Topic: looks or a real man?
rubenimp65's photo
Mon 02/17/14 03:20 AM
Why do beautiful women go for looks instead of us good men?

royalray's photo
Mon 02/17/14 03:42 AM
many answers for that, but if looks all they care about, then you prob better off without them anyway

indignus's photo
Mon 02/17/14 05:00 AM
So you think its wrong for a beautiful women to want to be with a handsome man... but you as a "good guy" are annoyed not because there aren't any good women out there, but because none of the beautiful women are into you... Seems like you would understand where they are coming from since a women's looks are important too you.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:16 AM
There's a few topics on the forums on that at the moment.
In short, it's not chiseled good looks that define "handsome". Sure it helps but if someone has those looks but if he feels and radiates insecure/not confident/not happy etc. he isn't attractive regardless of his looks. It's inner strength and confidence that makes someone appealing.

And like Indignus pointed out: you yourself seem to value outside looks. Why don't you want a good woman but a so called beautiful one? Do you want that to feel more masculine? Maybe the right woman for you is right there under your nose, but you don't see her as you focus on looks too much.
flowerforyou

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Mon 02/17/14 06:17 AM

Why do beautiful women go for looks instead of us good men?


You're reading the wrong self help bookssmokin

1j9b6c5's photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:25 AM
Occasionally, I look like a real man.

1792's photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:30 AM


Why do beautiful women go for looks instead of us good men?


You're reading the wrong self help bookssmokin

no photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:30 AM
Are you saying real men don't look good?

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 02/17/14 11:56 PM

Why do beautiful women go for looks instead of us good men?


Maybe the women want to know what you are good for. indifferent

rubenimp65's photo
Tue 02/18/14 02:31 AM
TRUE.

Mortman's photo
Wed 02/19/14 12:32 AM
Looks like this discussion is misplaced. This is the forum for soliciting critiques of your profile. Not for asking general questions about the motives of women nor the fairness of your treatment.

That said, rubenimp65, your profile could use some work. In the very brief text blurb, you include several misspellings and describe yourself in somewhat generic terms. Mentioning your education was a good idea. Maybe you could work a bit more on mentioning what kind of woman you seek.

Also, your photo is pretty good, but looking off into the distance makes for a nice portrait, but it also makes you look disconnected and aloof. Maybe you could post more pictures, including ones with you smiling and facing the camera. You have a thing about custom cars. Maybe you could get a photo of yourself in one of them. Something to make you seem more interesting.

For the very brief text and odd photo, I'd rate your profile 6/10.

Good luck!