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Topic: Metro Male?
JohnDavidDavid's photo
Thu 02/13/14 01:36 PM
Ladies, are you attracted to Metro-Males (also termed Metrosexual Males)?

The terms are often interchanged and variously defined.

Merriam Webster Dictionary as: "a usually urban heterosexual male given to enhancing his personal appearance by fastidious grooming, beauty treatments, and fashionable clothes".

Urban Dictionary as: "A good-looking, fashionable young man who pays special attention to style and taste who displays the levels of care and pride in their appearance which is usually associated with women; but who are not deemed to be homo-sexual and are secure in their masculinity."

Mark Simpson (originator of the term) as: "The typical metrosexual is a young man with money to spend, living in or within easy reach of a metropolis — because that’s where all the best shops, clubs, gyms and hairdressers are. He might be officially gay, straight or bisexual, but this is utterly immaterial because he has clearly taken himself as his own love object and pleasure as his sexual preference."

msharmony's photo
Thu 02/13/14 01:39 PM
not really

prefer men to have a rough, able to be/get dirty exterior

as opposed to a perfect, pretty, everything in its place, soft exterior

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Thu 02/13/14 01:40 PM
No.

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Thu 02/13/14 01:43 PM
No, because they're usually selfish and hard to deal with. And most of the time they're gay, whether they want to admit it or not.

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Thu 02/13/14 04:21 PM
Chrisley on USA network. No thanks!slaphead

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Thu 02/13/14 04:51 PM

Ladies, are you attracted to Metro-Males (also termed Metrosexual Males)?

The terms are often interchanged and variously defined.

Merriam Webster Dictionary as: "a usually urban heterosexual male given to enhancing his personal appearance by fastidious grooming, beauty treatments, and fashionable clothes".

Urban Dictionary as: "A good-looking, fashionable young man who pays special attention to style and taste who displays the levels of care and pride in their appearance which is usually associated with women; but who are not deemed to be homo-sexual and are secure in their masculinity."

Mark Simpson (originator of the term) as: "The typical metrosexual is a young man with money to spend, living in or within easy reach of a metropolis — because that’s where all the best shops, clubs, gyms and hairdressers are. He might be officially gay, straight or bisexual, but this is utterly immaterial because he has clearly taken himself as his own love object and pleasure as his sexual preference."


no. too self cantered. too shallow. no thanks

BettyB's photo
Thu 02/13/14 04:55 PM
NOOOOOOO not even one little bit.

TawtStrat's photo
Thu 02/13/14 05:10 PM
Looks like you're out of luck then mate.

willing2's photo
Thu 02/13/14 05:21 PM
Metro male?
Is that some dude that takes the bus?

Naw, I ain't interested in any type of male, thank ya vury much.
Mine hangs for women only.

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Thu 02/13/14 05:32 PM
"Honey, hold my murse (man purse) while I get my manicure."

Nah that's not for me!

larsson71's photo
Thu 02/13/14 05:42 PM
I do building work for a living. Mostly roofing work and house extensions and work outside in all types of weather. When I come home, i get showered and change clothes. I like to dress in smart designer gear, at all times. It's a trait that goes back til I was in my early teens. I'm fortunate enough to own my own company, so how I spend my hard earned money is of no concern to anyone, but myself. I keep myself smart, but don't go overboard like I see some guys do. I'd rather watch my football ( soccer ) team play than go to the tanning salon and what good would a manicure do in my line of work? Crazy! As I said you can look smart at all times, but as a guy you have to have a cut-off point somewhere and just do man things, without going overboard and clouding that line between the sexes!

TawtStrat's photo
Thu 02/13/14 05:49 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HYI3CjRrtjg

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 02/13/14 06:05 PM
I like a man who can clean up nice but if they become obsessive about it then it is an absolute turn off. Looks are only skin deep but insecure goes all the way to the bone. I won't share my man with another woman I sure as he-- not going to share him with another man.

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Thu 02/13/14 06:28 PM
Haven't had a lot of time lately so hi kids :)

I saw this thread and wondered how people would respond on both sides.

I kinda got a kick out of the "murse" comment. I personally don't know many well traveled men of culture who do not have a travel kit. Call it what you may, there's no way I'm going on a trip not prepared and as comfortable as possible. If she doesn't like my purse than I hope she's prepared to carry my stuff in hers. People are weird to me. It's a bag (girl or guy bag) that is holding things that help keep you fresh. I have no problem carrying my girls bag and she has none carrying mine. What she does have a problem with is curling up under my armpit and me not taking the time to be fresh and clean for her.

Also are you telling me you would not like a man who is SPA treated after his workout or work? strange! Some of the hardest workers I know make it a point to get splashed before they meet their women.

You ladies who want a smelly dirty man are probably fine with farts and burps and beer breath too.

I have a clue for you, some of the toughest men I know take the time to also be well groomed. Their also the same men that walk into a place and women can't keep their eyes off of them.

I thought it was kinda cool when ZZ came out with this.

Clean shirt, new shoes
And I don't know where I am goin' to
Silk suit, black tie
I don't need a reason why

They come runnin' just as fast as they can
'Cause every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man

Gold watch, diamond ring
I ain't missin' not a single thing
And cufflinks, stick pin
When I step out I'm gonna do you in

They come runnin' just as fast as they can
'Cause every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man

Top coat, top hat
Well I don't worry 'cause my wallet's fat
Black shades, white gloves
Lookin' sharp and lookin' for love

They come runnin' just as fast as they can
'Cause every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man

Just having a little fun but really girls, sometimes :)


yellowrose10's photo
Thu 02/13/14 06:35 PM
No way. I like the rugged look. I hate it when guys shave the scruff

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Thu 02/13/14 06:39 PM
Haha! This reminds me of that Brad Paisley song...I'm still A Guy.


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Thu 02/13/14 06:44 PM

Haven't had a lot of time lately so hi kids :)

I saw this thread and wondered how people would respond on both sides.

I kinda got a kick out of the "murse" comment. I personally don't know many well traveled men of culture who do not have a travel kit. Call it what you may, there's no way I'm going on a trip not prepared and as comfortable as possible. If she doesn't like my purse than I hope she's prepared to carry my stuff in hers. People are weird to me. It's a bag (girl or guy bag) that is holding things that help keep you fresh. I have no problem carrying my girls bag and she has none carrying mine. What she does have a problem with is curling up under my armpit and me not taking the time to be fresh and clean for her.

Also are you telling me you would not like a man who is SPA treated after his workout or work? strange! Some of the hardest workers I know make it a point to get splashed before they meet their women.

You ladies who want a smelly dirty man are probably fine with farts and burps and beer breath too.

I have a clue for you, some of the toughest men I know take the time to also be well groomed. Their also the same men that walk into a place and women can't keep their eyes off of them.

I thought it was kinda cool when ZZ came out with this.

Clean shirt, new shoes
And I don't know where I am goin' to
Silk suit, black tie
I don't need a reason why

They come runnin' just as fast as they can
'Cause every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man

Gold watch, diamond ring
I ain't missin' not a single thing
And cufflinks, stick pin
When I step out I'm gonna do you in

They come runnin' just as fast as they can
'Cause every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man

Top coat, top hat
Well I don't worry 'cause my wallet's fat
Black shades, white gloves
Lookin' sharp and lookin' for love

They come runnin' just as fast as they can
'Cause every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man

Just having a little fun but really girls, sometimes :)




He ain't singing about his "murse" tho! Haha!flowerforyou

willing2's photo
Thu 02/13/14 06:49 PM
I admire men who look good in suits and dressed like a million bucks.

They are pretty cool. Style and class. Me, I don't do much more than jeans and tee shirt. Se la vi.

Girly-men, naw. They swing way to the left.

Well dressed man.


Girly man.

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Thu 02/13/14 07:07 PM


Haven't had a lot of time lately so hi kids :)

I saw this thread and wondered how people would respond on both sides.

I kinda got a kick out of the "murse" comment. I personally don't know many well traveled men of culture who do not have a travel kit. Call it what you may, there's no way I'm going on a trip not prepared and as comfortable as possible. If she doesn't like my purse than I hope she's prepared to carry my stuff in hers. People are weird to me. It's a bag (girl or guy bag) that is holding things that help keep you fresh. I have no problem carrying my girls bag and she has none carrying mine. What she does have a problem with is curling up under my armpit and me not taking the time to be fresh and clean for her.

Also are you telling me you would not like a man who is SPA treated after his workout or work? strange! Some of the hardest workers I know make it a point to get splashed before they meet their women.

You ladies who want a smelly dirty man are probably fine with farts and burps and beer breath too.

I have a clue for you, some of the toughest men I know take the time to also be well groomed. Their also the same men that walk into a place and women can't keep their eyes off of them.

I thought it was kinda cool when ZZ came out with this.

Clean shirt, new shoes
And I don't know where I am goin' to
Silk suit, black tie
I don't need a reason why

They come runnin' just as fast as they can
'Cause every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man

Gold watch, diamond ring
I ain't missin' not a single thing
And cufflinks, stick pin
When I step out I'm gonna do you in

They come runnin' just as fast as they can
'Cause every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man

Top coat, top hat
Well I don't worry 'cause my wallet's fat
Black shades, white gloves
Lookin' sharp and lookin' for love

They come runnin' just as fast as they can
'Cause every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man

Just having a little fun but really girls, sometimes :)




He ain't singing about his "murse" tho! Haha!flowerforyou


No they have white gloves! And I'm sure murses.

larsson71's photo
Thu 02/13/14 07:17 PM



Haven't had a lot of time lately so hi kids :)

I saw this thread and wondered how people would respond on both sides.

I kinda got a kick out of the "murse" comment. I personally don't know many well traveled men of culture who do not have a travel kit. Call it what you may, there's no way I'm going on a trip not prepared and as comfortable as possible. If she doesn't like my purse than I hope she's prepared to carry my stuff in hers. People are weird to me. It's a bag (girl or guy bag) that is holding things that help keep you fresh. I have no problem carrying my girls bag and she has none carrying mine. What she does have a problem with is curling up under my armpit and me not taking the time to be fresh and clean for her.

Also are you telling me you would not like a man who is SPA treated after his workout or work? strange! Some of the hardest workers I know make it a point to get splashed before they meet their women.

You ladies who want a smelly dirty man are probably fine with farts and burps and beer breath too.

I have a clue for you, some of the toughest men I know take the time to also be well groomed. Their also the same men that walk into a place and women can't keep their eyes off of them.

I thought it was kinda cool when ZZ came out with this.

Clean shirt, new shoes
And I don't know where I am goin' to
Silk suit, black tie
I don't need a reason why

They come runnin' just as fast as they can
'Cause every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man

Gold watch, diamond ring
I ain't missin' not a single thing
And cufflinks, stick pin
When I step out I'm gonna do you in

They come runnin' just as fast as they can
'Cause every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man

Top coat, top hat
Well I don't worry 'cause my wallet's fat
Black shades, white gloves
Lookin' sharp and lookin' for love

They come runnin' just as fast as they can
'Cause every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man

Just having a little fun but really girls, sometimes :)




He ain't singing about his "murse" tho! Haha!flowerforyou


No they have white gloves! And I'm sure murses.
Do what I do Mg and use your Sporran? Don't need a bag then as that's attached to your belt!

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