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Topic: Do you feel bad when someone unfriends you ?
SDSCFof2 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 21324	Wed 02/12/14 10:44 AM
hell no its their loss

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Wed 02/12/14 02:45 PM
I'm usually the one doing the unfriending, so no. Friends lists don't usually mean anything anyway, it's more about the interaction you have in other ways. I very rarely talk to most people on my friends list on here.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 02/12/14 04:27 PM
My answers is yes. I don't feel deeply hurt but I kind of wonder why, and yes I have unfriended a few and felt regret later. If they're unfriending me, we probably weren't really friends anyway. So no, I wouldn't feel bad.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Wed 02/12/14 04:49 PM
I just don't get why no one wants to be my BFF

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Wed 02/12/14 05:10 PM
hell no its their loss This.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Wed 02/12/14 05:20 PM
I might wonder what happened but won't lose sleep over it

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Wed 02/12/14 05:31 PM
The only time it ever really bothered me was once when it was my fault. I did feel really bad for what I had done and did apologize.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Wed 02/12/14 05:33 PM
The only time it ever really bothered me was once when it was my fault. I did feel really bad for what I had done and did apologize. That's all you can do.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 02/12/14 05:39 PM
no, not really I figure there is probably a good reason. If it's a guy I figure he got a new girl and he's cleaning his slate...lol If someone unfriended me for no apparent reason though and we had a positive relationship otherwise, I'd be offended and likely do the same to him/her....I really have only been ever blocked by one person though....and the reasons had nothing to do with me....he's a head case that one...lol

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 02/12/14 05:40 PM
I might wonder what happened but won't lose sleep over it right. I'd probably look at it that way as well

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Wed 02/12/14 06:04 PM
The only time it ever really bothered me was once when it was my fault. I did feel really bad for what I had done and did apologize. That's all you can do. . I know, I just hope it was enough.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Wed 02/12/14 06:06 PM
The only time it ever really bothered me was once when it was my fault. I did feel really bad for what I had done and did apologize. That's all you can do. . I know, I just hope it was enough. If someone can't accept your sincere apology, that's a flaw in their character, not in yours. It's always enough.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Wed 02/12/14 06:11 PM
The only time it ever really bothered me was once when it was my fault. I did feel really bad for what I had done and did apologize. That's all you can do. . I know, I just hope it was enough. If someone can't accept your sincere apology, that's a flaw in their character, not in yours. It's always enough. Thank you for saying that. I think you are right.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Wed 02/12/14 06:33 PM
The only time it ever really bothered me was once when it was my fault. I did feel really bad for what I had done and did apologize. That's all you can do. . I know, I just hope it was enough. If someone can't accept your sincere apology, that's a flaw in their character, not in yours. It's always enough. Thank you for saying that. I think you are right. Anytime.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Thu 02/13/14 09:39 PM
Yeah, it would hurt a bit. I don't easily add people as friends, so the ones that are my friends are kind of special to me :) I don't add for the sake of having a huge list, I only add people that I like and/or talk to and/or have something in common with. Yup this is same for me. I tend to watch how people treat others and take my time about it because you see someone on my friend list it means something. I have lots of pals but friends that has a higher standard and usually takes years. Now someone starts acting the fool and or being something that I would think reflects badly on me, saying I am their friend, then I have deleted a few over the years.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sat 02/15/14 08:05 PM
This was my first thread thank you everybody for taking time out of your day to reply.

stephen84usa Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 180	Sat 02/15/14 11:11 PM
i dont have any friends to befriend me

Castro210 Joined Tue 02/04/14 Posts: 2	Sun 02/16/14 12:03 AM
Quite a question but obviously it has an answer.psychologically when someone unfriend you it's as a result of your partial self behaviour.you always know the reason for been unfriend.

larsson71 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 2204	Sun 02/16/14 12:37 AM
Like everything though we have to take stock and have a spring clean now and again, to seperate the wheat from the chaff. I like good tried and tested mates around me, not ones that let me down.

FLIGHTPHOENIX Joined Sat 11/23/13 Posts: 1163	Mon 02/17/14 02:44 AM
My answers is yes. I don't feel deeply hurt but I kind of wonder why, and yes I have unfriended a few and felt regret later. agree