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Topic: How often do you feel like you dont belong?
stephen84usa Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 180	Fri 02/07/14 07:19 PM
I dont feel like i am worth much because i get let down all the time. Either its employment or being a single guy.. I feel like no matter how nice I am, I get treated unfairly all the time. Sometimes I feel like the world is against me.

hellsboy Joined Tue 09/17/13 Posts: 2549	Fri 02/07/14 07:22 PM
No one is against you dude... just don't feel low... if u feel you are down work for getting up rather than giving up... ull succeed.. take care n cheer up

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45395	Fri 02/07/14 07:27 PM
How often do you feel like you dont belong? Well, never. I assume it is everyone else who does not belong :-) Point is, tis all an attitude adjustment, you need to enjoy what you DO have, more.

Kaleijoscope Joined Fri 10/15/10 Posts: 3319	Fri 02/07/14 07:27 PM Edited by Kaleijoscope on Fri 02/07/14 07:28 PM
Wow...classic.. Oftentimes these emotions arise when you are caught up in routine and burn-out from repetitions., Get out and do new things, it doesn't matter what,just break out...it will make you feel invigorated... Chin up! Btw...the only place i feel i dont belong is the men's room...lol! Just makin' ya smile!

pinpinbo Joined Fri 02/07/14 Posts: 42	Fri 02/07/14 07:56 PM
asking to your big group if finally what is nothing to lose more important than your question

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 02/07/14 08:31 PM
I for one, feel like I belong everywhere I go, even the ladies room! Well only once did I ever go in there by mistake! It was at a Burger King and I had been drinking, but I used it! Side note: that place was dirtier than the mens room!

indignus Joined Sat 07/14/12 Posts: 327	Fri 02/07/14 11:22 PM
How often do you feel like you dont belong? 90% of the time

Freihti Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 103	Sat 02/08/14 03:02 AM
I dont feel like i am worth much because i get let down all the time. Either its employment or being a single guy.. I feel like no matter how nice I am, I get treated unfairly all the time. Sometimes I feel like the world is against me. you just need to step up. If there is something wrong or something you cant approve of, say it. Say it nicely however. Do not be intimidated. Just because youre a nice guy and you wont retaliate doesnt mean its okay to be stepped upon. Be assertive.

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Sat 02/08/14 09:25 AM
all the time, it's probably cuz I don't belong in the state of Buckeyes....

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Sat 02/08/14 09:35 AM
all the time, it's probably cuz I don't belong in the state of Buckeyes.... You should try the Wildcats State!!!

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Sat 02/08/14 09:43 AM
I dont feel like i am worth much because i get let down all the time. Either its employment or being a single guy.. I feel like no matter how nice I am, I get treated unfairly all the time. Sometimes I feel like the world is against me. I'm sorry to be blunt but pull your fingrer out man. Get a grip of yourself.

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Sat 02/08/14 10:13 AM
I normally have a great sense of belonging; however, during the past week I have felt I haven't belonged anywhere...hopefully it will pass soon.

06GeminiLady Joined Sat 02/08/14 Posts: 2	Sat 02/08/14 10:35 AM
Almost everyday..............Anyone from Eastern NC?

456tessa Joined Wed 07/11/12 Posts: 179	Sat 02/08/14 11:03 AM
90% of the time, but i don't feel worthless, because when people put me down i feel God raises me up, and i think more of God than of people....

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Sat 02/08/14 12:20 PM
No one is against you dude... just don't feel low... if u feel you are down work for getting up rather than giving up... ull succeed.. take care n cheer up nice advice, Bunny!

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Sat 02/08/14 01:46 PM
I have the false sense of being a homeowner. It's paid for. I fit in just fine here. I have the deal where, you don't like me or want me around, just let me know. I have a few phone numbers of folks here. I tell them, I won't pester you. I may call if, I read something disturbing to make sure they're okay.

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Sat 02/08/14 01:57 PM
all the time, it's probably cuz I don't belong in the state of Buckeyes.... You should try the Wildcats State!!! Have a feeling I wouldn't fit in there either. Not a basketball fan...lol.

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Sat 02/08/14 02:01 PM
all the time, it's probably cuz I don't belong in the state of Buckeyes.... You should try the Wildcats State!!! Have a feeling I wouldn't fit in there either. Not a basketball fan...lol. We will love you the same!

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Sat 02/08/14 02:08 PM
Awww thanks RealCarebear

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Sat 02/08/14 02:17 PM
If this is the way you're feeling, it could be a good idea to join group therapy, or talk to someone you know about it. I know therapy gets a lot of stigma, but at least if you're all grouped together, you learn how to make new friends while listening to each other. You find there's more people who will listen. It's definitely not the same as going to a therapist on your own.