I'm wondering if I'm in the right place because I'm looking for a lady to call my own and have not found even the shadow as yet.

Maybe you should start out with a puppy and see how that works out. Ladies are much higher maintenance than puppies

Perhaps you should request a refund of your membership fee.

sigh
and i thought everyone knew this... it usually takes about 3-4 weeks before you can own your own lady...
unless your rich...

A decision you may take a lifetime to regret,
well, it takes some time.

... I don't know I got nothing absolutely nothing...
.wow. if I'm lucky maybe someday I'll be able to own 1.. I own a truck. I own my house. I own my own business.. but too own a woman... oh maybe for Christmas if I'm lucky.. under the tree please Santa Claus..lol..jk.. okay just to be clear we all believe in Santa Claus right....omg.

Then perhaps next Christmas, the author of the OP should ask Santa for a lady ...




....and hang up two stocking for Santa to fill.

its funny how saying the right thing can have people talking a whole lot of things that don't really make sence. I'm from Jamaica everyting good man

Well I am happy to know you have a sense of humor

There seems to be a misconception that if you join a dating site you'll meet someone right away... all it does it expose you to more people, but there are no guarantees.

It's not so much finding the right person, it's a lot more involved than that. Most people are so infatuated with the idea of HAVING someone they don't invest the time to really get to know the person, which involves seeing how that person behaves in all type of situations. Anyone can be charming out on a date, but watch someone cut them off in traffic and they're in a complete rage.

It takes some experience to determine the type of people that someone gets along with well. Many people are somewhat different around family, around friends, in social groups, etc. A lot of people are under the illusions that once you find "that person" the two of you walk off into the sunset and all's well. I blame Disney for the happily ever after.....thanks Walt!! haha

People change/evolve over time, we're not the same person we were when we were 20 or 30...so couples have to adapt to how each of the changes they're going to go through. That's just how it is, to think otherwise would be unrealistic. You CAN live with another person and be happy, but it takes effort to keep any relationship healthy.