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Topic: Why do nice girls finish last
Kentuckygal41 Joined Wed 02/26/14 Posts: 3	Thu 02/27/14 03:07 AM
Why do nice girls finish last the ones who try

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Thu 02/27/14 03:22 AM
I think there's different levels of niceness. Any guy can tell me he's nice, or sweet, but I'll only believe it, if I see his behaviour when I meet him offline. Saying it on some dating forum, will never be enough to convince me. Again, maybe there's a clue in how they present themselves. Especially with negative attitudes. Like, how I think when a guy says "I open doors for women, I treat them nice, I leave a trail of rose petals............". What guy HASN'T said that on a dating forum? . And if so-called nice person, isn't really nice, then that's probably why they're single, but can't accept that?

josh4utonight Joined Thu 08/08/13 Posts: 9	Thu 02/27/14 03:25 AM
Because ur not cheating to win

larsson71 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 2204	Thu 02/27/14 03:28 AM
Why do nice girls finish last the ones who try Why would you be trying to be a nice girl? If a woman is nice then that's a natural thing, but if you're trying, or pretending to be nice when you're not normally, it will show through eventually. There will be other factors to why you ' finish last, ' as you put it, but you ain't gonna tell us the complete picture eh? You could be a bunnyboiler, too clingy, etc, for all we know?

bassbarnacle Joined Sun 02/23/14 Posts: 1	Thu 02/27/14 03:32 AM
i hope people are skinning these bunnies before there boiling them though.. ss-good fur..

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Thu 02/27/14 03:48 AM
Why do nice girls finish last the ones who try seems like niceness needs a balance point, when it tips, it's time not to be nice... but being nice is always a good thing, it's not your fault people see it as a weakness... some people are really worth being nice to, while a lot more others are not.. welcome to mingle

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Thu 02/27/14 03:48 AM
Why do nice girls finish last the ones who try Why would you be trying to be a nice girl? If a woman is nice then that's a natural thing, but if you're trying, or pretending to be nice when you're not normally, it will show through eventually. There will be other factors to why you ' finish last, ' as you put it, but you ain't gonna tell us the complete picture eh? You could be a bunnyboiler, too clingy, etc, for all we know? ...

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Thu 02/27/14 04:38 AM
I wasn't really aiming my reply at YOU, OP. I just meant in general. Wait. Maybe the OP made this thread, to humor all of the nice guy threads. I get it now.

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Thu 02/27/14 05:15 AM
A nice girl thread! Finally! :)

regularfeller Joined Sat 11/10/12 Posts: 2394	Thu 02/27/14 05:19 AM
Stipulating that you are genuinely nice, my thinking is that you are being nice to the wrong people (in a relationship sense). A SHORT TALE: I had a friend who was very nice but her former boyfriends had been in the habit of beating her up on a regular basis. A "nice guy" that we worked with had tried dating her but she always refused. One day while she lamented her lack of success with men, I asked her why she didn't give our coworker a chance. He was a good fellow and made a good living. She said, "he's not my type. I then asked if all her ex-boyfriends had been her type. She replied, "yes". I responded, "Your type kicks your ***. Maybe you need a new type". I hope my example is more extreme than your experience, but the math is the same.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Thu 02/27/14 05:30 AM
Why do nice girls finish last the ones who try Kentuckygal41, when I meet a nice girl, I'll ask her and then let you know.

Elijah30 Joined Thu 02/27/14 Posts: 1	Thu 02/27/14 09:28 AM
I don't know why they finish last on my track of finding them?! :))) I prefer nice girls. I thought that the nice guys finish last though...

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76452	Thu 02/27/14 09:43 AM


realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Thu 02/27/14 09:50 AM
Why do nice girls finish last the ones who try Kentuckygal41, when I meet a nice girl, I'll ask her and then let you know. I'm a nice gal, Dave. I can't tell you why one would finish last!

Mississippigal2003 Joined Thu 01/16/14 Posts: 1739	Thu 02/27/14 09:50 AM
We don't.

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Thu 02/27/14 10:06 AM
With nice gals, I do my best to finish last.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Thu 02/27/14 10:11 AM
Why do nice girls finish last the ones who try Its because the bad girls stole our running shoes .

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Thu 02/27/14 10:14 AM
Why do nice girls finish last the ones who try Its because the bad girls stole our running shoes . And there it is. Women and their shoes. The root of all evil.

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Thu 02/27/14 10:35 AM
With nice gals, I do my best to finish last.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Thu 02/27/14 11:45 AM
Why do nice girls finish last the ones who try Its because the bad girls stole our running shoes . And there it is. Women and their shoes. The root of all evil. This ^.