Topic: do u believe in long distance relatoonships
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Thu 03/06/14 12:54 AM
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panchovanilla's photo
Thu 03/06/14 12:25 PM


NO..NEGATIVE..NYET...NEVER..NEIN..NON.

Well..maybe for some people it's ok.
I did it. It literally almost killed me.

do u believe in long distance relatoonships

Maybe you had the wrong..'toon'?

Definitely the wrong toon.laugh

panchovanilla's photo
Thu 03/06/14 12:26 PM

Was she worth the almost-killed-me incident?

Let me think...in hindsight???? Hell NO

panchovanilla's photo
Thu 03/06/14 12:29 PM

Well occasionally I've tried really hard to be completely retarded because occasionally a person thinks that's what they need to be to please other people and become socially successful, but I gotta be honest. I just can't get there.

It could be something to do with not being retarded.


Excellent point.
I was retarded for 2 years.
But I'm much better now.:banana:

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Thu 03/06/14 12:31 PM

Excellent point.
I was retarded for 2 years.
But I'm much better now.:banana:

rofl rofl rofl

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 03/06/14 12:58 PM
Honestly and truly if you are stuck in a situation where what is available is really pretty dismal it might be worth a shot at trying to make something work.

But one of the most valuable commodities we have in life is time and wasting it on relationship that has slim and none as a chance of making it out of the mailbox stage or anything more than and EXPENSIVE Vacation stage is kind of throwing your own happiness away.

I have seen a very small percentage >.0001% make it work and I don't like those odds.

themythorpe's photo
Thu 03/06/14 04:03 PM
Sure

Reetika66's photo
Fri 03/07/14 02:16 PM
yes i do...out of the 100 percent , i wud say wit at least 1 percent, yes , can work out,besides Jesus is here, guiding our footsteps, @.@

marmec's photo
Fri 03/07/14 04:21 PM
I think a long distance courtship is possible. Getting to know someone prior to the dating. I don't understand what the problem seems to be. If you have actually looked at an average relationship. How much time does a couple actually spend time holding and talking to each other after six months. Ultimately must end up as roommates. I know no one wants to hear that, but we have been talking about percentages. A long distance, or in the same building. Neither are favorable, but people are moving in with each other all the time. I we suppose to stop trying? That is the inevitable question.???

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Fri 03/07/14 04:51 PM
nope I know me, some i'm sure can do it, I can't. I am a physical person, and distances takes that physical part away, sure I could try to make it work, but it never would with my personality, so I'd never start one that way.

Now if I was already in a relationship and the distance came later....that's another story.

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Fri 03/07/14 05:02 PM

yes i do...out of the 100 percent , i wud say wit at least 1 percent, yes , can work out,besides Jesus is here, guiding our footsteps, @.@


And to think, all them times i walked into beer joints and blamed myself!

I think people hope they can form a relationship with someone even if they are some distance away. Mostly because they haven't had the results they desired locally. So if you can both appeal to the other's mind and eyes, and one of you is willing to travel, then why not? What's the worst that could happen? The same things that could happen if you met someone six blocks away? You'll either be pleased or disappointed. As for the percentages being batted around I would guess 99% of us here haven't done much better with anybody we've seen in person otherwise we would be doing something else tonight.


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Fri 03/07/14 05:55 PM

If you can't jump in the car and drive to see them, then I ain't interested!
:thumbsup: this

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Fri 03/07/14 06:09 PM

.. yeah long distance.. I'm busy enough as it is.. talking sure it's nice.. but when you need a hug.. are a kiss.. are some love making.. doesn't really help you at those moments.. yeah that's a hard one to crack.. if you can make it work great... in some way it might be nice... the other person isn't under your feet all the time... so to speak.. for me.. not within a 10 block radius... and no further then the city limits... if I wanted to travel to meet someone.. I would do it on my holidays .. oh yes it's called a vacation... romance..lol

aquohxiiMhai's photo
Sat 03/08/14 04:02 PM
I did it once but he lied to me because he said he's divorced but he's not. Nevertheless, we r still friends and that i can say its much better that way..

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Sun 03/09/14 03:56 AM
do u believe in long distance relatoonships.


I believe it depends on the people involved and if they want it to work. If you are interested in someone online, you can learn a lot about the person by email, chatting, telephone calls and Skype video calls before you even decide to meet, which all takes time but you will learn a lot about each other. If you both decide to meet up, it can cost a lot in time and money if they live say in another country, flights and hotels are not cheap and you will need to meet several times in my opinion to really know if they are the one for you. You must be prepared to relocate if your partner cannot, because if all goes well you will want to be together at sometime in the future. Certainly no easy option but it can work, it has worked for many people already, but the two people involved really must want it to work out, this is just my opinion.

no1phD's photo
Sun 03/09/14 04:04 AM
.. if by long distance you mean.. on the other end of my city then.. yes.

 Maria195's photo
Sun 03/09/14 04:25 AM
No. For me it was hard thing to deal with, but I did felt in love, then I refuse to meet him...I was too scared :smile:

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Sun 03/09/14 04:33 AM
Yes I'm in one now cam to cam is great sub girls like me need to for my Misteress

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Sun 03/09/14 07:04 AM
Edited by cha7385 on Sun 03/09/14 07:04 AM
Despite the very low percentage of success LDR has, I would say a part of me Does. Every relationship regardless if its LD or not success would definitely depend on both parties involved. For me before i commit to having a LDR, i make sure i weigh the pros & cons. to Commit in this kind of relationship, it does not involved the heart alone we must also consult our mind. there's too much emotional and financial risk involved bigsmile tongue2 bigsmile

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Sun 03/09/14 07:08 AM
I do.