You must fight for what you love. don't give up without a fight. stand your ground and don't let anyone push you to the floor. be true to yourself and listen to your heart.

I disagree, I think if 2 people love eachother they will come together easily. The people who like to "fight for what they love" seem to be the ones accused of stalking most often

If you don't agree with me i don't care i know what i'm talking about you just put things in a negative way because you don't know what love is but i do.

Chica, I know what love is, and I didn't have to fight in order to become married to my late wife. indignus is correct when he says that one-sided love resembles stalking.

Considering that your statement in your opening post is vague, the way that indignus interpreted it is understandable.

So its okay to wrestle her for a date? And if she loses then she has to go out with you? Hmmm. This might be interesting. But what if she takes it the wrong way and calls the cops? Is all really fair in love and war? Or are you saying that maybe you can't always think in terms of being fair when it comes to love?

if you show someone you care about them the right way then you're fine if it's stalking then they have a serious problem stalkers and love are two different things.

Love is what u get yourself without any fights... no one needs to fight for that!!!!

If its right, it should come easily

Sorry Dancing queen, but I have to agree with what the guys said.
OOPs You too Candi .

i don't get what what y'all are saying here... love is never "easy", it always takes constant work and some fighting for... are you saying that love isn't worth fighting for? it doesn't take hard, constant work to make your love happy?

no I don't think that is what we are saying .Of course there will be some arguments and compromises to be made. But it should come easily and not be view as a battlefield.

its not about arguments, it's about showing the person you love that you love them... it always takes work, thought and time.... it's not about fighting with them, it's about fighting for them... sorry, i just don't see love as being easy, in any sense of the word...

Really ? I am sorry to hear that. If you are with the right person it is easy most of the time .

I think the point the woman is making is to let it be known you love someone instead of keeping quiet . She has also been very hurt. Sad at a such a young age.
I thin we should be empathetic here.
I am sorry you were hurt my dear...hang in there,. The right man is there, just give it a cahnce
Time heals all wounds

I agree with YOU! It isn't easy

I do believe that dating is a battlefield and too often women are the casualties of this war.

There is a very difference between not giving up and going the extra mile to accomplish a goal within your relationship than to have a constant struggle and fight. I believe that what you are saying is that you are willing to do anything, go anywhere and loss anything in order to be with the one you love but from there to say that figthing your way through love is the right way to go is somewhat different. Nonetheless, I do agree with the fact that in order to make a relationship work you always need to step out of your comfort zone but yeah, when two people love each other quarrel, arguing and fighting are not really there if they are is because one of them is more interested on mantaining their own end than to, within reason, giving more than taking out from it.

Dating may be a battlefield but a good relationship flows like melted chocolate!

Smoooooooottttthh!!!