Topic: Confused guy
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Mon 01/27/14 04:32 PM
Hope I find here what Im looking for, well a little about myself. I am latino age 23, 5'9 height, 165 pounds. I am so confused and feeling so lonely. Everytime I meet someone they end up leaving me :( man my life sucks! Really wish I could find someone to be a friend with or maybe date (still heartbroken) but feeling better plus trying to forget.

Also note I have always considered myself straight but until like 2 years ago have started feeling things for guys, have been trying to make myself hide those emotions but its so hard, once again i am looking for "real" friends not sex! A little emotional as of now but hope to do better. Anyone want to friend me? Ages 19-25 only please. Also Noone knows about me feeling like this and I plan to keep it in secret. So yeah

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Mon 01/27/14 04:39 PM
yea, your confused... i guess that blows the "gays are born gay" out of the water...

good luck in your confusion...

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Mon 01/27/14 05:09 PM

Hope I find here what Im looking for, well a little about myself. I am latino age 23, 5'9 height, 165 pounds. I am so confused and feeling so lonely. Everytime I meet someone they end up leaving me :( man my life sucks! Really wish I could find someone to be a friend with or maybe date (still heartbroken) but feeling better plus trying to forget.

Also note I have always considered myself straight but until like 2 years ago have started feeling things for guys, have been trying to make myself hide those emotions but its so hard, once again i am looking for "real" friends not sex! A little emotional as of now but hope to do better. Anyone want to friend me? Ages 19-25 only please. Also Noone knows about me feeling like this and I plan to keep it in secret. So yeah

Maybe the women are sensing your ambiguity, if you have one.

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Mon 01/27/14 05:35 PM

yea, your confused... i guess that blows the "gays are born gay" out of the water...

good luck in your confusion...


I don't know mate. I knew a guy that tried for years to be "normal" and he told me that he had wondered if he was gay. It seemed pretty obvious to me that he was.

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Mon 01/27/14 05:54 PM


yea, your confused... i guess that blows the "gays are born gay" out of the water...

good luck in your confusion...


I don't know mate. I knew a guy that tried for years to be "normal" and he told me that he had wondered if he was gay. It seemed pretty obvious to me that he was.


"Also note I have always considered myself straight but until like 2 years ago have started feeling things for guys, "

that doesn't sound like being born gay...

it sounds more like he wants love, and since women didn't fill the need, maybe men will...

that is confusion

hope you figure it out, Luis...

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Mon 01/27/14 07:19 PM
Maybe you're bi? At any rate, welcome to Mingle, I hope you find what you want.

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Mon 01/27/14 07:24 PM

Hope I find here what Im looking for, well a little about myself. I am latino age 23, 5'9 height, 165 pounds. I am so confused and feeling so lonely. Everytime I meet someone they end up leaving me :( man my life sucks! Really wish I could find someone to be a friend with or maybe date (still heartbroken) but feeling better plus trying to forget.

Also note I have always considered myself straight but until like 2 years ago have started feeling things for guys, have been trying to make myself hide those emotions but its so hard, once again i am looking for "real" friends not sex! A little emotional as of now but hope to do better. Anyone want to friend me? Ages 19-25 only please. Also Noone knows about me feeling like this and I plan to keep it in secret. So yeah


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