Topic: any woman would go out with a deaf man?
chokingforlove's photo
Sun 01/19/14 08:39 AM
as a deaf man but can hear very well with a hearing aid and no problem with speech whatsoever, been on and off using many different dating sites and every woman sender seem to faded away or block me, why? it is because am deaf? the problem is why not get to know me first as maybe am the one she is looking for, unfortunately am been judge by a hearing aid and it so shallow this is, it also quite hurtful for me as am at a point of breaking apart and if this trend continue there no way knowing what i'll might do next, I've just moved into a new area and don't know anybody and am kinda very lonely, what I misses so badly is hugging, loving and pleasure, any woman on this site are not critical of me being deaf? let me show you " woman " the love I've got to offer, I would love her kids too and I dearly like to have kids to call my own as I rather die happy knowing I've had a kid also it a pride thing to make my Dad proud of me, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE stop being prejustice about me having a hearing aid as it very hurtful and have a heart woman as deafness can happen to anybody at any age, nobody is perfect and don't judge people unless you gorgeous or too hypocrite to even bother, finally have a heart please as I hated being lonely as been for three long years and it started to get to me so lift me out of this hell, thank you for reading this.............

Mississippigal2003's photo
Sun 01/19/14 11:14 PM
Edited by Mississippigal2003 on Sun 01/19/14 11:14 PM
Aw honey I'm sure it has nothing to do with ur hearing. Maybe they just don't like u. I'm jkjkjkjk. They are ignorant stuck up girls. I'm sure ur great!

Romanticmike52's photo
Sun 01/19/14 11:33 PM
Hi, I'm a deaf guy myself! I have the same problem as you, I hate barriers!

Kentishwomble's photo
Mon 01/20/14 02:40 AM



I am sorry that you have been experiencing problems with being blocked, some people can be so cruel.:angry:

If it helps I have no sense of smell what-so-ever, I have to ask complete strangers in the supermarket whether I should by various products so I don't smell like a rotting fish. laugh
Just be yourself and to blazes with anyone who wishes to put you in a box.

All the best and keep smiling.

Wanderloo's photo
Mon 01/20/14 02:11 PM
Hi :) just wanted to say that if someone can't handle the fact that your deaf, they're not worth your time. BUT this site does allow you to pick a preferred age range, which might keep you from meeting some people. All you can do is keep looking until you meet someone that fits, just like the rest of us :/

soufiehere's photo
Mon 01/20/14 04:54 PM
I am blind as can be without my glasses.
I never assume that is why someone would
turn away from me.

You should not either, as your handicap,
as you say, is surmountable, as is mine.

Easy excuse, hard reality.

If someone cannot feel who you are, as
Wanderloo said, screw 'em, you are good
enough as you are, we like you already :-)


Devonshireokoth's photo
Tue 01/21/14 01:40 AM
And I also dont have a sence of tach.but I cant feel your body wormth.

FLIGHTPHOENIX's photo
Tue 01/21/14 04:24 AM
hello i'm sorry for you have gone thru but it's true it not because you are deaf.... you only need to say one word......
an yes some people are very judgmental... just be yourself if they can't see you for who u are then F*** them you don't need them
some ladys find if you start been all creepy an pushy an needy they will pull away fast good luck to you An welcome to Mingle2flowerforyou

no photo
Tue 01/21/14 04:38 AM
Edited by Leigh2154 on Tue 01/21/14 04:39 AM

as a deaf man but can hear very well with a hearing aid and no problem with speech whatsoever, been on and off using many different dating sites and every woman sender seem to faded away or block me, why? it is because am deaf? the problem is why not get to know me first as maybe am the one she is looking for, unfortunately am been judge by a hearing aid and it so shallow this is, it also quite hurtful for me as am at a point of breaking apart and if this trend continue there no way knowing what i'll might do next, I've just moved into a new area and don't know anybody and am kinda very lonely, what I misses so badly is hugging, loving and pleasure, any woman on this site are not critical of me being deaf? let me show you " woman " the love I've got to offer, I would love her kids too and I dearly like to have kids to call my own as I rather die happy knowing I've had a kid also it a pride thing to make my Dad proud of me, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE stop being prejustice about me having a hearing aid as it very hurtful and have a heart woman as deafness can happen to anybody at any age, nobody is perfect and don't judge people unless you gorgeous or too hypocrite to even bother, finally have a heart please as I hated being lonely as been for three long years and it started to get to me so lift me out of this hell, thank you for reading this.............


If they are turning away because of your handicap, they are doing you a favor, thank them and move on...Spend time in the forums so the ladies can meet your personality...:wink: