JennDtx85 on Sat 03/22/14 10:45 PM
but eventually they say you crowd my space.....WHY IS THIS?...ppl want what they cant have and as soon as they have it don't want it no more oorrrrrr, it could be that they realize the situation was not going to be what they had hoped for. this is the reason people should slow down when first getting to know someone and not get all enamored by the new, bright and shiny! I agree in some cases...but I gave my husband all I had,...when He couldn't work I paid the bills...cooked the food, let him go have drinks...pretty much catered to him....I think its like the other lady said in my case....when someone is always there , the other loses appreciation...but yes, many need to build a friendship foundation a lot longer than we are doing, jump in a relationship too soon and we wonder why they finally started getting comfortable to act their true self and we think they changed

JennDtx85 Joined Fri 03/21/14 Posts: 23	Sat 03/22/14 10:29 PM
but eventually they say you crowd my space.....WHY IS THIS?...ppl want what they cant have and as soon as they have it don't want it no more This just means you withhold it longer, until appreciation sets in. yup yup agreed!

JennDtx85 Joined Fri 03/21/14 Posts: 23	Sat 03/22/14 10:30 PM Edited by JennDtx85 on Sat 03/22/14 10:32 PM
You women should not play hard to get because when a man does finally get you he will ask himself... "After all that, is this it?" ya...im just sayin years go by and they change there mind....tell you youre crowding them....and after they push you away...cry for you back...I think im coming into the realization that people are incapable of loving forever....I gave my marriage all I had...catered to him...ppl will never be satisfied

JennDtx85 Joined Fri 03/21/14 Posts: 23	Sat 03/22/14 10:42 PM
.. or perhaps it could be that you are crowding . there' space . why is it when you tell a woman. . to take things slowly.. she immediately things. there's something wrong... I...p.m.. some women... and they want to move so fast... I have to tell them to slow down... backup a bit.. relax... don't send me 10 messages... in a five minute span... so when I say I need some space... perhaps it's because you're a .little overzealous.... guys like S.L.O.W.. 2... slow I completely agree with you...men too...I have only been on the dating scene a year now...and I have kids...so sometimes I might go an hour or 2 before I see your text...go to see I have 13 unread messages...talkin about you miss and you barely know me...ppl can be very needy and almost like a codependency...im not tryin to be no ones superman lol....but what I am referring too is a long marriage...I gave much space he always went out with his dude while I chilled with my girls ...gave him 7 years and a baby but would never marry me..but when I finally leave, he begs for me back, still a year later....idk...I guess im bitter from it all...it makes me not want to believe a dude when he compliments me and says he wants to be around because in reality that's how all relationships start, with an infatuation but as soon that's over, its not to long later tey are treating you like an enemy