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Topic: What do you think that can make relationships to work out?
petrochy Joined Thu 02/27/14 Posts: 20	Sat 03/01/14 01:44 PM
As they say, "couples that plays together, stays together". I think finding a sport or hobby that u both love (no! watching of TV does not count) and make that a priority in your relationship.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Sat 03/01/14 02:08 PM
As they say, "couples that plays together, stays together". Well, my late wife and I did enjoy our bedroom games.

larsson71 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 2204	Sat 03/01/14 02:16 PM
As they say, "couples that plays together, stays together". I think finding a sport or hobby that u both love (no! watching of TV does not count) and make that a priority in your relationship. I grew up beside my girlfriend and her older brother is my best mate. Knowing someone that long and then getting with them, has made a bond between us that's hard to beat, as there is nothing hidden between us and we know each other inside out. I think that kind of bond is the best one, well it certainly works for us! Everybody is different though?

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sat 03/01/14 03:57 PM
I live in a community where there are a lot of very long lived relationships; many marriages over 50yrs.. The consistent elements I have seen is even if they are not identical in their interests and roles they take on they seem complimentary and allow the one with the strengths in various areas to shine. And they are FRIENDS.

georgerickmd Joined Wed 02/26/14 Posts: 1	Sat 03/01/14 04:20 PM
Love is. Something tht we never. Bagain for,it comes naturallyyy..so to have a lastin relation there b trust,pecivirance.and sincerity.and caring for. Each other. Tht wht I think tht can make a relationship.

bucsgirl2 Joined Sat 03/01/14 Posts: 4	Sat 03/01/14 04:48 PM
It takes a lot more than a shared interest or hobby. The question each person needs to ask themselves is what they're willing to do to help their relationship going. Communication is extremely important, so if you don't communicate well, chances are it won't last or it'll last and be miserable.

indignus Joined Sat 07/14/12 Posts: 327	Sun 03/02/14 12:17 AM
Acceptance and communication... if your willing to accept the person you love for who they are and not impose your own expectations on them then the both of you can be comfortable enough in your relationship to discuss anything that's on your mind without worrying about how the other person will react.

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Sun 03/02/14 04:02 AM
We don't give up on each other; we are honest about everything and we accept the other completely, mistakes, flaws and all. We don't try to change the other person, instead, we help each other grow in every aspect.

pukkame Joined Sun 03/02/14 Posts: 1	Sun 03/02/14 02:34 PM
love, respect, care

VictoriousOne Joined Mon 07/08/13 Posts: 118	Sun 03/02/14 07:28 PM
Tend your garden well.

Choobobabe Joined Sun 03/02/14 Posts: 78	Sun 03/02/14 07:32 PM
Acceptance and communication... if your willing to accept the person you love for who they are and not impose your own expectations on them then the both of you can be comfortable enough in your relationship to discuss anything that's on your mind without worrying about how the other person will react. That. All of that.

Babu15287 Joined Fri 01/24/14 Posts: 1	Mon 03/03/14 01:14 PM
Hi how are you

regularfeller Joined Sat 11/10/12 Posts: 2394	Mon 03/03/14 06:44 PM
Tend your garden well. Well said. Love is grown.

petrochy Joined Thu 02/27/14 Posts: 20	Fri 03/07/14 12:30 PM
am fine and u?

petrochy Joined Thu 02/27/14 Posts: 20	Fri 03/07/14 12:37 PM Edited by petrochy on Fri 03/07/14 12:40 PM
you need to be aware that most men are no��t mentally programmed for conversation in the way women are. They need more silence and internal time. In the other way round, most women are mentally programmed for conversation in the way men are not. They need more conversation time because they do no��t like staying quiet; to them, staying quiet looks like someone been rejected.

Lord_Psycho Joined Thu 06/26/08 Posts: 14878	Fri 03/07/14 07:42 PM
being on the same page n good communication with each other!

petrochy Joined Thu 02/27/14 Posts: 20	Mon 03/10/14 12:26 AM
Love is. Something tht we never. Bagain for,it comes naturallyyy..so to have a lastin relation there b trust,pecivirance.and sincerity.and caring for. Each other. Tht wht I think tht can make a relationship. agreed, it comes naturally when you attract it to come like doing things together with her/him, caring for each other, trusting yourself by not doubting what the other tells you. Rather than punishing your partner, a better tactic is to reward the things you like and ignore what you don’t like.

petrochy Joined Thu 02/27/14 Posts: 20	Mon 03/10/14 12:27 AM
being on the same page n good communication with each other! I concur with that

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Mon 03/10/14 12:32 AM
First don't rush into anything, take your time and chose the right person. Then respect, honesty, and communication.

petrochy Joined Thu 02/27/14 Posts: 20	Mon 03/10/14 01:06 AM
First don't rush into anything, take your time and chose the right person. Then respect, honesty, and communication. The time you are taking your time is the time you are learning the do's and dont's of the other and after knowin that it will now help you to know how to communicate with each other. it will also help u to respect each other since you have known him/her in and out then you now treat each others with honesty.