Lets face it...we all have different sides...that make up the WHOLE of us. I generally try to keep on an even...level. As far as the men that were in my life. The ex-husband suffered from manic-depression. So...yeah, he clearly wasn't the man that I married...one day...he just SNAPPED.

I was with a guy who was good as gold, as long as he was sober. The second he got a drop of vodka in him, I was his punching bag. 3 years of that... I finally had enough and put his lights out, then put him out.

We all possess both good and evil. We try to keep the primally and breastal rage at bay and never let it out but as humans we all have that killer instinct. In sertion situtations we will all bring out our badside. If you can't love someone during his badside time then why should have them during there good side time? Most woman have been hurt before so they are prone to freakin' out if they see any hint of mean badness. So guys have to hide it at all times. Me I never hide who I am. I always let my dualtity show which is why women run from me. So it doesn't pay to be open so you should hide it at all times. Bad sides only make you lose friends so never let it out in other peoples persences. Let the badside out that everyone has at the gym while working out or in a videogame.

As everyone here has said, we all do have a good and bad side to us.....it makes us human. Why do we get so upset when we see their dark side? Because we want to see what we want to see not what is always there in the first place.

Now there are different levels of darkness that we either choose to accept or not. It all comes down to our acceptance of that darkness.....and everyone has a point where they will or will not accept~~

i've heard it said, that it takes about 3 months for anyone's 'facade' to finally fall thru, and then you get to know the real them...

im begining to realize, this is true

that evil twin is who ya gotta know you can live with...if not..then kick 'em to the curb and move on

3 Months........That's about what I figure also...The monsters stay in the closet about that long....and really I don't mind small monsters...It's the big ones that scare me

Well....no one said you had to marry them before 3 months!!!

Give it 2 years and then choose!!!

IVE AHD THAT PERSON AND IVE BEEN THAT PERSON
THE BEST YOU CAN DO IS LEARN FROM IT AND MOVE ON

Your not suppose to marry after 3 months...It didn't say that in the book

i find people too much in a hurry to find "love" that they overlook everything......

Friendship.......blossoming into love is probably the best way to find a mate!!

pfftt @ marriage

who said anything about committing matramony?? lol

i said 'live with' lol

no really, if you can't see yourself with the person after that 3 month the-evil-twin-is-out-by-now stage...then move on

it happens all the time
it's scary s...

I think ALOT of life and THIS, is kind of like peer preasure,,lol People WANT to act more THAN THEY ARE, because they simply CAN,,,on HERE...
So THEY THINK,,,"WHY NOT" because if THEY talk "REAL" they might scare off a unsuspecting DATE or CALL??

So if that person REALLY WANTED "SEX" on the FIRST date,,,

But "THAT" question was a forum question here,,,THEY
WOULD SAY,,,"NO WAY" as to MAKE THEM SELVES "LOOK" better in front of everyone ELSE....

BECAUSE NO-ONE wants others THINKING that THERE CHEAP....
AS "SOME" could view THAT as CHEAP...

I try real hard to PREACH being "REAL" on HERE, for "THIS" very reason....BE YOU,,and the hell with the ones who DON'T LIKE YOU.

And WE as a society DO VIEW with BIG EYES, to the way OTHERS LIVE AND ARE..

But if EVERYONE on HERE ,,ACTED,TALKED, AND WAS REAL, with how THEY are everyday,,,,WOW,,, WE WOULD THEN KNOW FOR SURE, who was GOOD and who WAS BAD,,as to each of our own preferences..

But "THAT" would be just to EASY, I guess...lol,lol


ONE THING IS FOR SURE,,,,,
NO ONE CAN FAKE "THEM" FOREVER, if THERE in your presents..
SO "REAL" SHOULD BE "EVERYBODY'S" DEAL......

Oh Geesh...this could describe my last relationship. Was with someone four years and about the last 6 months of the relationship, I wondered who the hell was this? He was NOTHING like the person I had been with three years.....scary!

Well, you know,
life is a *****
and then you
marry one!

Hey TEXSROSE, could HE have just got into any kind of drugs???
Three years is a LONG time to hide their selves???
I've seen THAT, but NOT W?O some kind of habit that THEY had STOPPED,,then PICKED BACK UP,,,like WHEN HE FELT YOU SLIPPING AWAY???? Just wondering???

iam4u..I wish I knew. It was the weirdest change I had ever seen in a person...and his entire character changed!

ya i've dealt with that lately. people change and not always in the way we would wish they would go. but it is their own path in life to take.

My profile will tell you NOTHING, for those that like to snoop, but my Posting tell you much more than you ever wanted to know...

We are No More that the content of our Postings, Jess you once knew me as a nice and gentle man,yet on here I am on the ofencive, after being attacked, threatened and Hazed...
So exactly what were you expecting ???

I have a hard shell like a Turtle and if you kick me I will bite and snap at you, eather way there will be pain involved...

On the other hand some fresh green sprouts might be nice too...

What you see is what you get. Like it or not.