Hey. I'm currently in school and was dating the girl of my dreams. Then I had to transfer schools to finish my degree, but I came and visited her every other weekend or more. The distance, in the end, ruined our relationship because she couldn't handle not being able to see me every day. Going away wasn't an option for me and I did everything I could to keep her happy. I just need to know if there are any women who can sustain a relationship like that or if I was asking too much? I don't plan on entering a long term relationship again until I finish all of my schooling and get a job because of this. The hurt was too much.

Good for you thinking of your education first.
People come and go all our life,
You will meet someone else, and be proud you chose education first.

You were not asking too much because you were visiting her every weekend AND attending school to make a secure future...By wanting to see you every day, she was the one who was asking too much...Don't allow her selfishness to affect your future choices...Welcome to Mingle...I wish you luck, love, and happiness Adam!

If love is true (and you'll know it), it can withstand almost any obstacle. Ask any military wife...

What you need is a strong woman

Mature love knows no distance..

It worked for me before and it even lasted for long. Both must have constant communication, trust, complete honesty and understanding.

Very true Cha

single for a long time and its sucks looking for longterm relation ship and its very hard to get a girl here

Hi,can I find true love here

Hello lady

Any lady wants a long time commitment her a person looking at you..

I grew up military, my Dad was gone twice for over a year and my Mom was always there waiting for him when he returned. Was it tough on her, hell yes, but if you love someone you add to who they are, not take away from them.

Relationships may come and go but education is forever, and no one can take that away from you.

Good luck mate!!

Are yo kidding me? What amI doinginthis world? No,you're not akig for too much. Women comes in variations.

she didnt end it because of the distance she did that for other personal reasons.
women want working, educated men and still make the stupidest choices when they find them. sigh

I Agree

It's not your lost..I'm happy for you:-)

I have been in a long distance relationship for over a year now, with someone I met on here. It works when the two are right for each other.

next time you get in one,make sure she send you lots of boob pics

Hey. Yes we actually exist. I was in a long distance relationship for two years. We only saw each other once because he got I'll. Then when time came we had the chance to see each other again. He canceled his tickets to visit me because of what my family said. He got scared I think. He didn't fight for me. Yes, too much hurt.