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Topic: How often do you feel like you dont belong?
Todd4321 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 12	Sat 02/15/14 07:12 PM
Pretty good advice.

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Sun 02/16/14 07:40 PM
I dont feel like i am worth much because i get let down all the time. Either its employment or being a single guy.. I feel like no matter how nice I am, I get treated unfairly all the time. Sometimes I feel like the world is against me. Find out what you're good @! Got hobbies, talents / special skills? That should be your nitrogen when rejection hits hard.

larsson71 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 2204	Sun 02/16/14 07:58 PM
The only time I feel like I don't belong, is when i'm amidst really pretenious snobby people. In my line of work, you meet all sorts of people from all walks of life. The real aristocracy are actually good people. A bit eccentric at times, but good all the same. It's the wannabe snobs, that are the worst. With all that looking down their nose at you carry on and just their general demeanour, really annoys me!

badguy1 Joined Wed 03/03/10 Posts: 73	Tue 02/18/14 07:48 PM Edited by badguy1 on Tue 02/18/14 07:58 PM
Never, because nothing or no one is gonna stop me from being what i want to be, and that is to be happy..Its my life, and IM gonna run my life.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 02/18/14 08:08 PM
bit of a loaded question... I'm on a free dating site.. how often do you think you don't belong.hmmm. tricky tricky. questions..

deflepfollower Joined Sat 02/22/14 Posts: 2	Sun 02/23/14 12:02 AM
hi, i believe this book will help u A LOT ~ http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/554157.Breakthrough_Experience

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 02/23/14 07:05 AM
all the time, it's probably cuz I don't belong in the state of Buckeyes.... HA try living in the state capitol .... I don't really feel like I belong sometimes either and it's a new feeling for me. It doesn 't bother me though. There are some things it's probably better to feel that way about...lol I really don;t care about the whole Buckeye Frenzy thing either, but OSU is such a big place that they won;t miss me

Pengwen Joined Thu 12/12/13 Posts: 35	Tue 02/25/14 03:08 AM
Nothing's fair in this world and the only person who should be completely on your side is yourself. How about treating yourself an ice cream or travel away from your routines, just take a break dude and try to find out where or what will make you feel belong.

Peptang Joined Tue 08/20/13 Posts: 54	Tue 02/25/14 03:41 AM
How often do you feel like you dont belong? 90% of the time me 85%

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Tue 02/25/14 10:27 AM
I have to agree with the attitude adjustment. Volunteer work I have found is a great cure for this. It is like starting out at a new job and some supervisor tells you to see a certain person to ask them what is there for you to help with. Usually I find it is me keeping myself away the rest of the world instead of vice-verso.

LowRange Joined Sat 12/28/13 Posts: 664	Tue 02/25/14 01:46 PM
Id say 99.99% of the time ,

Fracus16 Joined Tue 12/31/13 Posts: 104	Tue 02/25/14 02:12 PM
Don't belong????? Fracus16 disclaimer. Anything I write is an opinion. My opinion is solely based on my personal life experiences. I was there. Wondering where or what is my part in this vast sea of personalities and opportunity. Finally, not so long ago an old timer over heard my belly aching. He pulled me aside, and said boy, what is it you want to belong too? I had no reply, because I didn't know. Here's the wisdom. Old timer's reply was.... That's fine, your not alone. That right there makes you part of something. Furthermore, he said, if you ever want to belong all you have to do is look down at your feet. That is the spot where you're exactly suppose to be. Once you accept that, your perception of life will change. And that old timer changed my perception.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 02/25/14 02:18 PM
every second Monday.. or was it Tuesday.. oh yeah Friday I remember now.. it's the one day of the week where I totally feel like I don't belong..

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Tue 02/25/14 02:25 PM
Every agonizing minute of every mortifying day of this wretched existence I lead...wait, I've done the woe-Man gag already on another thread.

Fracus16 Joined Tue 12/31/13 Posts: 104	Tue 02/25/14 03:09 PM
Nice 1jb6c5!!!

LowRange Joined Sat 12/28/13 Posts: 664	Tue 02/25/14 03:14 PM
Every agonizing minute of every mortifying day of this wretched existence I lead...wait, I've done the woe-Man gag already on another thread. OMG

OralManOnly Joined Mon 03/10/14 Posts: 131	Sat 03/15/14 08:43 AM
The truth is, self pity only attracts negativity and gets you nowhere in life. Been there done that, worn the T shirt and burnt it and learned my lesson many years ago. You need to find away to draw from the positive things about yourself and the people in your life in order to get out of the 'rabbit hole' and move forward in a positive direction. Then everything will fall into place for you. Good Luck! I dont feel like i am worth much because i get let down all the time. Either its employment or being a single guy.. I feel like no matter how nice I am, I get treated unfairly all the time. Sometimes I feel like the world is against me.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Sat 03/15/14 08:47 AM
Hardly ever, but when I do, I leave.....

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Sat 03/15/14 12:40 PM
I fit in with the loner, 1%ER crowd. Loner and crowd is contradictory, no? If I fit in, I'd feel like a freakin' PC robot. No mutha-bleedin' thanks.

Ghostwolf228 Joined Sat 03/08/14 Posts: 15	Fri 04/25/14 02:15 PM
I Often Feel Like I Don't Belong. Usually I Have The Feeling I Was Born To The Wrong Time Period. I Feel That My Soul Belongs To A Bygone Age When Honor Was Held In Higher Esteem. Just Saying.