hey... In search of a classy boy... Aam here.

*reads username...*

Oh yeah, REAL classy!!!

Looks like some people need to dig out ye olde dictionary and find out what the hell classy even means.....

Hee hee(((((Yolanda)))))
being the whole package I can go from one extreme to the other, I would be a willing Sub to the perfect man....
#picky

I think the word you want to use is honorable.
"Classy", with the way it's used toward people and what it implies, usually is a means to say one of two things:
1) "Fall into the generally expected mentality of your social level"
2) "Fall into a 'better' social mentality level" usually with the implication of "fall into my mindset/be like me and how I think" in it's undertones.
Whether it is applied directly towards people or to a situation "Classy" always comes with an implication of "wealth in appearances" for it's undertone no matter how it's used.

I will say yes, they do exist. The thing is that you usually do have to take some time to know them (basically to look for patterns in their mentality) to figure it out. We do have a society that's more about catering to it's desires more than it's about growth of a being and understanding of other beings as a priority. It also doesn't help that our only qualifying factors in society for being "A full grown adult" is that you're 18, have sex (and in some cases can reproduce) and you can make money and show it somehow. Sifting through that and seeing how individual people either gravitate towards or away from the 3 "You're a full grown adult" factors can take time. Be patient, be real, ask questions, and pay attention to who you're talking to. You get the fullest view of a person by what you see from them actively and passively.

The main thing here is that you're aware of what you don't want for yourself and from others. Since this is a matter of maintaining self respect and decency in form, don't compromise how you feel here. I say this because the person you end up with should not only love the character you have built (cuz it's part of you after all) but should also respect it enough not to try to defy that to please their own urges.

Otherwise, (BiG HuG) and keep you chill. When anyone (and I mean anyone! That's general human behavior, not anything that's exclusive to one gender!) gets too emotional there's always the potential to react and not think. A lot of the worst decisions are made from reacting as the motivation behind the decision.

(((Sherrie)))

Kinky is the new boring. I've gone back to sex only for making babies. If you are not making the baby it just isnt real enough.