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Topic: Why do nice girls finish last
Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48928	Thu 02/27/14 07:56 PM
I still think that this entire discussion pertains to a hypothetical situation, because there is no evidence that the author of the OP is a "nice" girl.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Thu 02/27/14 08:51 PM
I still think that this entire discussion pertains to a hypothetical situation, because there is no evidence that the author of the OP is a "nice" girl. and since everything is an opinion, there is no right or wrong in this either...

jadedblonde Joined Sun 02/23/14 Posts: 37	Thu 02/27/14 08:55 PM
What in the world isa bunnyboiler?? Haha

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Thu 02/27/14 08:57 PM
What in the world isa bunnyboiler?? Haha huh.. i dunno... sounds like hellsboy pissed someone off...

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 02/27/14 09:00 PM
What in the world isa bunnyboiler?? Haha we're making wabbit stew :)

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 02/27/14 09:05 PM
.. last first doesn't matter as long as I bring you to finish... isn't that what really counts.hmmm..yes..yes.yes.yessss.mmmm.ohhh gawwd. Shooting yer bucket in a message? You dirty dog!! A W**k Russell? Ha ha ha HA I firmly believe in finishing first (motivated by my knowledge of men)

orangeville Joined Fri 02/28/14 Posts: 3	Fri 02/28/14 07:01 AM
Lol. Good one

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 02/28/14 07:40 AM
Lol. Good one

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Fri 02/28/14 08:08 AM
If we go by tihsllub statistics most women finish last if at all...... But I'm not so sure that is what this thread is about.

Mississippigal2003 Joined Thu 01/16/14 Posts: 1739	Fri 02/28/14 08:13 AM
Nice girls don't finish last. Girls that lack personality do!!! U can be nice and still funny and outgoing and whatever else and still be nice and get the guy. Don't blame it on being nice. It's just that individual that can't get the guy. Maybe ur going after the wrong guy ...

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Fri 02/28/14 08:17 AM
Nice girls might finish last, but...

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48928	Fri 02/28/14 08:18 AM
Nice girls don't finish last. Girls that lack personality do!!! U can be nice and still funny and outgoing and whatever else and still be nice and get the guy. Don't blame it on being nice. It's just that individual that can't get the guy. Maybe ur going after the wrong guy ... Or it may be that her definition of "nice" doesn't match the definition used by men.

Mississippigal2003 Joined Thu 01/16/14 Posts: 1739	Fri 02/28/14 08:20 AM
Nice girls don't finish last. Girls that lack personality do!!! U can be nice and still funny and outgoing and whatever else and still be nice and get the guy. Don't blame it on being nice. It's just that individual that can't get the guy. Maybe ur going after the wrong guy ... Or it may be that her definition of "nice" doesn't match the definition used by men. nice is nice. Don't wordplay it.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48928	Fri 02/28/14 09:24 AM
Nice girls don't finish last. Girls that lack personality do!!! U can be nice and still funny and outgoing and whatever else and still be nice and get the guy. Don't blame it on being nice. It's just that individual that can't get the guy. Maybe ur going after the wrong guy ... Or it may be that her definition of "nice" doesn't match the definition used by men. nice is nice. Don't wordplay it. Au contraire! People can have their own definitions of "nice".

cheechako Joined Tue 05/14/13 Posts: 735	Fri 02/28/14 10:14 AM
Nice girls suck..they lack that emotion..The emotion to say I can be wrong or bad..There so caught up in trying to do everything right there killing it ..it's a bite to some men..i like a good woman but having to much emotion trying to make me feel good by being perfect is crazy. think this is the closest to the right answer so far Both nice women and men are usually the types that don't/won't/can't and daren't say 'no'. They never put their foot down, meaning they constantly cross their own boundaries until they have none anymore. No one likes a pushover. Maybe for a day, but for life? No way. Apart from boring, it's also exhausting as they don't take responsibility, cos they lack inner strength. They go with every flow. Meaning they need and want you to take the lead. Sod that! A good man or woman can be nice, but is still strong, has a backbone and can put his/her foot down if need be and say "no". They stand on their own two feet, don't need to hang on you for support. Very different from what most people mean when they say they are "nice".

jamesbesticando Joined Fri 02/28/14 Posts: 1	Fri 02/28/14 05:29 PM
nice guys are a myth just tryinging it on just being honest!

Mississippigal2003 Joined Thu 01/16/14 Posts: 1739	Fri 02/28/14 07:49 PM
Okay David. Generally everyone's idea of nice is the same.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48928	Fri 02/28/14 08:25 PM
Okay David. Generally everyone's idea of nice is the same. No, it isn't.

bucsgirl2 Joined Sat 03/01/14 Posts: 4	Sat 03/01/14 04:52 PM Edited by bucsgirl2 on Sat 03/01/14 04:54 PM
I've never bought into that line of BS. Usually the nice guys/nice girls finish last translates to "why doesn't the person I want want me?" followed by copious amounts of whining....WAAAAAAAAA Besides, it's what others think of you that counts. Anyone can call themselves a nice girl, but it no one else does, it doesn't really matter. I let people make up their own minds about me, I don't try to tell them who or what I am. People make up their own minds, anyway. BTW, I avoid any profile that says "nice guy" because I've never met one who said that who was!

jadedblonde Joined Sun 02/23/14 Posts: 37	Sat 03/01/14 05:23 PM
Not if she's with a "man ", if u get my drift