Topic: A question for the ladies
TallandIrish77's photo
Tue 01/21/14 04:17 PM
Edited by TallandIrish77 on Tue 01/21/14 04:18 PM
So far i have had one person who wasnt even within a thousand miles of me who seemed really nice then suddenly deleted, a person who wouldnt take no and kept insisting on my number despite never having even chatted on here, a scammer who wanted to talk on yahoo, and someone who was old enough to be my mother. So my question is am i doing something wrong? Am i just so ugly women run away screaming or what? I have a lot of info on my profile im honest sincere romantic and understanding and im far from unintelligent. Any ideas?

markc48's photo
Tue 01/21/14 04:35 PM
Probally a scammer. I don't use this site for dating. If I did they would have to live nearby.

soufiehere's photo
Tue 01/21/14 04:41 PM
Edited by soufiehere on Tue 01/21/14 04:43 PM

So far i have had one person who wasnt even within a thousand miles of me who seemed really nice then suddenly deleted, a person who wouldnt take no and kept insisting on my number despite never having even chatted on here, a scammer who wanted to talk on yahoo, and someone who was old enough to be my mother. So my question is am i doing something wrong? Am i just so ugly women run away screaming or what? I have a lot of info on my profile im honest sincere romantic and understanding and im far from unintelligent. Any ideas?

Hmmmm, so, too old, too chatty and too far away.
There are a million reasons left.
Just for you.

Profile seems pretty negative also.

TallandIrish77's photo
Tue 01/21/14 05:04 PM
I dont mean to sound negative on my profile or here and im not exactly sure what part you are referring to. As far as friends are concerned age doesnt mean anything to me i have had friends of all ages races religions sexual and preferences. When it comes to someone im looking to form a relationship with though its not just myself i bring into this relationship. Im also a father of a very young daughter who i have to think of as well. So with the custody of my child in mind i have been looking for someone in my area for example. Right now i dont have the means to try and date someone from another country or even on the other side of this one. Im not a picky person, but we all have our limits our interests and attractions. Some people like long hair some like facial hair some like tats or piercings. Just because someone doesnt find a certain trait attractive doesnt mean they negative. Im only putting down honesty and if it seems negative then i apologize for that but its not my intention. Its only information.

soufiehere's photo
Tue 01/21/14 05:58 PM
You need not take these ratings too personally :-)

You mentioned you were looking for honesty, so I
gave it, I usually am sorry after for doing so,
but I often think people actually mean it :-)

There is a way to present your 'needs' without
aiming it in a negative fashion, i.e. mentioning
someone can be a wee overweight, tends to make
the audience feel it is a list of things they
must/mustn't be.

It is a decent profile, nonetheless, and welcome :-)